Pregnant 4 times, at age 16. Options

[LizzieDeeCeex3]

Because that's an analogy. But in a sense is true at that specific stage. But still... it was willed to be born. Whether it's a mistake or not... it was meant to be, people should be responsible for their actions. If we all "aborted" our responsibilities this world would be f**ked beyond belief long ago. Which sadly is goin that direction anyways =\

paper.. you don't have to agree with shit that I have to say. But the fact that you said, "abortion isn't murder, it isn't alive yet" only makes you lose creditability and my respect, for whatever that's worth.

Abortion is murder, as Paperplane said, if your heart stops beating you wouldn't be alive, a fetus' heart is beating, so it is alive, and aborting it is murder. It's that simple. If all these people can say "It's my body, it's my choice," it was your choice to open your legs and get pregnant, so deal with it. How fair is it to take the life of an innocent child, the result of your actions, and make them pay for it? It's your body? Well, you're now sharing it with someone else. And as for "not being able to live outside of the womb and surviving?" a newborn baby, without their mother, would not be able to survive on it's own, and depends on it's mother to care for it in the same ways they did in the womb. You all will understand when you have your own children. I'm sure you won't think of them as parasites then.

[Smarmosaur]

well, i "apologize" for calling her a pathological liar.
i just took it from my personal experience.
if you have proof that she's done these things-proof she was prego, proof she actually tried commiting suicide and didn't just put herself (or a family member put her) into rehab-great, dig deeper. if not, i say you ditch her...there's nothing worse that could ruin /your/ life by staying with a pathological liar (that is, if she's one), especially if they refuse help. once again, from my personal experience.


[edit-these posts are not meant to be rude, it just comes out like that]

[misoshiru]

well, i "apologize" for calling her a pathological liar.
i just took it from my personal experience.
if you have proof that she's done these things-proof she was prego, proof she actually tried commiting suicide and didn't just put herself (or a family member put her) into rehab-great, dig deeper. if not, i say you ditch her...there's nothing worse that could ruin /your/ life by staying with a pathological liar (that is, if she's one), especially if they refuse help. once again, from my personal experience.

Oh, I thought you were talking about Nicki.

[*paperplane*]

Abortion is murder, as Paperplane said, if your heart stops beating you wouldn't be alive, a fetus' heart is beating, so it is alive, and aborting it is murder. It's that simple. If all these people can say "It's my body, it's my choice," it was your choice to open your legs and get pregnant, so deal with it. How fair is it to take the life of an innocent child, the result of your actions, and make them pay for it? It's your body? Well, you're now sharing it with someone else. And as for "not being able to live outside of the womb and surviving?" a newborn baby, without their mother, would not be able to survive on it's own, and depends on it's mother to care for it in the same ways they did in the womb. You all will understand when you have your own children. I'm sure you won't think of them as parasites then.

There are plenty of pro-choice mothers. But it is your body. It's ridiculously unfair that men can have sex without getting pregnant (yes yes biology blah blah blah blah); it's your choice to have sex (assuming it's consensual), but it's not your choice to get impregnated. As you well know.

Now I wouldn't have an abortion if I got pregnant, but I'd be f**king miserable. But, I know my mom would help me take care of it. A lot of people don't have that, and I don't know if I could same if that weren't the case.

[illriginal]

There are plenty of pro-choice mothers. But it is your body. It's ridiculously unfair that men can have sex without getting pregnant; it's your choice to have sex (assuming it's consensual), but it's not your choice to get impregnated. As you well know.

Now I wouldn't have an abortion if I got pregnant, but I'd be f**king miserable. But, I know my mom would help me take care of it. A lot of people don't have that, and I don't know if I could same if that weren't the case.

Then don't have sex because of the repercussions. That's simple, it's your choice to have sex knowin that the repercussion is having a child whether you like it or not because it's not your choice, it just happens. Unless you're on a mission to have a child, then obviously you're ready and mentally/emotionally prepared for a child... the PROPER way.

Ok now I'll shut up for sure and leave the thread in peace. Good night.

[LizzieDeeCeex3]

There are plenty of pro-choice mothers. But it is your body. It's ridiculously unfair that men can have sex without getting pregnant (yes yes biology blah blah blah blah); it's your choice to have sex (assuming it's consensual), but it's not your choice to get impregnated. As you well know.

