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 Feb 14 2004, 03:07 AM
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 because i'm different  Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,922  |
What do you guys think about online relationships? Do you think they can work? Or are the couple destined to break up. Every case is different, nothing is 100%. But let's make a nifty list of all the pros and cons.
(Also, it's because I'm sorta in one. Well, sorta. =P) |
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Feb 19 2004, 05:24 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,566 |
i haven't put much thought into this but my 5 cents is:
can u have real sex through online?? are you gonna marry someone online?? no. so go out and have some fun. |
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Feb 19 2004, 08:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,930 |
ALK3...
...No not really, but thank for the effort. Eunie03... ...Heck no im not going to take it. That was an attack upon my self-worth and II know you felt the sarcasm in """Okay.. "thank you very much" ..happy?""" So this is what I'm going to do: 1) I'm going to drive to NY 2) Find that all girls school in Manhattan 3) Park my car at the school 4) Walk into alk's english class 5) Hit the dumb teacher(if its a guy) for not doing his job and teaching his kids what spaces are for 6) Staple a paper to Alk's desk that reads "When writing thankyouverymuch use spaces between the words." |
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Feb 19 2004, 10:15 PM
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 team late night queen Group: Member Posts: 1,602 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,861 |
egh...people.. its just an opinion...u cant tell other people if their wrong that you cant go to another school and find a boyfriend... because its just an opinion... think what you wanna......and in my opinion.. does a relationship HAVE to have sex? ..lol.. mmkay.. bye!! .. i dont mean tah offend people okay? lets just all be friends.. muahaha..lol...
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Feb 19 2004, 10:18 PM
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 ey... Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,051 |
the only online relationships i have with girls, are just friends, who i just talk to cuz they're fun to talk to and stuff, but it's never gotten to anything more serious than that.
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Feb 19 2004, 10:30 PM
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 BOO! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,542 |
QUOTE Umm ok lets see. I almost got into one but i guess it didnt work out.
Requirements for me if i would have to have an online relationship would be. - Not lying about anything - Shows a picture of the TRUE him - and all the other things i would look for in a guy... LoL. Well im owt But actually in other words nothing would really even happen so theres actually no use in doing this online realtionship thing at all... |
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| *jimmyjackiechan* |
Feb 19 2004, 10:33 PM
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i bet teh long distance trust will kill someone~
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Feb 19 2004, 11:11 PM
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 ..Michelle Group: Member Posts: 1,002 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,282 |
QUOTE(eunie03 @ Feb 19 2004, 2:48 PM) edit: where do you go, alk3? I go to Cathedral  Dr3aMeR, you seem to be taking this a bit personally. I thought it was all in good fun¿ Heh.. I'm not here to start something. And what's wrong with typing "thankyouverymuch"?  It wasn't a sarcastic comment or anything.. Just the way I felt like typing out that phrase.
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Feb 19 2004, 11:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,930 |
alk3...
i thought it was all good fun too but you just killed it with ""Heh.. I'm not here to start something."" oh and itisokaytotypethankyouverymuchthewayyoudid |
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| *eunie03* |
Feb 19 2004, 11:30 PM
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Okay, so we all agree it's all in good fun. Let's leave it at that, shall we.
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Feb 19 2004, 11:58 PM
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..Michelle Group: Member Posts: 1,002 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,282 |
Oh.. Well I must've read it wrong then. lol.. it's hard to tell how a person's actually responding through the internet.
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Feb 20 2004, 12:56 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,930 |
Numero uno...
eunie...you are too cheery, happy, want to get alongy...stop it Numero dos... alk...haha (slight laughter at the humor of it) i agree (says it in a calm matter, with slight head movement in the forward way to show agreement) its very hard to know (still calm and in agreement). (pauses to think) i recall lots of miscommunication caused by mis-interpretations of what a person wrote (waits for you to nodd your head in understanding) but i am glad we got this thing settled (slight friendly, non threatening smile) Numero tres... don't remember who started this topic but i am deeply troubled my by lack of caring to not be trying to help your problem or address your topic but instead engage in conversation with alk and eunie. (solemn voice) my deepest regrets (says this with head bent down) |
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Feb 20 2004, 02:42 AM
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 i'll treat you like milk.. i'll do nothing but spoil you Group: Member Posts: 257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 577 |
moving on..
