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Help! I have a friend and she's in trouble..., She's being pressured.
luminax3
post Apr 23 2008, 05:36 PM
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I'm friends with a really good person. I will not mention her name though, oh and it's not me lol. But yeah. Anyways, she's 16 and she has a really good boyfriend whom I met, and he's the sweetest guy ever to her. He treats her so well and he's such a gentlemen. But they have not had sex yet. But lately people at my school have asked her questions like "Would you ever blow a guy?" or "Would you ever give head?" Usually she'll just say no. That she does not like it. She doesn't find anything gross and knows that it's a very loving feeling for a lot of couples. But she doesn't wanna do it. And her and her bf talked about it and he doesn't like the idea of her putting that in her mouth. He doesn't want her to do it and she doesn't wanna do it so everythings peachy right? Well not really. Because just the other day a guy had insulted her and disrespected her saying "Your really stupid. You know your gonna suck a guy off one day. So stop saying you wont. Your making yourself look stupid and you'll never get a guy to love you." And her friend told him to piss off and stuff but ever since then. She keeps thinking she's not normal or anything. And ALOT of times she would follow her heart and do the things she wants to or whatever she's comfortable with. Her bf got really pissed though and he wanted to beat the guy up. And he told her that its ok. that he'll never do something like that and that everything will be ok cuz its him and her. not him, her and other people. She trusts him so much but sometimes in class she'll think about it too hard and wonder if she's wrong for this. and i dont know what to tell her.

Oh and she's not one of those immature wishy washy girls. She's very mature for her age and she knows what shes doing.

Positive advice please? No "tell her to do it. its normal." kinda crap.
thank you.
 

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luminax3   Help! I have a friend and she's in trouble...   Apr 23 2008, 05:36 PM
Dominatrix   Moved to relationships   Apr 23 2008, 05:38 PM
Melie   no, your friend has every right to not do it. and ...   Apr 23 2008, 05:39 PM
luminax3   QUOTE(Melie @ Apr 23 2008, 05:39 PM) no, ...   Apr 23 2008, 05:43 PM
aaayotiffany   QUOTE(luminax3 @ Apr 23 2008, 06:43 PM) i...   Apr 23 2008, 05:46 PM
misoshiru   there was already someone who posted almost exactl...   Apr 23 2008, 05:40 PM
luminax3   QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 23 2008, 05:40 PM) ...   Apr 23 2008, 05:40 PM
aaayotiffany   i've never and i don't want to ever give a...   Apr 23 2008, 05:40 PM
misoshiru   http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtop...   Apr 23 2008, 05:45 PM
tilaaaaa   http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtop...   Apr 23 2008, 05:46 PM
luminax3   QUOTE(tilaaaaa @ Apr 23 2008, 05:46 PM) h...   Apr 23 2008, 05:47 PM
mizzkewl06   she's not alone on not wanting to do it. she...   Apr 23 2008, 05:46 PM
illmortal   meh let them f**k.... that's what everyone say...   Apr 23 2008, 05:47 PM
aaayotiffany   QUOTE(illmortal @ Apr 23 2008, 06:47 PM) ...   Apr 23 2008, 05:49 PM
illmortal   QUOTE(aaayotiffany @ Apr 23 2008, 06:49 P...   Apr 23 2008, 05:50 PM
tilaaaaa   Your friend should stick to her choice. Oral sex i...   Apr 23 2008, 05:51 PM
S-Majere   I really feel for your friend, she's obviously...   Apr 23 2008, 05:56 PM
doughnut   society is so damn messed up now. everyone has pre...   Apr 26 2008, 07:04 AM


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