Now I wouldn't have an abortion if I got pregnant, but I'd be f**king miserable. But, I know my mom would help me take care of it. A lot of people don't have that, and I don't know if I could same if that weren't the case.

Of course we have no choice as to whether or not we get pregnant, but we know there's the risk. That's the whole gamble of having sex. There's always a chance. Is it fair that men can get away with not getting pregnant or dealig with the consequences? No. I'm not pro-life because I'm a mother, I'm pro-life because I don't believe in murder. If people want to chose, I won't stop them, if my best friend told me she was going to have an abortion, I would do my best to convince her otherwise but would support her regardless. I just can't help but think it's insensitive to say it's not murder, because in every sense of the word, it is. What this girl, Jackie, is doing, is a slow and exaggerated murder of 4 innocent babies.

It's our bodies, true, which mean it's our choice to do with it what we want. I fell in love, I did what i felt was right at the time. I'm blessed with a beautiful son. Is it hard? Yes. But it's a body, a connection you and your child share. If abortion wasn't legal, I'm sure people would be much more careful in that sense. They weren't ready to be mothers? Then don't have sex. And it doesn't matter if you're 16 or 60, you are never prepared to be a mother, never prepared for the feelings it will cause, the love you will feel, or the lengths you will go to in order to protect your children.

[*paperplane*]

Then don't have sex because of the repercussions. That's simple, it's your choice to have sex knowin that the repercussion is having a child whether you like it or not because it's not your choice, it just happens. Unless you're on a mission to have a child, then obviously you're ready and mentally/emotionally prepared for a child... the PROPER way.

Ok now I'll shut up for sure and leave the thread in peace. Good night.

f**king hypocrite.

It's not whether you like it or not, because obviously there's ways to avoid it.

Of course we have no choice as to whether or not we get pregnant, but we know there's the risk. That's the whole gamble of having sex. There's always a chance. Is it fair that men can get away with not getting pregnant or dealig with the consequences? No. I'm not pro-life because I'm a mother, I'm pro-life because I don't believe in murder. If people want to chose, I won't stop them, if my best friend told me she was going to have an abortion, I would do my best to convince her otherwise but would support her regardless. I just can't help but think it's insensitive to say it's not murder, because in every sense of the word, it is. What this girl, Jackie, is doing, is a slow and exaggerated murder of 4 innocent babies.

It's our bodies, true, which mean it's our choice to do with it what we want. I fell in love, I did what i felt was right at the time. I'm blessed with a beautiful son. Is it hard? Yes. But it's a body, a connection you and your child share. If abortion wasn't legal, I'm sure people would be much more careful in that sense. They weren't ready to be mothers? Then don't have sex. And it doesn't matter if you're 16 or 60, you are never prepared to be a mother, never prepared for the feelings it will cause, the love you will feel, or the lengths you will go to in order to protect your children.

But it's not murder. And if abortion weren't legal, people wouldn't be more careful, we'd just have more people aborting their babies in ridiculously stupid ways like this Jackie. And it's impossible to know whether you're really ready to be a mother, whether you think you are or not. You didn't think you were at 15, but handled it. Other women want children, and are horrible mothers. Too many damn variables.

Now can we all stop arguing with me? I don't give a f**k if you're anti-choice, I fully understand your position, just happen to disagree, and for god's sake that's not what this topic is about.

[EddieV]

It's something called CONDOMS

[mellysmelly]

last summer my bf and i had a "scare"
..lets jus say we had enough money to get it taken care of
and im ashamed of that but luckily nothing happened

[marielamuneka]

well i would first of all protect myself so i wouldnt end up PREGNANT but damn wth.. wow crazy bitch, anyway i would just
have the damn kid.. it would be MY fault for not bein that responsible.. << which is why most teens shouldnt even have sex
sex shouldnt happen between two people who dont know shit, and who arent responsible enough to deal with the consequences that come with making love..damn i mean if your "old enough" to have sex then you are old enough to have a baby and take care of it and people who disagree with that shouldnt be having sex..

edit: so many f**kin women out there suffering from like problems that dont allow them to make babies.. so many women out here who cant concieve a baby and really would make great mothers but cant make one of there own when they really want too.. and all these STUPID ass girls f**kin and aborting/not being careful when there pregnant.. its ashame..

