No Money = No Honey |
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No Money = No Honey |
Jan 20 2008, 02:53 AM
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![]() ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Honestly girls, would you date a guy who has no money? Don't give me that bullshit about money doesn't matter and it's all about if he cares about you or not. I'm not saying that isn't important, but money is also important too. Would you go out with some dude who has no job, and no money or car to take you places, or treat you out to dinner, or get you nice gifts? Be honest.
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Jan 20 2008, 03:04 AM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 332 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,651 |
My bf fits that category. But its not like a permanent situation. Its only cuz hes concentrating on school in the meantime
He too asks me that question of why I'm with him from time to time but really its no biggie. I've always been self reliant & don't really like being helped because I feel much better about earning things. |
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Jan 20 2008, 03:07 AM
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I really don`t know.
I mean if i really cared about him, it wouldn`t matter. I mean I`d prefer if he HAD money, but whatever. As long as he`s hot. That`s shallow, i know. |
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Jan 20 2008, 03:13 AM
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![]() Pocketful of Sunshine ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Honestly, no. I mean he can be a little bit poor, but not majorly. I don't want to have to struggle that hard to get money.
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Jan 20 2008, 03:22 AM
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![]() (′ ・ω・`) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
Dating a hobo would be kinda hard.
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Jan 20 2008, 03:42 AM
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![]() Resource Center Tyrant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
If a guy had no job, no money, no car would mean that he has no priorities or a sense of responsibility; therefore, I could and would never possibly date such a guy. Is he going to be mommy's little boy until he's 70? No.
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Jan 20 2008, 03:46 AM
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
I have money as evidenced by my expensive lifestyle, but I will admit I don't have a whip. Hell I don't even have a license, but I do have a driver so that does count for something right?
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Jan 20 2008, 04:08 AM
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!~@*&+;$ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,033 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 579,371 |
honestly, i'm fine with dating someone who doesn't make as much money as i do but i couldn't date someone who sat on their ass all day while i worked. i'm not asking for a ballin' rich boyfriend but someone that can atleast pay some bills and has some self-responsibility :).
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Jan 20 2008, 05:50 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963 |
nope i would never date a broke guy, it would just show how lazy and unintelligent he is. my mom says the financial status is one of the most important things in a relationship. look at it this way, if the guy was in loads of debt and in a financial crisis he would definitely be majorly stressed and grumpy even to his partner which would affect the relationsip alot cuz there's no hot hot hot passionate love or that sweet carefree moment where they're cuddling and whatever. and many many other examples.
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Jan 20 2008, 10:57 AM
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![]() ;) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Duplicate Posts: 2,374 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,760 |
It depends on the situation.
I really don't think it's that hard to get a job and if he can't, then something other than having-no-money is wrong with him, i.e. he probably doesn't have any motivation in life and thinks bumming around is good enough - which I don't agree with. But, say he was in college and trying to make it on his own... there has to be some point in time where he's going to be really conservative with what he's got and that's fine with me. I don't need a guy with money, but if the fact that he has no money potentially reveals something faulty about him as a person, then yes, I have a problem with that. |
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Jan 20 2008, 11:50 AM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Banned Posts: 252 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 608,556 |
mo money = mo probleme
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Jan 20 2008, 12:11 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
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Jan 20 2008, 12:16 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 278,251 |
I want the guy with money. How's he going to take me out to dinner if he didn't?
Steal the food out of the trash... HA! |
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Jan 20 2008, 12:42 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
^ who say anthangg he payinn../ maibii he wantt u da payy fo himm..
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Jan 20 2008, 12:44 PM
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![]() YUNJAESU<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 1,291 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,275 |
I'm fine with having a middle classed boyfriend. He doesn't need to be extremely rich, but as well can't be extremely poor. He has to have enough money to support himself, pay bills and etcetera. He could have a bit of self-responsibility. :)
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Jan 20 2008, 12:58 PM
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![]() just another girl ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
he doesnt need money right now. we're in high school. he's a senior, i'm a sophomore. we have plenty of fun hanging out at home. but when we're older it would be nice if he had more money
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Jan 20 2008, 01:11 PM
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![]() Miss DIY ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,251 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,294 |
I think I'd go on a few dates with him and just fool around (if he's hot), but there is no way in hell that I will ever date a guy again who makes me pay for his movie tickets and dinner. f**k that.
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Jan 20 2008, 01:19 PM
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Jan 20 2008, 01:23 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Banned Posts: 252 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 608,556 |
we got bitches on the right
niggaz on the left bitches wanna f**k niggaz wanna fight do what you gotta do n***a keep it site cause the n***a right there are westside 4 life |
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Jan 20 2008, 01:33 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
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Jan 20 2008, 01:35 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Banned Posts: 252 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 608,556 |
oo yea man tomorow is school
im very sad |
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Jan 20 2008, 01:36 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
i bet u madd quiett in reall lifee huh.. HAHAHAH!!!
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Jan 20 2008, 01:36 PM
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![]() vivacity ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 3,183 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,247 |
Honestly? No.
As straightfoward as that sounds, it's true. And besides it would be hard to go out with someone who was in debt and had no money. It would be sad if you had to pay for every single darn thing. And if they were nice, they wouldn't use you to that paying advantage. |
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Jan 20 2008, 01:37 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Banned Posts: 252 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 608,556 |
yo im a rich boy
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Jan 20 2008, 01:40 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
i cann c dat boi.. with you lil bling blingg.. ^^
workk dat shiett boi n git dem girlzz on da streetz..!! 2 badDD u gott no game... |
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