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[theguardsman]

guys..i need help again
what should i do to show that i care for me girl...
my girl thinks that i dun care bout her..
but the thing is that my parents are so harsh on me...they grounded me recently cuz i got home drunk
so then..ididnt see my girl for like a week..but it seems forever for me.
but now im on holidays so then i can see her or at least do something special...any ideas?
i dun wana screw this up before valentine's....
please helpp!!!
wt shud i do to my girlto show her i care bout her

[superficial]

Th best way to show a girl that you care about her is to just tell her. Be honest with her and treat her right. Don't let her get into a bad position or walk down the wrong path. Tell her that you care about her. Give her her favorite flowers, and try to be sincere. Try to spend as much time with her as possible, and give her a surprise, or ask her friends to ask her what she wants for Valentines Day or what she wants to do for Valentines Day, but tell your friends to be sneaky.

Why exactly does she think that you don't care about her anyways?

[Melie]

each woman is different though, only you know what she's like.

[theguardsman]

like i dunt think she rly knows how hard i try to get out aand see her recently...she told me to go out on saturday or sunday...but i cudnt...cuz im grounded..but ive been trying to convince my parents to just let me go out one day with my friends..but they just wudnt. they want me to "shop" with them...ive been trying SO SO hard..like literally annoying them to let me go find my "friend" (cuz i didnt tell them bout it) for the whole fking day...and they just wudnt..but idun think my gf knows it...i think she just think i dun try hard enuf to convince my parents to let me find her..and probably not showing that i care bout her...hoenstly, ithink i shud get her more things..ive only gave her like a necklace and a bracelt for the whole time we've dated. i duno.

ive told her a million times and she thinks its just words. i think i shud rly do something asap. but i hv no idea. flowers is a bit too cheesy and ordinary (no offense).

yeah. ive thought bout a surprise..but wt shud it be...something more..special wud be better hahaha

[theguardsman]

each woman is different though, only you know what she's like.

i thinkshe wants surprises/special memorable/unique stuff...
ive once carved i love u on a chocolate bar hahaha...(heres an ideas for u peeps out there!)
but i cant think of anything special now hhahha

[superficial]

like i dunt think she rly knows how hard i try to get out aand see her recently...she told me to go out on saturday or sunday...but i cudnt...cuz im grounded..but ive been trying to convince my parents to just let me go out one day with my friends..but they just wudnt. they want me to "shop" with them...ive been trying SO SO hard..like literally annoying them to let me go find my "friend" (cuz i didnt tell them bout it) for the whole fking day...and they just wudnt..but idun think my gf knows it...i think she just think i dun try hard enuf to convince my parents to let me find her..and probably not showing that i care bout her...hoenstly, ithink i shud get her more things..ive only gave her like a necklace and a bracelt for the whole time we've dated. i duno.

ive told her a million times and she thinks its just words. i think i shud rly do something asap. but i hv no idea. flowers is a bit too cheesy and ordinary (no offense).

yeah. ive thought bout a surprise..but wt shud it be...something more..special wud be better hahaha

Decorate her locker and put pictures of you guys around it. Put "Your name + Her name" on the locker or something. Haha, I got that from One Tree Hill... but that's a good idea. I'm sure she'll find some sincerity in that. And put it with lots of girly stuff and put ribbons and bows everywhere. And when she opens her locker, come out with something (idk, use your imagination) and tell her you really do care about her and that you love her. I'm pretty sure she'll believe you this time.

Oh, and if that's the problem about you being grounded, then you should try to explain it to her and tell her why you've not been going out/hanging out with her lately. I'm sure she'll understand. Can't you contact her other ways and try to talk to her on MySpace, AIM, MSN, or by phone? But you don't always have to be materialistic and give her gifts. You can simply just act like her boyfriend, and act like a good one. Trust me, things that make a relationship grow is things that you cannot buy, but things that you can do.

[Melie]

i thinkshe wants surprises/special memorable/unique stuff...
ive once carved i love u on a chocolate bar hahaha...(heres an ideas for u peeps out there!)
but i cant think of anything special now hhahha

well to me it sounds like your parents are trying to spend time with you without telling you. but you're not opening up to them about your gf so they don't know that you're in love with someone and you want to spend quality time with them especially on valentine's day.

as for your gf, something memorable huh?

why not try having dinner on top of the roof of a building? privacy, privacy, privacy!!!

[theguardsman]

haha i once did that one tree hill to my ex before..but ive actually never watched one tree hill hahaha
damn. butthe problem again for this..is that im not in thesame school as her! hahah. thts why we usually only see each other once or twice a week!

actually, im planning to get a heart shape balloon...and put reasons of why i love her in it hahahaha. then attach a pin so that she can burst it hhaha...is this a good idea??

[transcendentalis...]

if you can get the balloon to her, i don't see why not.

i'd suggest a letter - and yes, i actually do mean letter with the envelope and stamps. don't go overboard on the objects, otherwise they'll just become cliche.

you could tie a balloon to her mailbox on the day that the letter gets there too, and tell her to check her mail :P

[Melie]

umm...do you really want her to break your heart? i mean that's what the symbolism that i got from it?

[transcendentalis...]

^i think you're thinking about it in a rather unorthodox way...

[theguardsman]

oh yeah. so it aint a good thing eh?
shud i just hv an ordinary ballon instead..so then its like..getting two balloons..orr gahh.. im not even sure

either...
one heart shaped balloon..with reasons why i love her...
or..
one ordinary balloon..with reasons why i love her...
or...
hving two balloons...haha.

[DeadlyKitten]

i'd leave her a rose at her front door with a note saying "This rose doesn't compair to how beautiful you are." anything romantic will show a girl you care. most guys find it hard to show they care because they dont know how to be romantic

[Melie]