[*Girthy*]

a lotta f**kin going on

[DevaintDreamer]

wow...after how many years "evolution" hence the quotes ;)
and technological advances...people still dont get the effin point ...

CONDOMS can be USED FOR MORE THAN JUST WATER BALLOONS!!!!
and last time i check people had heads for more than just a hat rack ;)

sounds to me like this chick needs a mental evalutation and a therapist.

[synatribe]

she should just get a female vasectomy [I forgot the female word, so I used vasectomy] because I wouldnt feel safe if she had ANY children

[illriginal]

she should just get a female vasectomy [I forgot the female word, so I used vasectomy] because I would feel safe if she had ANY children

Or... just commit suicide as she's nothin but a meat hole.

[Melie]

ok, i really think, and i'm not a doc or anything, but it really does sound like she is seeking attention but also pity from everyone. what's depressing is the fact that her friends are "helping" her with the abortion by drinking with her. instead of either telling her parents about her 4 pregnancies and methods of abortion, they were condoning it and assisting. talk about a dr. kevorkian session.

i seriously think that this teen is actually lacking affection and attention at home. no person would ever have 4 pregnancies and never see a medical physician for each. i personally think that she has been lying about the pregnancies only to gain some friends to hang out and drink with, and feel sorry for her.

speaking of the drinking, someone refer her to AA. if she feels she has to drink just to "abort" a pregnancy, then i don't think she was pregnant to begin with.

[Tung]

someone needs to slap that bitch

or the right guy just needs to f**k her, and get her pregnant, and lock her up, so she won't do anything stupid, and force her to have a child, then the child can suck her tits for milk. then the guy can repeat the process three more times. and four kids will be born, and we would all forget about the previous 4 embryos that she killed.

[synatribe]

someone needs to slap that bitch

lol but its kinda sad how we dont know her and we are saying things like this

[ersatz]

It's funny how the same people who are arguing against her "killing" her potential children are saying she should kill herself. Just..ironic.

She's stupid. That's too many times. Absolute idiot.
But, one question -- what kind of sex education do you have at your school? Do they tech you enough about contraceptives, or do they teach abstinence-only (like my school )?

[LoveToMySilas]

Thats horrible! Well, out of all honesty I think I'd keep the child. I could never bring myself to abort because it wasn't their fault that they were conceived. At this age, I'm in no position to support them so I think I'd put them up for adoption and put them into the right hands.

[illriginal]

[font="verdana"][size=1]It's funny how the same people who are arguing against her "killing" her potential children are saying she should kill herself. Just..ironic.

Obviously a murderer deserves to die. Don't think too hard now.

[RissyMel]

Abortion isn't murder. They weren't alive yet.

Which is not to defend this girl at all, just saying. I'd stop being a whore. I'd use protection. I'd deal with shit and have the baby, or abort it in the proper way. You know, safely. But I'd never be in her situation because I'm not a f**king idiot.

I also can't believe her friends would drink with her to get rid of it, either. How dumb do you have to be not tell your friend that that's no way to deal with things, and get her real help? I wouldn't participate in that shit.

By the time people find out their pregnant, it's living completely.
And it's been living since conception.

[Amaranthus]

She probably thinks it's fun to squash babies.

[carolannexbh]

It's funny how the same people who are arguing against her "killing" her potential children are saying she should kill herself. Just..ironic.

She's stupid. That's too many times. Absolute idiot.
But, one question -- what kind of sex education do you have at your school? Do they tech you enough about contraceptives, or do they teach abstinence-only (like my school )?

Well we're an all girls CATHOLIC school, so they teach us mostly abstinence only, but there have been a few speakers who talk about safe sex and what to do in situations if you were pregnant and your options.

[*paperplane*]

By the time people find out their pregnant, it's living completely.
And it's been living since conception.

We've been over this. Bad wording on my part. Living, but not human. Not able to survive on its own. A parasite.

Ants are living. Does that stop you from killing them?

[coconutter]

someone needs to l2birthcontrol