Is it wrong for a 14 year old to have sex?, -poll- |
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Is it wrong for a 14 year old to have sex?, -poll- |
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#251
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well now; lets just stay on topic.
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#253
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im 14 and well i think it depends on if your comferitable with it, and if you know what your doing, so im fine with it if you know what your doing
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#254
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Yes. I was 14 not too long ago and I could not imagine having sex that young. I do have a friend whos mother's best friend's daughter is 14 and having sex. Shes had 4 different sex partners who are all 16 - 17. IMO, way too young. To me, not matter how mature you think you are at 14, theres no way you can deal with getting pregnant. I'm not saying thats what would happen every time, but its a lot riskier because most 14 year olds dont even know how to use a condom.
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#255
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I'm not saying thats what would happen every time, but its a lot riskier because most 14 year olds dont even know how to use a condom. i am 14 and i know how to use one, do think its okay, i mean i know theres everything there is to know about it and no i havent done it, but i've got plans this summer. ![]() |
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#256
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i voted no...ya some ppl at that age are immature so i can see y some voted opposite me but imho its their choice...i was 15 when i first started having sex with a bf of 6 months and we were safe about it...since then ive always been careful and used protection, ive bought bc pills continually for a while now and ive never had to worry about being pregnant ...as i see it, 14 year olds can do what they want but do it responsibly and with someone they can trust
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#257
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It's wrong. If an individual can't accept the responsibility of a child, it is wrong for him/her to have sex. A fourteen year old has neither the biological resources (emotional stability with changing hormones, etc.) nor the financial resources to provide the environment to raise a child. im 20 and when im in a serious relationship i do tend to have sex and use proper protection...i dont beleive you HAVE to be ready to have a baby in order for it to be OK for you to have sex...like i said, im 20, i still dont want a kid and honestly i probably wont want one for the entirety of my life, but this doesnt mean i should never have sex imo and the same goes for younger kids i think...they dont have to be wanting a baby in order to have sex, they just have to be responsible |
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#258
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14? shoot no, they should be watching elmo and eatting candy..
what do they know?.. |
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i wasn't even thinking of sex at 14... and i sure don't believe kids (yes KIDS) at that age should be having sex, no matter how "mature" they think they are. i had a bf but we preoccuppied ourselves with other things... like enjoying childhood & school work!!!! i think kids having sex at such a young age is the reason why there are so many kids dropping out of high school and so many teenage pregnancies.
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#260
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It's only okay if the kid knows what he/she is doing, uses protection, and is mature enough to accept the consequences. Although that is pretty rare.
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hell yea
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you wouldn't know.
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Guys, really
![]() At 14 I was still collecting Pokemon cards and arguing over who was cooler - My Chemical Romance or The Used. 14 is far too young IMO. |
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hahahha
pokemon cards. yes its wrong. but steph sucked some dicks already, so i dont know. ------------- so i realized that many of the answers here about the female. "what if she gets pregnant?" "can she handle being a mother?" what if it was a 14 year old boy having sex? would that be any different than a 14 year old girl? except for the fact he might be too young to even ejaculate, or that he won't be getting pregnant anytime soon? |
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#269
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Way too young. You're still a baby! You can't even get a learner's permit in most states at that age! Where would you even have sex? Where are your parents???
At fourteen what would you even do if the worst case scenario happened? Can you get a job? With insurance? You can't go to the doctor without your parents knowing, I know that much. This is making me feel old. And I'm only twenty. ![]() |
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#270
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no it's not wrong. it's just really disturbing thinking of 14 year olds getting it on. like i mean when ur 14, ur bodies aren't even fully developed yet (majority speaking). ewww. i don't think 14 year olds are ready for it mentally
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#271
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MY OPINION; hell yes its wrong. 14? waaay too young.
sex entails so many possible things to happen stds, pregnancy, etc. craazy lifestyle. specially at 14, immature and naive. just wait. |
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#272
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Is this really a question?
YES! It's wrong. Fourteen year olds are not capable of taking care of a baby. Fourteen year olds are still babies, themselves. |
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#273
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^Maybe they're not. But, it's still completely wrong to even do it at such a young age.
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#274
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Okay, I'm not gonna lie and say I was off doing some other gallavanting and not thinking of sex whatsoever because...I was.
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#275
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Doubleposting, reported.
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