OMG! I am a f**king bitch Options

[Sandraaa]

OMG OMG. I was SO mean to a girl on facebook that she deleted her account. The thing is, she's in France right now and will be coming to Belgium next week. But she's REALLY offended and I'm scared that she'll kill herself. I don't know how to contact her. I phoned her french number but 'twas a guy who picked up the phone. I tried skyping her but her account is gone too.

OMG OMG. I don't know what to do. I'm really sorry for what I did.
I can't sleep. I feel so horrible. Comfort me guys.

[Elba]

What did you tell her? Why were you being so mean...

[Sandraaa]

I called her sooo many names. But in resumé, I blamed her for my best friend being sent to Africa because she fell in love with a White boy. But it isn't true. We were all friends. I just wanted to blame someone. I called her a hypocritical bitch and many more. EVERY trace of her is gone.

[rnicron]

Can you try this tactic on Tama?

[Sandraaa]

-shakes head-

Nah. But you could.

[The-March-Hare]

Spencer, PLEASE stop trying to drag the same drama into every thread. It really doesn't help anyone, and frankly it's incredibly immature.

Sandra, I really don't know... the best thing I guess is just to dal with what happens when it does f she won't talk to you, take a breather, give her soe ime to work it out.

[rnicron]

Don't even get me started on you and staff James. Now THAT'S incredibly immature.

Ok, bye.

[Sandraaa]

Thanks James. I sent her a message on her French number. Even though a guy picked up the phone 4 times. -sigh-

[The-March-Hare]

Ok then. Perhaps try taking the high road, then. At the end of the day, I'm not going to have a pointless personal argument with you; I'm not interested.

But again, STOP making everything about the same old drama, please.

*edit*

Not you, Sandra, obviously.

And at least if someone else is picking up, it means that SOMEONE is there with her...

[Sandraaa]

NO JAMES. The first time it rang, a guy picked it up. I asked for Chipe and he said 'wrong number'. The second time I called, it went to voice mail: Bonjour, vous êtes en correspondance avec le boîte de message de Kevin something something. Bla bla. Well, that means, you've reached Kevin's voice mail. GAHH. She called me yesterday from France, I tried calling the number but it says it doesn't exist.

I'll just do what you advised, James. I'll be patient.

[The-March-Hare]

OH. Well that is just odd... But sit tight, and hopefully things will be OK. It's frustrating to be in this kind of situation, but don't beat yourself up too badly about it; at least until you know what the deal is.

[*paperplane*]

It could just be because I don't know the whole story, but it seems like a pretty big jump to think she may kill herself. Unless she's really mentally unstable already.

[Sandraaa]

Well, she told me she hasn't been sleeping well. She deleted me from her friends list on Facebook, THEN she deleted her Facebook. I'm very paranoid, right? She couldn't possibly kill herself.

[The-March-Hare]

I haven't been sleeping well, but that's just because my roommates are loud, lol. Honestly, she may be over reacting, but don't panic. It's only going to make you feel worse, and at this point, that doesn't help anyone.

[rnicron]

Well, look at it this way...if she does kill herself, she's deleted all the evidence.

[*paperplane*]

Things aren't actually deleted off facebook. it's a trap.

[Sandraaa]

Things aren't deleted?

[Just_Dream]

Unfortunately there's not really any other way you can contact here, huh? :/ Well did you ever save her email address? Since you can't contact by phone, maybe you can email her or something. Anyway, just tell her that you're sorry and ask her how you can make it up to her (well, as long as she doesn't ask something outrageous). If she's cool enough, she'll understand. I mean, people say things without thinking all the time.

I hope things work out. :[

[rnicron]

Things aren't deleted?

Nope. Once you delete your account, you can always reactivate it and everything is the exact same as how you left it. It's almost like you didn't leave.

[*paperplane*]

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/02/11/technolo...amp;oref=slogin

I don't know what this article covers, but i don't know how to find the articles i've read before

[Elba]

I wish myspace was like that.

[*paperplane*]

I can't even delete my myspace

[Sandraaa]

No. I don't have her email address. After my friend got sent to Africa, I blamed her for what happened (LONG ASS STORY).

Come to think of it, she's crazy. This whole situation wouldn't have happened if she wasn't suspicious. I created a 'test' group called I am a liar bla bla on facebook then sent it to some of my friends. But she got all crazy and called me from FRANCE last night asking me why I sent it to her. WTF? I explained everything. Then she writes on her facebook 'You're just another bitch ... u know nothing' WTF? WTF? Then she deletes me from her friends list. I got pissed and I sent this:

Sandra Ajayi
5:42pm Apr 19th
HAHA. I'm not on your friends list. I'd love to know why even though I think I already know the reason. If it's got anything to do with the group, I already explained what happened on the phone when you called. And there were no hard feelings. So, logging on and seeing that I was a friend short, especially you, was quite surprising.

If I'm just being paranoid, then ignore this message.

By the way, you should know that I'm not trying to force you to be my friend. I just want to know what's up.

She replied and deleted her facebook.

[transcendentalis...]

Chill out, she might just be being dramatic. Anyway, it sounds like there's not anything you could do to contact her directly. If you know her friends, that's a possibility, but if you can't get ahold of them, there's not much to do but wait.

and do you want this moved to relationships?

[Sandraaa]

No.