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 Feb 18 2008, 01:16 AM
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 DeadlyKitten  Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 612,383  |
me and my boyfriend both believe in God...but me being a christian i believe in Jesus and a whole lot more. he doesnt really consider himself to be a religion. i believe that sex, and everything to do with sex should be saved for marridge. we've done stuff and even had sex but i had to stop because it was going against my beliefs. he still wants me to give him bj's and he still wants to touch me down there...i'm like...anymore...just not wanting to. i'm worried that if i say i want to stop anything sexual...that he'll leave me...or even worse cheat. i love him and he loves me..but its like...i'm forcing myself to do things to him...its almost not fair. like in my oppinion true love waits....but at this point...i dont think he will. what should i do??? i'm so worried about it. i'm not turining this into a God thing...so don't call me stupid for what i believe...its just that...since we dont believe things the same way...i'm worried if i stop all sexual things with him he'll cheat or leave.
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Feb 23 2008, 02:51 PM
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QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Feb 23 2008, 01:46 PM)  If you read my post and want to say something…try saying something nice. 1. I'm the happiest person I know. 2. Misinterpretations are cute. 3. Misinterpretations are still cute. |
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Feb 23 2008, 03:14 PM
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 Vae Victis Group: Official Member Posts: 1,416 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,227 |
Nobody is really "pinning this on the boyfriend". Since it's DeadlyKitten who wants to take the initiative in abstaining from these things, then, naturally, the onus is on the other partner to accept those conditions.
Or else we'll break his knees. |
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Feb 23 2008, 03:23 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Agreed, but I also don't think that she should be worrying about whether or not he is going to cheat on her. I have seen this too too many times with girls that I know, and they all regret having sex in the first place.
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Feb 23 2008, 10:23 PM
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QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 23 2008, 06:35 PM) This thread upsets me so much, in such an unpopular manner. I will never ever date a religious person again, f**king never. yea...no my last girlfriend dumped me when she found out i was christian, i wasn't even hiding it, it just never got brought up...and then she asked me to go shopping on sunday, and i said i had church....i didn't like her that much anyway 
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Feb 24 2008, 01:41 AM
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DeadlyKitten Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 612,383 |
QUOTE(JCLore @ Feb 23 2008, 10:23 PM) yea...no my last girlfriend dumped me when she found out i was christian, i wasn't even hiding it, it just never got brought up...and then she asked me to go shopping on sunday, and i said i had church....i didn't like that much anyway thats just sad. what a b-i |
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Feb 24 2008, 05:02 AM
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QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Feb 24 2008, 02:41 PM) thats just sad. what a b-i yea, but my gf at present is 3 times the person she was so im ok, once more shes a proud christian which is awesome...and i never would have met her if my ex hadn't dumped me  god works in mysterious ways 
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Feb 24 2008, 09:39 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(JCLore @ Feb 24 2008, 04:02 AM) god works in mysterious ways Like cancer; cancer is mysterious as f**k. |
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Feb 24 2008, 10:11 AM
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 Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 23 2008, 01:51 PM) 1. I'm the happiest person I know. 2. Misinterpretations are cute. 3. Misinterpretations are still cute. That is the most disturbing and unsettling Nate post ever. Please don't ever post like that again. |
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Feb 24 2008, 11:13 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
i hate it when people mention God in the same breath that they use to judge a person's value :)
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Feb 25 2008, 05:26 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Feb 24 2008, 10:13 PM) i hate it when people mention God in the same breath that they use to judge a person's value :) Why? |
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Feb 25 2008, 08:51 AM
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I <3 Nate.
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Mar 6 2008, 10:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 682 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 580,818 |
QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 24 2008, 10:39 PM) Like cancer; cancer is mysterious as f**k. no its not it can be explained through careful wording and long medical terms that i can't even pronounce 
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Mar 6 2008, 10:56 PM
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sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
QUOTE(NoSex @ Feb 25 2008, 06:26 AM) Why? QUOTE(JCLore @ Feb 24 2008, 06:02 AM) yea, but my gf at present is 3 times the person she was so im ok, once more shes a proud christian which is awesome...and i never would have met her if my ex hadn't dumped me
god works in mysterious ways |
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May 27 2008, 01:53 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 652,935 |
If a guy would honestly leave you for standing up for your beliefs, then he isn't worth your time.
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May 27 2008, 02:17 PM
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mee JEWWWESHH... mee boyyfrriendd stilll withh moi..
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May 27 2008, 03:25 PM
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 I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
QUOTE(PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL @ May 27 2008, 03:17 PM) mee JEWWWESHH... mee boyyfrriendd stilll withh moi.. ..... your a gay jew? 
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May 27 2008, 03:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 717 Joined: Mar 2008 Member No: 636,551 |
QUOTE like in my oppinion true love waits....but at this point...i dont think he will. Didn't you just answer yourself right there? If it is true love, then he'd wait. But you're saying you don't think he'd wait, meaning he isn't your true love. Honestly, if he wants you to do things that are against your religion and beliefs, and doesn't respect your wishes, then he isn't worth it at all. (That's probably not something you'd want to hear, but its the truth) Communication is the key element to any relationship, so you should talk to him about this -- how you feel. If any guy would leave you just because you won't have sex with him, does this not tell you something? To me, that's like saying sex is all he wants from you, and you deserve better than that. |
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May 27 2008, 07:16 PM
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He'll definitely cheat on you.
and of course, it's all your fault.
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