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[randomgirl]

well i really like this guy and im sure he likes me too, but i just somehow cant make the first move. i keep dropping him hints but he doesnt pick them up. should i wait for him to move or should i?

[JokeInsideJoke]

if you know he likes you, GO FOR IT!

[michellerrific]

Guys are stupid. Sorry to be blunt but I've talked to other guys and they totally agree that they are stupid. Bottom line is, guys DO NOT get hints. Trust me, I've gone through that I'm-dropping-hints-but-you-don't-get-it phase. You have to be direct and straightforward. Or if he's smart enough he'll realize soon enough.

[CapCaDancer]

Grrr guys never take the hints!!! Stupid stupid stupid! Or he may see them and just be too shy/nervous or not know what to do. If you know he likes you, stick with it. C= Is he worth the wait?

[randomgirl]

well, i just called him and asked. turns out he didnt like me and i assumed wrong. damn, damn, damn

[michellerrific]

^ Well congrats. IMO, that's a slightly risky movement. Well at least you were up and front with it. He must be wack for looking like he likes you but doesn't. Oh gosh I feel just like you right now T___T.

[JokeInsideJoke]

well, i just called him and asked. turns out he didnt like me and i assumed wrong. damn, damn, damn

omg........ guys are such assholes

[randomgirl]

i still cant believe it...he didnt menting anything or talk to me the whole day today.i mean, all i said was that i liked him which is true...i hate all guys

[karmakiller]

I agree it was a risky move. But you told him you loved him? No wonder he got scared and said he didn't like you. Correct me if I'm wrong, but that's what it sounded like you told him. Saying that you love someone and being told by someone that they love you is a huge step. I'd think "Hey wanna go to a movie?" is a big step from someone that I've just been talking to. If someone said "I love you" I'd freak. And probably hit them and stuff.

[DoubleJ]

Guys are stupid. Sorry to be blunt but I've talked to other guys and they totally agree that they are stupid. Bottom line is, guys DO NOT get hints. Trust me, I've gone through that I'm-dropping-hints-but-you-don't-get-it phase. You have to be direct and straightforward. Or if he's smart enough he'll realize soon enough.

No offense, but you have no clue what you are talking about. I checked your age, because I figured that no grown person would be saying this jazz. Let me just say this to all ladies 20 and older: Guys do get the hint, but maybe you girls are too naive and you think that a guy is always supposed to bow down to you....not going to happen. Have you ever stopped to think that the guy may not say anything because he is scared too? Or maybe it is because he just doesn't want to be blunt and say that I just don't like you the same way, because females tend to read too too too much into things? Didn't think so.

[*yrrnotelekktric*]

Guys are stupid. Sorry to be blunt but I've talked to other guys and they totally agree that they are stupid. Bottom line is, guys DO NOT get hints. Trust me, I've gone through that I'm-dropping-hints-but-you-don't-get-it phase. You have to be direct and straightforward. Or if he's smart enough he'll realize soon enough.

That`s a pretty harsh generalization. I must say some guys are stupid, maybe even most. But not all.

Anyway, I say just make the first move.

[ChangeofHeart]

No offense, but you have no clue what you are talking about. I checked your age, because I figured that no grown person would be saying this jazz. Let me just say this to all ladies 20 and older: Guys do get the hint, but maybe you girls are too naive and you think that a guy is always supposed to bow down to you....not going to happen. Have you ever stopped to think that the guy may not say anything because he is scared too? Or maybe it is because he just doesn't want to be blunt and say that I just don't like you the same way, because females tend to read too too too much into things? Didn't think so.

DoubleJ took the words right out of my mouth

[RosesForever]

No offense, but you have no clue what you are talking about. I checked your age, because I figured that no grown person would be saying this jazz. Let me just say this to all ladies 20 and older: Guys do get the hint, but maybe you girls are too naive and you think that a guy is always supposed to bow down to you....not going to happen. Have you ever stopped to think that the guy may not say anything because he is scared too? Or maybe it is because he just doesn't want to be blunt and say that I just don't like you the same way, because females tend to read too too too much into things? Didn't think so.

Hm... In this case, unfortunately, he wasn't scared. However, a lot of guys are scared to pick up hints, at least my boyfriend was back then. I had to be open like what randomgirl did.