Pregnant 4 times, at age 16. |
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 Apr 2 2008, 05:36 PM
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I have a friend (Jackie) at school whom I've met at the beginning of the year. She seemed pretty nice and didnt seem too different than any of us. But she recently told me that she has been pregnant 4 times and after she found out, she would call her friends and they would all drink heavily until the baby died. She also said that she would "accidently fall down stairs" as well. My other friend CC has been with her when she's done this, and says its nothing more than a ton of hard liquor, throwing up, and falling a lot.
My question: If you were at such a young age and got pregnant, what would you do? |
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Apr 2 2008, 05:37 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
wth! what a nutcase
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Apr 2 2008, 05:38 PM
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 metalmouth hoee Group: Member Posts: 786 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 566,794 |
BE LIKE JUNO.
 actually, it all depends on the situation. But i would never do something like that 
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Apr 2 2008, 05:38 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Wow, she basically murdered 4 people. That's freakin' crazy. She really needs to talk to someone about this problem she has, and start being more responsible and use protection whenever she have any kind of sex.
I can't say what I would do, since I'm a male, but if I were a female, I wouldn't be in that position in the first place. |
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Apr 2 2008, 05:39 PM
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 Lurker. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,161 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,851 |
Get help. I don't actually don't know what I would do. But then again, I wouldn't get myself pregnant if I didn't want to be.
But yeah she's a nutcase. |
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Apr 2 2008, 05:39 PM
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Two days before the start of spring break she attempted suicide by ODing on advil. She had an entire bottle. She was entered into an 8 day rehab and she brags about it. She pretty much brags about everything bad that she's done.
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Apr 2 2008, 05:41 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
It's something called CONDOMS. Teach her that. She's not only a basketcase, she's a f**king idiot, and she's doing more harm to herself than her potential children. Get professional help, both in psychiatry and a gynecologist. I'm past that age, but if I were that young and got pregnant, I wouldn't try to give myself a miscarriage.
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Apr 2 2008, 05:44 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
Holy crap! Is she like mentally retarded!?!
I think she needs to learn what a C-O-N-D-O-M is. |
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Apr 2 2008, 05:44 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
It just shows that she's a f**king attention whore, who probably lied about being pregnant all those times. The fact that she goes around bragging about doing all this makes it quite obvious.
If I got pregnant before I want a kid, I'd abort it. I don't care, if it's inside the womb, before the 1st trimester, imo it's a parasite. edit: Actually, I think it would depend on my age. If I'm at an age before I can support myself, then no I don't think that I would abort it. But if I were 14, then yes. And of course, if I were pregnant, the whole situation would change, and I'd probably have to rethink everything. But I'm definitely very much so Pro-Choice. |
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Apr 2 2008, 05:46 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
i don't get this, it seems like after the first time she wouldn't want to go through that again and would take extra measures to make sure she didn't.
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Apr 2 2008, 05:47 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
IT'S BECUZ SHEZ AN ATTENTION WHORE.
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Apr 2 2008, 05:48 PM
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Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
Apparently, she really enjoys packing fetus like clockwork.
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Apr 2 2008, 05:48 PM
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ROFLMAO She got pregnant before being an adult 4 times... wow huge failure. Then to make it even worst lol she drank alcohol to kill all 4 babies.
Fail #1 getting pregnant prior to marriage x4 Fail #2 drank alcohol for an evil deed... x4 Fail #3 murdered x4 Tell her to commit suicide, she's already on her way. But I also agree with misoshiru, attention whore. |
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Apr 2 2008, 05:50 PM
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Jc, its more like shes f**king retarded and doesnt really care about her body at all. She doesnt have any respect for herself or for the babies that shes making. I know for a fact she doesnt use condoms, obviously. And Yan lin, I know she is an attention whore, I just can't believe someone would go [i]that far[/] for attention. Its terrible.
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Apr 2 2008, 05:51 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
I personally don't believe that she's actually gotten pregnant 4 times. By the 4th time you abort the fetus in this way, your body will have suffered so much trauma that you would most likely have to go to the hospital for treatment. Sure, she probably would just invite friends over to drink to "kill the baby." Whatever. I see it more as making up shit because she needs the attention.
