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 Feb 25 2008, 10:41 AM
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so i went on a date with this girl. let's call her kate. the date seemed to go well. i asked kate about the date and she said she had fun. she said she wanted to go on a 2nd date and gave me her number.
so days later we talked on facebook and she told me she only felt comfortable talking to me online for the moment. so we talked online every now and then. i called her but as expected the girl never returned my phone calls for shit. she always had an excuse. plus i would ask every now and then if she wanted to go out on that 2nd date?? always an excuse she had.. i'm busy school.. blah...blah..blah. vday she gave me the let's be friends speech. she was mentioning some stuff about her past relationships, but i was tuning her out because of all days to give me that bs line she chose vday. so i said to myself.. i was gonna ask her out one last time and if i got bsed around? then i was done with it. it just so happens she wants to do something. i suggested bar and a movie or dinner and a movie. she chose dinner and a movie. that and she wants me start texting her. with us finally on the virge of going out again.. what do you think she wants from me?? my cousin insists she wants to screw me. does anyone think the same thing? |
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Feb 25 2008, 11:47 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,020 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,785 |
I bet your cousin is a guy.
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Feb 25 2008, 12:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 80 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,948 |
yes.. he is a guy, but what does that have to do with anything?? stop speaking in riddles.
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Feb 25 2008, 12:11 PM
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 muffin D= Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 618,651 |
yep...just like a guy....everyone wants to "screw" everyone-I hate that term.
uhm it sounds to me she's not interested dude...or maybe she is and she just doesn't want a relationship right now. we woman are strange and complicated creatures. 
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Feb 25 2008, 12:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,020 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,785 |
Maybe she was confused if she liked you or not.
Just because shes thinking about going out with you again, doesnt mean shes going to screw you. |
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Feb 25 2008, 11:03 PM
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 ‹(. .)› Group: Official Member Posts: 2,367 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,089 |
are you sure she's not just wanting to hang out with you "as friends"?
maybe ever since the "let's be friends" speech, she assumed you agreed with her, and so now she's comfortable being around you. either way, i think you still have a chance, especially now that she's shown a bit of interest. |
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Feb 25 2008, 11:28 PM
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 creepy heather Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580 |
she so wants to do you man just f**k her and get it over with
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Feb 26 2008, 01:23 PM
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 cake or DEATH Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 631 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,586 |
i hope you actually listened to her when she was talking about her past relationships. it just seems selfish of you to tune out that important info.
and if "busy with school" was the only excuse she was giving you, i think you should respect that. school might be her top priority at the moment and maybe she doesn't want to deal with anything that could distract her. i could be wrong, but this is something to keep in mind. i think she's just being friendly with you. go out with her; see what happens. |
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Feb 27 2008, 09:15 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 152 |
miyashu, your buddy icon is adorable btw.
and i agree, women are strange creatures. just go out with her and see what happens that night. if you don't feel anything come out of it, i say just remain as friends. |
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