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 Feb 12 2008, 07:38 PM
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 Sing to Me  Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808  |
I know we use to get a ton of girls posting topics like, "OMG! AM I PREGGERS?" and we got really tired of dispensing the same, common sense advice. Yet, I think for most sexually active teens, a pregnancy scare is always there. And obviously, teen pregnancy is still a huge problem. For those of you who are/were sexually active, did you ever get a pregnancy scare? Did it turn out right? Wrong? If it was wrong, did it have any effect on how you have sex (aka, did you learn to be safer)? |
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Feb 12 2008, 07:51 PM
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Being a (potential) teen parent doesn't apply to me anymore. I'm no longer in that demographic.
 I've had plenty of scares and one really unfortunate letdown. I was almost a father once. |
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Feb 12 2008, 07:52 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Oh yeah. It can be...scratch that. It IS a very scary thing. Thats kinda what made me pledge to abstinence til the next eternity
 I've been clean since! Well...luckily I was negative and ended up getting my period the same day I left school to get tested. (Womp womp...) But it definately opened my eyes to see what a jerk my ex was cause he said if I was to just kill it. (Who says that?) Anyway, getting back on topic. Don't have sex, kids. You will get pregnant and die.
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Feb 12 2008, 07:56 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(LoveToMySilas @ Feb 12 2008, 06:52 PM)  Oh yeah. It can be...scratch that. It IS a very scary thing. Thats kinda what made me pledge to abstinence til the next eternity I've been clean since! Well...luckily I was negative and ended up getting my period the same day I left school to get tested. (Womp womp...) But it definately opened my eyes to see what a jerk my ex was cause he said if I was to just kill it. (Who says that?) Anyway, getting back on topic. Don't have sex, kids. You will get pregnant and die.Sex is a fantastic event. |
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Feb 13 2008, 09:43 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,071 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,748 |
^^
As long as one is careful, yep. But yeh...this is why birth control is a good thing. =p But yeh, I got really paranoid cause my period was late, but I think I was just stressed and then it was late and then I got more stressed, so yeah... |
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Feb 19 2008, 01:42 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
"I'm pregnant."
"Really? Are you sure its mine? "Yes..." "Gotcha, bitch!" |
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Feb 19 2008, 01:44 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
I really want to have a kid. Like right now.
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Feb 19 2008, 01:46 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
I want 4.
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Feb 19 2008, 01:47 PM
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QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Feb 19 2008, 01:44 PM) I really want to have a kid. Like right now. I'd advise against that. . . I've never thought I was pregnant after sex, in any case. However, I do know that a lot of my boyfriend's friends have had girlfriends who went around lying that they were pregnant, for god knows what reason. Attention? To salvage the little bits left of their relationship? "Our relationship may be falling to shit, but I'm pregnant, so you have to stay in this." |
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Feb 19 2008, 01:48 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
True, I am just on the dumps tis all. The joys of not having a job!
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Feb 19 2008, 01:51 PM
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Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
We're in the same boat. I want four Dobermans (which I will consider my babies, anyway), but my boyfriend is limiting me to two. How messed up is that? What a control freak.
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Feb 19 2008, 01:53 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Indeed. I am in the position where right now, I have let one bad thing expose all of the bad things that I have done, and I have been at a complete standstill.
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Feb 19 2008, 01:56 PM
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Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
May your future babies heal you. Have you found yourself a mama?
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Feb 19 2008, 01:57 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
HAHA, hell no I haven't. I haven't been out to any social activities in about 4 weeks.
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Feb 20 2008, 06:22 PM
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QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Feb 19 2008, 12:47 PM) I'd advise against that. . . I've never thought I was pregnant after sex, in any case. However, I do know that a lot of my boyfriend's friends have had girlfriends who went around lying that they were pregnant, for god knows what reason. Attention? To salvage the little bits left of their relationship? "Our relationship may be falling to shit, but I'm pregnant, so you have to stay in this." "A baby don't keep no man..." A man doesn't need to be a husband to be a father. If his girlfriend is acting up, then so be it. I don't encourage broken homes, but I support single parents, especially single fathers. |
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Feb 27 2008, 09:19 AM
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one of my ex's didn't get her period for six months. she gets it every other month, so it's three skipped cycles.
she took two tests, they both came out postive. the next week she took another one, came out negative. thats probably the biggest scare i had... in my entire life. i was 17 back then too |
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Feb 27 2008, 09:32 AM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3 Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486 |
we have had a couple scares a few years ago. there was one time when we both thought we were. we were both getting to be very excited ( i have a medical issue and i most likely wont be able to have children over the age of 23)i was 17 at the time. I was outa school had a very nice job at the hospital. he had his own place. it would have worked. then we were let down.. big time. its a year later. and now we are just waiting to find out the sex of the baby!
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