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Apr 2 2008, 05:56 PM
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QUOTE(misoshiru @ Apr 2 2008, 06:51 PM)  I personally don't believe that she's actually gotten pregnant 4 times. By the 4th time you abort the fetus in this way, your body will have suffered so much trauma that you would most likely have to go to the hospital for treatment. Sure, she probably would just invite friends over to drink to "kill the baby." Whatever. I see it more as making up shit because she needs the attention. Yeah I see that girl losing her life after the next birth... her vital organs must be horribly damaged. That many times having a fetus at such an underdeveloped stage of her life, then drinking heavily during pregnancy (which the body during this phase absorbs more than it normally would) that many times?... geees she's literally killin herself. |
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Apr 2 2008, 06:00 PM
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^ She really is. She already tried to kill herself by ODing. Its really rather sad/pathetic/disgusting.
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Apr 2 2008, 06:15 PM
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Wow. That's about all I have to say at initial reaction. If I were her, I absolutely would not try to have a miscarriage four times. I would have spoken to my parents about getting an abortion, or at least getting on birth control pills. She needs to learn how to for herself and the potential lives she's creating.
Then again, when you say she tried to kill herself by OD'ing, you slightly have to wonder about her side of the story, what she's going through. Maybe she just made the wrong decisions. Four times. And brags about them. o_O |
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Apr 2 2008, 06:22 PM
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QUOTE(Reconditee @ Apr 2 2008, 07:15 PM) Wow. That's about all I have to say at initial reaction. If I were her, I absolutely would not try to have a miscarriage four times. I would have spoken to my parents about getting an abortion, or at least getting on birth control pills. She needs to learn how to for herself and the potential lives she's creating. Then again, when you say she tried to kill herself by OD'ing, you slightly have to wonder about her side of the story, what she's going through. Maybe she just made the wrong decisions. Four times. And brags about them. o_O Yeah but part of the point of life is to learn right from wrong. For f**k sake is this bitch mildly retarded? If she's retarded then I'll understand.... if not then well maybe she really does deserve to die? (damn I'm evil) |
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Apr 2 2008, 06:28 PM
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aha, i pretty much agree with the sympathy-whoring part, but if i was such a young age and got pregnant, one of my options would definitely NOT drinking till it dies. If I were to abort it, I'd do it properly, not doing it in such a horrible manner. :| Wtf? messedddd
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Apr 2 2008, 06:42 PM
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Holy shit, if you're going to put the baby down, at least have an abortion. Don't fall down the stairs and drink the baby away. That's just totally stupid. And plus, she's not just hurting the baby, she's hurting herself too.
I think I would advise my friend to either keep the baby, or put the baby up for adoption. The baby deserves a life. Make that the 4 babies. |
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Apr 2 2008, 06:46 PM
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QUOTE(Tungster @ Apr 2 2008, 06:38 PM) Wow, she basically murdered 4 people. Abortion isn't murder. They weren't alive yet. Which is not to defend this girl at all, just saying. I'd stop being a whore. I'd use protection. I'd deal with shit and have the baby, or abort it in the proper way. You know, safely. But I'd never be in her situation because I'm not a f**king idiot. I also can't believe her friends would drink with her to get rid of it, either. How dumb do you have to be not tell your friend that that's no way to deal with things, and get her real help? I wouldn't participate in that shit. |
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Apr 2 2008, 06:53 PM
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i think if i would have been in that situation (the first time) i would have kept the baby and not make the same mistake again. but if i wasn't able to keep the baby i would opt for adoption. it's careless that if you've already made the mistake of getting pregnant once that would allow it to happen 4 times, especially being so young.
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Apr 2 2008, 07:12 PM
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QUOTE(paperplane @ Apr 2 2008, 07:46 PM) Abortion isn't murder. They weren't alive yet. ROFLMAO    Then I guess I could say that if I traveled back into the past, killed your parents; that's a form of aborting you and wouldn't be considered murdering you, right? I can't believe I attempted to take you serious all those other times. |
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Apr 2 2008, 07:14 PM
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And I'm supposed to take you seriously when you talk about traveling back in time and killing my parents?
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