HELP!! WHY, I KINDA MESSED UP Options

[jerk112]

So I have a girlfriend we have been going out for about 3 weeks now well this weekend i had sex with another girl it just kinda happened i think i might be a sex addict if i don't like every 1-2 months at least i kinda like have to call a friend well anyway we did this and i didn't feel bad at all no remorse or guilt afterwards nothing still like it was just sex to me nothing else i don't like the girl i mean shes pretty but thats it and i was wondering if this is weird i didn't tell my girlfriend and probably not going to i just was wondering why i don't care ?? any suggestions also her birthday is coming up and i want to get her a hoodie but i don't know what size she is like 5'6 normal weight for a girl not fat but not anorexic skinny any ideas??

[datass]

if she break up with you, she must be really stupid.

[Rachel]

hmmm well ill let you all know how we are doing in the next few weeks

Did you even tell her that you cheated on her? Honestly, you suck. GTFO

[hypnotique]

So I have a girlfriend we have been going out for about 3 weeks now well this weekend i had sex with another girl it just kinda happened i think i might be a sex addict if i don't like every 1-2 months at least i kinda like have to call a friend well anyway we did this and i didn't feel bad at all no remorse or guilt afterwards nothing still like it was just sex to me nothing else i don't like the girl i mean shes pretty but thats it and i was wondering if this is weird i didn't tell my girlfriend and probably not going to i just was wondering why i don't care ?? any suggestions also her birthday is coming up and i want to get her a hoodie but i don't know what size she is like 5'6 normal weight for a girl not fat but not anorexic skinny any ideas??

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Well I am 16 and I really shouldent be having sex.I dont even deserve to have a pair of balls and a peewee.Im such an a-hole I let my 4 inch think more then I think with my pea sized 16 year old brain and whatever left of a heart i have.So since im so cheap ill just buy the bitch a hoodie and it will be just fine.In fact ill buy her whatever is small and on clearance to let her know how much respect i have for her,So what if she has some class and wont f**k me.Ill just find another pea brained stupid c**t to do me.Id like to die of AIDS.

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Boys (Since you are not yet a man nor do you act like one) like you make me sick.

[jerk112]

wow some of you are so harsh i mean damn shit happends get over it do i feel bad i did it now yea but can i go and change it no and im not goin to tell her im not that dumb i f**ked up big time yea but its not goin to happend again so im not worried about it

[hypnotique]

Well see honey thats the problem.

You said yourself that you have a history of this,chronic cheating can turn into an addiction as you keep telling yourself that you need another woman for the 1 hour fix.

You need that punch in the balls to see that you got yourself more of a problem then you want to admit.

[jerk112]

yea but ive never cheated on a girlfriend in doing that this is the first time and last

[hypnotique]

So what would have happened if you knocked the other broad up or you got an STD?

Would you like not tell her then?

[illriginal]

So I have a girlfriend we have been going out for about 3 weeks now well this weekend i had sex with another girl it just kinda happened i think i might be a sex addict if i don't like every 1-2 months at least i kinda like have to call a friend well anyway we did this and i didn't feel bad at all no remorse or guilt afterwards nothing still like it was just sex to me nothing else i don't like the girl i mean shes pretty but thats it and i was wondering if this is weird i didn't tell my girlfriend and probably not going to i just was wondering why i don't care ?? any suggestions also her birthday is coming up and i want to get her a hoodie but i don't know what size she is like 5'6 normal weight for a girl not fat but not anorexic skinny any ideas??

LOL This belongs on a comedy.

So what would have happened if you knocked the other broad up or you got an STD?

Would you like not tell her then?

Nothin, he'd just keep havin sex, and infesting more females with STDs. Till like a year later he starts to realize he has STDs and he just spread the STD across his home town lol

[hypnotique]

Nothin, he'd just keep havin sex, and infesting more females with STDs. Till like a year later he starts to realize he has STDs and he just spread the STD across his home town lol

Yep.And by doing that would make him a felon as its a felony to knowing spread diseases like STD's or AIDS to others.

Ill be watching you on the maury show then

[illriginal]

Yep.And by doing that would make him a felon as its a felony to knowing spread diseases like STD's or AIDS to others.

Ill be watching you on the maury show then

Oh yeah.. if they have HIV and tested, and then again slept with someone without protection nor with their acknowledgment that he has HIV... that's attempted murder o.O

[jerk112]

dude i dont have an std and she was on birthcontrol and i new the girl and she just got out of a relationship with her bf for a year no stds and if i did get one from this id telll her but i dont think i am its been almost a week no signs yet atleast

[miyashu]

ok consider this: you tell your gf the truth, you look like an ass BUT at least you were honest.

OR you could just keep it to yourself forever.

my boyfriend once had some run-ins with the bad crowd and started doing the drug thing early in our relationship. he was too scared to tell me, and i eventually found out on my own. it made him look MORE like a jackass for hiding his dirty little secret. is that how you want your secret to unfold? it's better to get it over with and tell your girlfriend what happened. yeah, she'll be upset but i think it will hurt her even more if she ends up finding out later. you never know, it could happen. so if you truly do care about her, be a man and tell her the truth. she deserves to know.

[aaayotiffany]

no offense, but reading all of that kind of made me laugh.
don't get me wrong, it was a pretty bxtch-ass thing you did to her. and for you not to tell her makes you even worse. i'm a girl and i think most girls would agree when i say that i'd want my boyfriend to tell me if he cheated on me. lying is a horrible thing to do. and if you act like nothing happened and just go on with the relationship like that, it makes it even worse.

wow, you've really crossed the line.

ok consider this: you tell your gf the truth, you look like an ass BUT at least you were honest.

