how do keep yourself from getting emotionally attached? |
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 May 1 2008, 09:21 PM
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it's just that i'm sick of getting hurt...and im sick of being the one who cares so much...it just bothers me...i dunno
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May 2 2008, 12:03 AM
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It's good that you care :] And if you're sick of getting hurt.. You could stop dating for a while.
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May 2 2008, 02:26 AM
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 Why are we racing to be so old? Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Apr 2008 Member No: 645,077 |
Part of being in a relationship is trusting them that they won't hurt you.
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May 2 2008, 05:17 AM
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 55KAMG's<3 Group: Member Posts: 232 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 577,506 |
become emotionally attached with an illegal substance.
coke is a good choice |
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May 2 2008, 11:23 PM
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That sounds kind of impossible to do.
I mean, many people that gets into relationships even if they don't like each other at first will start to later on. Unless your a cold hearted person then I think it'll work. Or you can try to make yourself think that you don't care about them. |
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May 7 2008, 08:48 PM
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KEEP YOURSELF BUSY with other things, with other people, with friends, school, work, whatever.
don't distance yourself, but establish space for YOURSELF and remember your friends. if you hang out with them everyday...it will set you up for some hard times when you guys start fighting or something. |
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Aug 31 2008, 12:03 AM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ Apr 27 2008, 03:13 PM)  Uhh... I thought that was kinda the point of having girlfriend or boyfriend... LOL .. word. |
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Aug 31 2008, 08:24 AM
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Be a player. Ur out there for either the d*ck or p*ssy. No attachments what so ever. Tell anyone your going to be with that your basically there for one thing and one thing only, no harsh feelings. Or if i'm just a perv and you had no sexual intentions at all....
then don't date anyone for a while. Be single and happy with yourself. After you find that you can be happy by yourself, when it comes to another break up it won't be so difficult. cause its honestly hard to not fall for a person. If your attracted to them and they make u feel the way you feel, you cant do anything about it. |
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Aug 31 2008, 08:47 AM
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QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ May 1 2008, 06:21 PM) it's just that i'm sick of getting hurt...and im sick of being the one who cares so much...it just bothers me...i dunno THEN TAKE IN CHARGE. Watch this - here / this help. PS, beyonce explains it soo much. ;) |
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Aug 31 2008, 08:24 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
There's no fixed formula for this.
Personally, I flirt and date without getting emotionally attached because I know that I won't find my Mr. Right in high school. Being honest about your objectives before entering a relationship can also help. |
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Aug 31 2008, 08:46 PM
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I look for things that I dislike. If I think I like someone, but then I know deep down I really don't and I'm just being stupid, I just look for pimples on their face or bad habits they have. Then I think of the greasy pimples touching me. It seems to work.
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Aug 31 2008, 10:10 PM
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Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
QUOTE(TheFegNut @ Aug 31 2008, 06:46 PM) I look for things that I dislike. If I think I like someone, but then I know deep down I really don't and I'm just being stupid, I just look for pimples on their face or bad habits they have. Then I think of the greasy pimples touching me. It seems to work. If your person does not have pimples, find out which types of food makes them break out, and then offer lots of them to that person. Soon enough, pimples will emerge and you'll be disgusted. Emotionally unattached! |
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