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 Mar 12 2008, 12:42 AM
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I don't know how to say this, however the past couple of days me and my girlfriend have been talking and everytime we talk it's as if she brings something bad up about myself, whether it's me being a jerk sometimes towards other people and etc etc. It has been really bothering me, im always so nice to her and yet I feel she treats me poorly.
What do I do? |
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Mar 12 2008, 12:58 AM
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 creepy heather Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580 |
call her out on it . . . she needs to seriously readjust the way she talks to you so dont let her step all over you or it will probably just get worse
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Mar 12 2008, 01:09 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,863 |
I think im going to do that..I can't take anymore of this shit. I feel like im going to snap any moment now..
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Mar 12 2008, 07:56 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Well maybe it depends on what she's saying. Is it targeted towards how you treat other people, your habits, etc.? If it is, then it's clearly a sign that she wants you to change. Just make sure you're able to change what's within your capacity, or what you're willing to change. Offer a compromise - criticize something about her to her face so she gets a reality check so she should change some of her bad habits as well.
But if she's constantly bagging on you for no reason and you're taking it like a wuss (no offense), you definitely should talk to her about it. I agree with Heather (Heathasm). Don't get whipped! lol Good luck! |
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Mar 12 2008, 08:12 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Mar 12 2008, 01:42 AM)  I don't know how to say this, however the past couple of days me and my girlfriend have been talking and everytime we talk it's as if she brings something bad up about myself, whether it's me being a jerk sometimes towards other people and etc etc. It has been really bothering me, im always so nice to her and yet I feel she treats me poorly. What do I do? Ask her what's good... she obviously has some sort of problem with you. If she can't answer then drop her. You don't need the negativity of others in your way. But then again, you gotta keep in mind she's probably joking. They say that people without siblings have the hardest time gettin a long with people because they never had their chops busted by a sibling. So they tend to take everything serious and to the heart. |
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Mar 12 2008, 05:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,863 |
Most of the times I joke around and act like a jerk...maybe it's just I joke too much and she takes it seriously, i dunno..
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Mar 12 2008, 08:06 PM
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 ‹(. .)› Group: Official Member Posts: 2,367 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,089 |
^ based on your previous post, i'm leaning towards that answer.
when females constantly bring the same things up, it usually means you either aren't considering what she had to say, or she's simply a naggy bitch. more than likely, she feels serious about whatever issue she keeps bringing up. like was said above, offer a compromise, or figure something out by talking it out. and by talking i don't mean her bringing it up and you ignoring it ;o. |
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Mar 19 2008, 07:40 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Mar 12 2008, 01:42 AM) I don't know how to say this, however the past couple of days me and my girlfriend have been talking and everytime we talk it's as if she brings something bad up about myself, whether it's me being a jerk sometimes towards other people and etc etc. It has been really bothering me, im always so nice to her and yet I feel she treats me poorly. What do I do? uh.. PIX..? |
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Mar 19 2008, 07:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,863 |
what?
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Mar 19 2008, 08:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
uhhh i wanna c you girllfriend pix..
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Mar 20 2008, 04:53 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,863 |
wtf? why do you care?
can someone close this topic for discussion please? |
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Mar 20 2008, 02:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
man kid.. i need pix so i can help man..
you can tell what they like if you see tha pix yo.. that y i ask 4 pix.. |
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