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 Apr 2 2008, 10:22 PM
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hey guys..I just broke up with my gf because she was really indecisive and she always said that she didn't like the relationship because we didn't spend enough time together
I keep thinking...and i need something to occupy my mind. I'M GOING NUTS. |
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Apr 2 2008, 10:49 PM
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 Kris is getting bonified. Group: Member Posts: 3,172 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,366 |
Do something you really enjoy to do. I just recently got "dumped" - ish with my ex, so I basically danced & sang my ass off. Pretty bad, but whatever. I calmed down a bit and talked to a few of my family about it.
You can be like a girl and eat tons of food, but you might want to watch the weight, lol. Try listening to a ton of music? I don't know. |
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Apr 2 2008, 10:55 PM
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 Hablamos Español. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,283 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 549,364 |
wow, i can totally relate. It's pretty hard not to think about someone you care alot about, specially if you were together a while.
I suggest you try filling up your time with things you enjoy doing, hang out with buddies maybe get high? Im not sure what your into but another thing that helped me alot was crying my little heart out. It only works for some people though. Its odd how you broke it off because "you didnt spend enough time with eachother" yet here you are thinking about her... Well whatever you do, DO NOT head for the fridge, because that is how you turn into a fat tub of lard, and its all because of love. 
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Apr 2 2008, 10:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,863 |
She kept on saying we didn't spend enough time with each other and like I didn't want her to be in a relationship with me if she wasn't completely happy. I'm not the crying type..im the more sit there with a blank expression type lol.
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Apr 2 2008, 11:36 PM
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 yo yo yiggidy yo. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,606 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,591 |
go out with your friends. a lot.
or if it really bothers you, talk to someone about it. anything really to keep your mind off of it. |
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Apr 3 2008, 12:13 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,288 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,380 |
QUOTE(danceeNAKED @ Apr 2 2008, 11:55 PM)  maybe get high? Thats what i do =) 
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Apr 3 2008, 01:04 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,863 |
I used to smoke weed but I haven't smoked for quite some time and I wish to keep it that way. I figure people find it unattractive when you smoke. However, smoking weed does sound good, haha.
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Apr 3 2008, 09:57 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Apr 2 2008, 11:22 PM) hey guys..I just broke up with my gf because she was really indecisive and she always said that she didn't like the relationship because we didn't spend enough time together I keep thinking...and i need something to occupy my mind. I'M GOING NUTS. Pick up on photoshop, web development, sports, video games, racing cars or workin on cars... I'm sure there's somethin out there that you'd like to do or continue doin and you should :P |
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Apr 3 2008, 10:17 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 717 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,551 |
If you like playing video games, do that. Find an MMO online and grind to your hearts content. That's what I did with my last break up. I know it sounds hard, but just try not to think about it too much. Find things to distract you, like instead of sitting there with a blank expression and thinking of her, go read a book or watch a movie. Talk to friends and get into a serious discussion about anything BESIDES her. Go out to an amusement park or hang out with your friends.
I know its difficult, but you'll pull through this. You can also always talk to fellow cBer's or me, and we can help distract you. :] http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...=0#entry1757259 This also has some good ideas. |
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Apr 3 2008, 10:27 AM
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 The Illustrious Mari C. Group: Member Posts: 586 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 26,671 |
Just continue doing the things you occupied your time with before you got a girlfriend...it's quite hard not to think about it for a while, but once you get back into the swing of things & hang out & meet new people, it won't really be on your mind anymore...video games or your friends might help you right now
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Apr 3 2008, 11:26 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,223 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,356 |
Try a new activity. Try the gym. Or better yet, get yourself a new girlfriend?
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Apr 5 2008, 09:32 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Apr 2 2008, 11:22 PM) hey guys..I just broke up with my gf because she was really indecisive and she always said that she didn't like the relationship because we didn't spend enough time together I keep thinking...and i need something to occupy my mind. I'M GOING NUTS. eattt sum NUTZZ.... n showw mee u gurllfriendd pix.. |
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Apr 5 2008, 09:39 AM
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 drama is so intising i might just bite a mothaf**ka like tyson Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,361 |
QUOTE(danceeNAKED @ Apr 2 2008, 11:55 PM) wow, i can totally relate. It's pretty hard not to think about someone you care alot about, specially if you were together a while. I suggest you try filling up your time with things you enjoy doing, hang out with buddies maybe get high? Im not sure what your into but another thing that helped me alot was crying my little heart out. It only works for some people though. Its odd how you broke it off because "you didnt spend enough time with eachother" yet here you are thinking about her... Well whatever you do, DO NOT head for the fridge, because that is how you turn into a fat tub of lard, and its all because of love. listen to what she said.. just try and move on it's hard.  |
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