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 Mar 2 2008, 01:46 PM
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I was wondering how I can regain my gf's trust...I made her a promise that I wouldn't smoke anything whether it be cigarette or anything else..and on Saturday I smoked a cigarette...I wasn't thinking at the moment..can someone give me some tips or something?
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Mar 2 2008, 01:49 PM
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Was it your first time smoking, or did you promise her you'd quit and never smoke again?
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Mar 2 2008, 02:07 PM
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Tip: Keep your promises in the future. The girl's worth more than what cigs give you.
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Mar 2 2008, 02:10 PM
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Does she know that you smoked a cigarette? And yeah, never break promises that you give to a girl. That shows you don't give a shit. It'll be pretty hard to regain a girl's trust once you break a promise. Just talk to her about it and maybe she'll forgive you. Just try not to f**k up again like you did this time. That's all you can do as of right now since you already messed up. >__>. Try to never touch a cigarette again (and quit too). Saying you weren't thinking wouldn't be a suitable answer for your girlfriend either.
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Mar 2 2008, 02:18 PM
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QUOTE(superficial @ Mar 2 2008, 02:10 PM)  Does she know that you smoked a cigarette? That was my other question. If she doesn't know, you should tell her what you did and truly resolve never to smoke again. It's not good for either of you. |
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Mar 2 2008, 02:26 PM
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yeah, she knows that I smoked a cigarette. My smoking wasn't an addiction, I used to smoke worse things and I hadn't smoked for a long time and when I was at the party I just lit up a cig. But, I stopped smoking everything for a long time now.
I talked to her and she forgave me. I'm pretty stupid, smoking doesn't make me happy, she does... |
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Mar 2 2008, 02:28 PM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Mar 2 2008, 02:26 PM) I talked to her and she forgave me. I'm pretty stupid, smoking doesn't make me happy, she does... Oh, I'm glad everything's okay. Keep your promise this time. Would you like this topic closed now? |
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Mar 2 2008, 02:32 PM
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ummm...mah advice to you is tell her the truth i know she might freak out but its better to tell the truth cuhz if she know at the end you broke the promise and you lied.....=/ not a good sign mah boyfriend give me the same exact promise and he broke it i was mad at the beginning but at least he didnt lie to so i forgave him and i just made sure he didnt break it again=] good luck buddy :cool:
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Mar 2 2008, 02:55 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,863 |
yeah sure, it's fine if you close the topic. Thanks everyone, I really appreciate it.
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Mar 2 2008, 03:27 PM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Mar 2 2008, 02:07 PM) Tip: Keep your promises in the future. The girl's worth more than what cigs give you. LOL You got that right... lol |
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Mar 2 2008, 03:28 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
How old are you?
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Mar 2 2008, 04:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,863 |
i'm 18
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Mar 2 2008, 05:46 PM
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QUOTE(Edwinbarkhordarian @ Mar 2 2008, 02:55 PM) yeah sure, it's fine if you close the topic. Thanks everyone, I really appreciate it. Closed. :) |
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