Oral Sex? Is it wrong for me to not give head? |
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 Apr 16 2008, 11:38 PM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 16 2008, 11:34 PM)  If you think having oral sex is degrading, then maybe your intentions for doing it is wrong. You aren't ready for it clearly. Once you learn that oral sex is a mutual feeling and the act of love for one another, and not a degrading thing to do, then sorry, you aren't ready. Well to me, people are entitled to their own opinions. I know it's a mutual feeling and alot of couples do it because they love each other. But me being abnormal and all...I won't say i'll never do it, but I wouldn't like to do it because I love him. It sounds weird, yes I know but that's the way I feel. It's hard for someone to tell me likewise. |
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Apr 16 2008, 11:39 PM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 16 2008, 11:34 PM) If you think having oral sex is degrading, then maybe your intentions for doing it is wrong. I point that out to myself only. Not other girls. Like I said, it's not me. That's why I said it might be degrading. |
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Apr 16 2008, 11:40 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
QUOTE(SAMANTHAfamous @ Apr 16 2008, 09:38 PM) Well to me, people are entitled to their own opinions. I know it's a mutual feeling and alot of couples do it because they love each other. But me being abnormal and all...I won't say i'll never do it, but I wouldn't like to do it because I love him. It sounds weird, yes I know but that's the way I feel. It's hard for someone to tell me likewise. I know what you are saying. I've never asked any of my ex to ever have oral sex with me. I've never eatin' a girl, and I've never received head. To me, I just don't like it, and it's a choice. So I know where you are coming from. Trust me. It's understandable. |
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Apr 16 2008, 11:44 PM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 16 2008, 11:40 PM) I know what you are saying. I've never asked any of my ex to ever have oral sex with me. I've never eatin' a girl, and I've never received head. To me, I just don't like it, and it's a choice. So I know where you are coming from. Trust me. It's understandable. So you think eating a girl out is gross? Well that's how I feel about head.  Well at least you know where i'm coming from. Don't most guys think it's gross that going down on a girl is nasty? |
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Apr 16 2008, 11:45 PM
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What, Tung? You've never had oral?
Actually, I was watching Tyra today, and most men in the audience enjoyed going down on their girls. |
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Apr 16 2008, 11:47 PM
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QUOTE(Elba @ Apr 16 2008, 11:45 PM) What, Tung? You've never had oral? Actually, I was watching Tyra today, and most men in the audience enjoyed going down on their girls. What interesting conversations she has.  Well not most guys and not a majority either. But little. |
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Apr 16 2008, 11:50 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Nope Elba, I've said this before in the past lol. I just think it's awkward for my girl to suck me off. But that's just me.
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Apr 17 2008, 12:31 AM
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It should be a sin for a girl not to give head.
She should lick me like a lollipop. Shawty wanna a thug thug thug. |
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Apr 17 2008, 12:31 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,645 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,975 |
Damn, but it feels so good when they know what they're doing.
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Apr 17 2008, 12:43 AM
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 drama is so intising i might just bite a mothaf**ka like tyson Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,361 |
Getting it and giving is good but its your choice some people just dont like it
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Apr 17 2008, 12:46 AM
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One time I had this girl who was so resistant to suck a dick. I slapped that bitch face with my cock about 5 times. She couldn't resist and obided, every since that first time she had my cock in her mouth its her favorite hobby next to sex itself.
Ssshe lick me like a lollipop. Shawty wanna a thug thug thug, bottles in the club, shawty wanna a hug, you know i like to touch your lovely ladie lumps. |
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Apr 17 2008, 01:03 AM
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 Vae Victis Group: Official Member Posts: 1,416 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,227 |
Wow dude, you're so edgy and cool. I read that and it totally shook my moral comfort level. Please allow twenty minutes for me to assemble an angry mob to storm your house.
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Apr 17 2008, 01:03 AM
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QUOTE(Reidar @ Apr 16 2008, 11:03 PM) Wow dude, you're so edgy and cool. I read that and it totally shook my moral comfort level. Please allow twenty minutes for me to assemble an angry mob to storm your house. Reidar you turn me on. Immensely. 
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Apr 17 2008, 01:27 AM
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QUOTE(Reidar @ Apr 17 2008, 02:03 AM) Wow dude, you're so edgy and cool. I read that and it totally shook my moral comfort level. Please allow twenty minutes for me to assemble an angry mob to storm your house. Don't worry it was morally right. A girl with my dick in her mouth is a good look. There is nothing wrong about that. That mob ain't ready for me though. |
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Apr 17 2008, 01:31 AM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
QUOTE(ImDaBestIDidIt @ Apr 17 2008, 01:46 AM) Ssshe lick me like a lollipop. Shawty wanna a thug thug thug, bottles in the club, shawty wanna a hug, you know i like to touch your lovely ladie lumps. OMG, you've been listening to too much Lil Wayne; but that song has a nice beat... Anyways, like everyone said some people like it, some people don't...I used to be the same as you until I just became more open to trying new things...just make sure you remain true to yourself, if you don't ever give oral sex, then fine... |
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Apr 17 2008, 12:49 PM
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QUOTE(Kayc05 @ Apr 17 2008, 02:31 AM) OMG, you've been listening to too much Lil Wayne; but that song has a nice beat...  I like the version with the electric guitar. |
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Apr 17 2008, 12:54 PM
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I don't like giving head. I find it degrading.
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Apr 17 2008, 02:57 PM
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QUOTE(BunkyWhiteGirl @ Apr 17 2008, 12:54 PM) I don't like giving head. I find it degrading. How old are you though? |
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Apr 17 2008, 03:06 PM
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Well me...
I would do it, but I don't want to. =/ |
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Apr 17 2008, 03:15 PM
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 awestinnn Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 460,069 |
Just ignore the peer pressure. To be honest, it's probably not going to go away. It's just one of those things you'll have to learn to live with. Be thankful that you are with a guy that honors your opinion and isn't forcing you in to anything though
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Apr 17 2008, 05:44 PM
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QUOTE(SAMANTHAfamous @ Apr 17 2008, 03:57 PM) How old are you though? 23 |
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Apr 17 2008, 06:00 PM
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Guys love blowjobs. I really can't tell you not to do it. Sure. Your boyfriend 'understands' for now. I'm sure it won't be long before he changes his mind. I love giving head. But I don't do it all the time. Maybe you should give him some but not often? Bleh.
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Apr 20 2008, 10:56 AM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
Its not wrong. I'm sure the idea of sucking dick is disgusting to some people. I know a friend who thought the whole idea is disgusting until she tried it. But yeah, don't let anyone pressure you into doing it. It has to be your choice.
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Apr 20 2008, 07:30 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
Okay well the cbc people are gonna get on me for this, but here's my confession.
I'm your age, well a little older. I found the thought of sucking a dick disgusting. Until I actually did it. ahahaha umm.. well idk you just get kindof into it. Anywaysss..I guess it really depends on your idea of having something that resembles a really big finger in your mouth. Fact is, if you don't wanna do it, then don't do it. You're not going to be considered anything less in society if you don't do it.. |
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Apr 20 2008, 11:01 PM
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just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
^my friend was the same way. she would talk on and on about how the whole idea is extremely disgusting. and then she actually did it a couple weeks ago, and she likes it
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