^yeah. in between all the hurting and anger, maybe she'll consider that you did go and tell her.

[heyo-captain-jac...]

wow some of you are so harsh i mean damn shit happends get over it do i feel bad i did it now yea but can i go and change it no and im not goin to tell her im not that dumb i f**ked up big time yea but its not goin to happend again so im not worried about it

Harsh? You fucking cheated on somebody you supposedly "love," and were harsh? You need to get the hell out of here now. And how the fuck could you not be worried about it? You seriously need to get help, and if you don't soon somebody is going to beat the shit out of you.

[tokyo-rose]

wow some of you are so harsh i mean damn shit happends get over it do i feel bad i did it now yea but can i go and change it no and im not goin to tell her im not that dumb i f**ked up big time yea but its not goin to happend again so im not worried about it

You're messing up even more by not telling her. She's going to be really angry when she finds out -- and she will find out eventually. Information like this gets around, even if you and the girl you slept with agreed you wouldn't tell anyone what you two did.

But hey, it's your choice.

[shatteredboness]

how can you NOT tell your girlfriend and feel no guilt about not telling her? you should definately fess up to her. tell her exactly how you feel. that girl you had sex with will most likely tell her friends. word gets around. even if she said she wouldn't say anything, she will. so you should probably tell your girlfriend before she does.

[shatteredboness]

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Boys (Since you are not yet a man nor do you act like one) like you make me sick.

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Reason for edit: Remove those img tags, please. ;] - Jane

[Just_Dream]

dude i dont have an std and she was on birthcontrol and i new the girl and she just got out of a relationship with her bf for a year no stds and if i did get one from this id telll her but i dont think i am its been almost a week no signs yet atleast

Some STDs might not show unless your body reacts due to physical/emotional trauma. Take Herpes (HPV) for instance. Some people might break out often, and others might have breakouts like once a year, maybe even once in their lifetime. Who knows? It depends. So you can't even be for sure what happened. It's been almost a week, you say? Different people show difference signs and it might take longer to show up.

Also you're an idiot - birth control does NOT protect you from STDs. You're still coming in contact with the skin. You're getting pregnancy confused with STDs. lol n00b. And she might not even know she has an std. You never know.



OMFG I LOVE SAILORMOON.

[Glamourouz]

Point blank, you're not ready for a realtionship...End it now, you've already messed up & then you don't even care nor want to come clean...You're young, if you think you're a sex addict or whatever excuse you wanna try to make, just be single & mess around with people that let you or whatever..don't do it at the expense of someone's feelings/heart/whatever...You can't even pull that whole we just got into a relationship thing like it's normal...once you decide to be in a relationship, it's monogamous unless stated otherwise, then you'd classify it as open if that's even really classifable b/c that's BS to me...but anyway, situations like this is how people end up with STDs (not knowing what or who their partner if they become partners is doing) & if you just kiss, it can cause the same problems b/c too many people engage in oral & go around kissing people & spreading herpes & stuff...People are so darn nasty...be responsible...a relationship is built on trust & you're already breaking that...Sex also isn't the sole purpose for a relationship or necessary & if it is then you need to get someone that fulfills that for you...you should just end it now so it won't be much harm done if any...

[datass]

THIS GUY IS WAY TOO MESSED UP TO TAKE IN ANY ADVICES. JUST LEAVE THAT HIM ALONE SO HE CAN ROT.

[hypnotique]

Some STDs might not show unless your body reacts due to physical/emotional trauma. Take Herpes (HPV) for instance. Some people might break out often, and others might have breakouts like once a year, maybe even once in their lifetime. Who knows? It depends. So you can't even be for sure what happened. It's been almost a week, you say? Different people show difference signs and it might take longer to show up.

Also you're an idiot - birth control does NOT protect you from STDs. You're still coming in contact with the skin. You're getting pregnancy confused with STDs. lol n00b. And she might not even know she has an std. You never know.
OMFG I LOVE SAILORMOON.

See stupid little boys like him are the reason why sex without a college degree should be illegal.

[mizzkewl06]

See stupid little boys like him are the reason why sex without a college degree should be illegal.

[jerk112]

So hmmmmm i read everything through and well I told my girlfriend thinking for sure it would be over.. Told her the hole story and then she came out and that in the first week we wore goin out that her old boyfriend came over and that he ate her out?? she said that she would of felt really awkward if she asked me to do that and that it was to soon so i guess we both f**ked up in the end and we both promised not to do it again and well proms in 3 weeks and the after party should be fun thanks for all the help everyone it really did help out and i feel alot better and like wow i don't even know how to explain how i feel :) :)

[Rachel]

Wow you guys suck.

[hypnotique]

So hmmmmm i read everything through and well I told my girlfriend thinking for sure it would be over.. Told her the hole story and then she came out and that in the first week we wore goin out that her old boyfriend came over and that he ate her out?? she said that she would of felt really awkward if she asked me to do that and that it was to soon so i guess we both f**ked up in the end and we both promised not to do it again and well proms in 3 weeks and the after party should be fun thanks for all the help everyone it really did help out and i feel alot better and like wow i don't even know how to explain how i feel :) :)

You both deserve nothing but death by ebola and choking on dicks.

Go knock her up and please make more retarded offspring.