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 Apr 8 2008, 10:07 AM
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To make a long story short, my boyfriend lied to me. About talking to his ex-girlfriend. He had said that he was over her, and wasn't talking to her anymore, but just last night he called me to tell me he had lied to me, and he was crying because she wasn't talking to him anymore. That, of course, broke a lot of trust and respect I had for him. He's still in love with her. I can't make him change how he feels, but when he said, "I know" to when I asked that, it completely bothered me. He said he still has feelings for me, and doesn't want to lose me, but he didn't want to lie to me anymore. But despite saying that, that still doesn't change the fact that he loves her, or that he keeps talking to her. How is he going to get over her if he keeps talking to her? I'm not sure whether I should stay with him anymore, because this causes a lot of trust issues. And he did it once... who's to say that he won't do it again?
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Apr 8 2008, 10:25 AM
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 Melieized Group: Official Designer Posts: 1,372 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,715 |
well, it sounds to me like you need to really think whether or not he's worth this. you're still young and you don't need to be tied down by someone that you can't fully trust. i bet there are other good looking guys so let him get over his ex his way and without you.
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Apr 8 2008, 10:28 AM
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 Kissing for yesterday. Group: Official Designer Posts: 465 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 569,813 |
you really really need to think about this one.
it is most unfair of him to just admit he is in love with his ex girlfriend who clearly does not want to know, and also is in love with you and to hope this means he can stay with you. is he really worth spending a constant worry about if he loves another girl more than you? |
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Apr 8 2008, 10:59 AM
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When are teens gonna realize they're wastin their time messin with relationships?
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Apr 8 2008, 11:00 AM
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Since he still has feelings. Take a break. He needs to get his mind straight and maybe he just wants to be with you just to say he has a girlfriend or not. You never know he just needs to see whether he really likes you or his ex.
Plus you are young you have plenty of time to find the right one. |
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Apr 8 2008, 11:01 AM
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Kissing for yesterday. Group: Official Designer Posts: 465 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 569,813 |
QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 8 2008, 04:59 PM)  When are teens gonna realize they're wastin their time messin with relationships? most teens think this but ignore it in the end. good point though. |
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Apr 8 2008, 11:02 AM
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 drama is so intising i might just bite a mothaf**ka like tyson Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,361 |
QUOTE he was crying because she wasn't talking to him anymore  tell him to move the f**k on and kick rocks, really if you cant TRUST him like that..then whats the point? really..think about it, and move on. 
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Apr 8 2008, 11:48 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
QUOTE(vintage-toile @ Apr 8 2008, 12:01 PM) most teens think this but ignore it in the end. good point though. Yeh... they should occupy their minds with education and family values than worrying about relationships 
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Apr 8 2008, 12:11 PM
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Kissing for yesterday. Group: Official Designer Posts: 465 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 569,813 |
what do most teenagers actually fill their lives with?
i'd say in reply to "they should occupy their minds with education and family values than worrying about relationships" instead of doing this they go on myspace and post a bulletin about how bad their life is? :D go teenagers. |
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Apr 8 2008, 02:54 PM
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He can get over his ex, he just needs to give it time. I still had feelings for my ex when I started going out with my current boyfriend, even though my ex and I had broke up a year and a half earlier. Three years later, I am much happier with my current boyfriend. So, I am sure once you two start getting more seirous, he'll eventually get over his ex.
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Apr 8 2008, 11:12 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
by ex, do you mean dani?
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Apr 8 2008, 11:14 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 8 2008, 10:12 PM) by ex, do you mean dani? Most likely. I'd say if you REALLY like him, wait it out a bit longer to see if anything develops. |
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Apr 8 2008, 11:31 PM
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 isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 8 2008, 08:59 AM) When are teens gonna realize they're wastin their time messin with relationships? oh please, teens that can handle relationships can handle them fine, ALONG with your other requests to "occupy their minds with education and family values." there is nothing wrong with "wasting time messing around with relationships" as teenagers. everyone f**ks up at one point in their life, if they even f**k up. not all teenagers are useless idiots basing their so-called relationships on instantaneous infatuation. if the teen is mature or mentally/emotionally capable of having a relationship? why not? and I'm sorry, besides the fact that her profile shows she's 18, what, in her topic, informs you that she is a "teen?" of all the relationship topics I've seen around here, this is one of the more mature topics. she understands the situation, but most importantly is approaching this problem as calmly and rationally as she can. and this sort of problem has nothing to do with whether it's a fucking teen relationship or not. this shit happens in your little oh so exclusively reserved adult relationships as well. |
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Apr 8 2008, 11:31 PM
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QUOTE(Tamacracker @ Apr 8 2008, 11:59 AM) When are teens gonna realize they're wastin their time messin with relationships? This why i don't date...if been f**ked over in just about all of my relationships. |
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Apr 8 2008, 11:34 PM
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QUOTE(doiink @ Apr 9 2008, 12:31 AM) and I'm sorry, besides the fact that her profile shows she's 18, what, in her topic, informs you that she is a "teen?" 18 is a teen, why you think on some adult videos it says "teens" or sh!t like that |
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Apr 8 2008, 11:37 PM
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isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
LOL okay, you don't even know what I'm talking about. I wasn't questioning the AGE RANGE OF THE WORD "TEENS" I was asking Tama why he thinks that this girl is a teen. There is nothing in her topic that shouts OMG IM A TEEN.
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Apr 8 2008, 11:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,645 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,975 |
I would still have feelings for Dani, too.
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Apr 8 2008, 11:42 PM
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hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
^Me too!
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Apr 8 2008, 11:51 PM
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QUOTE(doiink @ Apr 9 2008, 12:37 AM) LOL okay, you don't even know what I'm talking about. I wasn't questioning the AGE RANGE OF THE WORD "TEENS" I was asking Tama why he thinks that this girl is a teen. There is nothing in her topic that shouts OMG IM A TEEN. I know, i was just saying that if shes 18 she is a teen, so tama is right about her being a teen |
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Apr 8 2008, 11:53 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
And this is why you don't involve online people into your relationship.
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Apr 8 2008, 11:54 PM
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isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
no it doesn't look like you know.
Like I said twice for you, I was asking him QUOTE why he thinks that this girl is a teen. There is nothing in her topic that shouts OMG IM A TEEN.
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Apr 8 2008, 11:56 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
QUOTE(doiink @ Apr 8 2008, 09:54 PM) uh no it doesn't look like you know. Like I said twice for you, I was asking him Because Tama is like 25 years old, and just assumes everyone is a teen on this site. |
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Apr 8 2008, 11:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,645 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,975 |
Tama needs to get his ass out of this teen site. Rico No. Two
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Apr 8 2008, 11:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,288 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,380 |
Alright i give up i don't know lol
QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 9 2008, 12:56 AM) Because Tama is like 25 years old, and just assumes everyone is a teen on this site. Lmao! |
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Apr 8 2008, 11:59 PM
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 ;) Group: Duplicate Posts: 2,374 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,760 |
lol, tama probably looked at her profile, which says she's 18.
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