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Feb 20 2004, 03:25 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,930 |
k00alah does not like me feel some reason...i can feel the animosity for a lack of a better word
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Feb 20 2004, 03:31 AM
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i'll treat you like milk.. i'll do nothing but spoil you Group: Member Posts: 257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 577 |
haha nah im just trying to make peace..
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Feb 20 2004, 03:34 AM
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 i will be LOVED, some day. Group: Member Posts: 238 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 263 |
Where is the love?
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Feb 20 2004, 03:37 AM
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i'll treat you like milk.. i'll do nothing but spoil you Group: Member Posts: 257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 577 |
yes yes.. black eyed peas.. where is the love??
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Feb 20 2004, 03:39 AM
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the love is gone
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Feb 20 2004, 02:55 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,704 |
I don't really believe in online-relationships... Trust issues-- you not knowing them as a person... I mean, they could be sending you pictures of someone else. Or having their friends call you. It could even be a sick joke... I don't really trust the online relationship deal.
Yeah, I know from experience... It was fun while it lasted. It was like having sex and not being able to get pregnant...lol |
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| *eunie03* |
Feb 20 2004, 04:54 PM
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QUOTE(Dr3aMeR @ Feb 20 2004, 12:56 AM) Numero uno... eunie...you are too cheery, happy, want to get alongy...stop it Actually, it was my warning to you to cut the crap. |
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Feb 20 2004, 05:22 PM
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cb=bullshit. Group: Member Posts: 1,783 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,793 |
Dr3aMeR ... I'm not sure why you're here trying to start things with other people... So what if alk didn't use spaces... You really shouldn't take things like that so seriously... and plus, she can type however she wants... but for one, maybe you should see how the word "nodd" is really spelled... and then take a look at 'Dr3aMeR'...
 -- and yes eunie.. I agree that she should cut the crap...  kthanksbye....Onto online relationships... If you really want to devote yourself to that person, sure... meeting people over the internet allows you to reach beyond being shallow and you get to be exposed to a lot of different people... especially if you're living in the same little place you've been living in since you can remember and being around the same guys/girls since you were in middle school... I think it's cool that people are willing to open up like that... but be sure you know what you're getting yourself into... because the distance separating your embrace... gets very irritating and may get under your skin and one day you're longing for their touch and it will just explode and you'll want to move onto something more real.... |
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Feb 20 2004, 09:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,930 |
DAMN
omg_melface... Shut up cause you misunderstanded..don't act like you know when you dont...and stop tryin to kiss ass to eunie eunie03... the "beach" of this forum...don't ever msg me with the stuff you got to say cause i don't care. i have a right to talk and if alk doesn't say anything about it don't get all krazy....who the hell are you stickin ur butt in other people's buisness. alk... i apologize if you were hurt or offended by any of my comments *****Though if anyone is offended by comments anyone makes its kinda sad...it shows you have low self-esteem, self-worth, self-value to let what someone say get to bother you so much. Its a forum people will say shit, in real like people will say shit...you can't go "that was your warning" and warn them and think the person will stop... |
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| *eunie03* |
Feb 20 2004, 10:28 PM
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QUOTE don't ever msg me with the stuff you got to say cause i don't care. QUOTE i have a right to talk QUOTE who the hell are you stickin ur butt in other people's buisness. A mod, actually. |
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Feb 20 2004, 10:50 PM
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team late night queen Group: Member Posts: 1,602 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,861 |
QUOTE(Dr3aMeR @ Feb 20 2004, 9:23 PM) misunderstanded.. ummm.. i dont think theres an actual word for misunderstanded.. i think its misunderstood? but im not tryin to start anything here okie? please stop fighting... the love is here.. but people just arent showing it..lol.. ..mkay.. i hope you guys start to get along soon.... lol.. ^^;; |
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| *eunie03* |
Feb 20 2004, 10:58 PM
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Haha... I'm willing to let go whenever he does.
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Feb 20 2004, 11:00 PM
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team late night queen Group: Member Posts: 1,602 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,861 |
lol..
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