So how do you say no? |
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 Jan 16 2008, 10:29 PM
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So...friday night...
you go to the movies, meet a new guy, and then he later tells you "we should hang out sometime." you don't want to hook up with him, so how do you say no? |
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Jan 16 2008, 10:32 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
no
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Jan 16 2008, 10:32 PM
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 :) Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,636 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,459 |
Just tell him no. Simple as that.
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Jan 16 2008, 11:01 PM
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 whtever Group: Member Posts: 150 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 603,643 |
say i'm not interested.
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Jan 16 2008, 11:07 PM
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 isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
if you have trouble outright rejecting him, give him the rejection hotline!
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Jan 16 2008, 11:14 PM
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 We're in for one wild night. Group: Member Posts: 402 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 603,255 |
Give him a fake number.
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Jan 17 2008, 12:09 AM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Just say "Oh yeah I'll call you sometime. I have lots of stuff coming up this week, but when I'm done I'll give you a call" and then ummm forget to call.
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Jan 17 2008, 12:14 AM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jan 16 2008, 07:32 PM)  no Jc read my mind. |
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Jan 17 2008, 03:21 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
It depends on how he says it.
If he is really respectful and sweet about it I tell him as politely as I can that I have a boyfriend, even when I didn't. If he is cocky and rude I insult him until he backs down. I can be really mean if I am pushed to that point. |
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Jan 17 2008, 03:23 AM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
Tell him that you like girls.
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Jan 17 2008, 05:03 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
Whats up with this lying and bending the truth? Then females wonder why guys won't leave them alone.
Say no. Thats it. No formula to it. No n***a wants to waste his time chasing some hoe that really doesn't give two shits about him. Its simple. "Yea, so lets chill sometime." "No, n***a. I'm not feelin' you." |
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Jan 17 2008, 05:27 AM
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Kudos, Brandon.
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Jan 17 2008, 08:21 AM
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Tch, Brandon.
 Be polite, but firm. |
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Jan 17 2008, 06:59 PM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
Sometimes polite doesn't always work. Guys are stubborn by nature.
"You're a nice guy and all..." isn't a good start, because we already know where its going. And if you don't want to be friends, don't suggest that we should be friends. |
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Jan 17 2008, 07:45 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
I will give you an example:
Random Girl who I wasn't really feeling like that: Hey so I am really enjoying this, we should definitely do this again. Me breaking out of character to be impolite: Listen ma, if you ain't making them cheeks clap, then you are wasting your time. Random Girl: Oh..... Me: Yeah....TAXI! |
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Jan 17 2008, 08:17 PM
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 Communication breakdown. Group: Member Posts: 603 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,691 |
^Ouch.
So, perhaps a bit more politeness is needed when rejecting a girl? But no is always the best way to go :] |
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Jan 17 2008, 10:53 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Yes, no is definitely the way to go. Like Brandon said, if you continue to give a guy the hint that he can stay around, it will only do more bad then good.
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Jan 18 2008, 12:18 AM
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 Miss DIY Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,251 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,294 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jan 16 2008, 09:32 PM) no Wise word |
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Jan 18 2008, 12:28 AM
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"No, thank-you."
Don't lie to him; it's not very becoming. |
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Jan 19 2008, 01:49 PM
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QUOTE(sugalove1215 @ Jan 16 2008, 10:29 PM) So...friday night... you go to the movies, meet a new guy, and then he later tells you "we should hang out sometime." you don't want to hook up with him, so how do you say no? ... wur da part he say he wannaa hook up../ i dun c dat part../ maibi he just wanna hangg out.. big deal.. askk him wur.. if itz museum or mall den just say ye.. who cur.. |
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Jan 19 2008, 02:05 PM
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you say "sorry, i'm busy" or something clever, that'll let him no your completely not interested
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Jan 19 2008, 02:57 PM
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no
man love the truth just say MUTHA f**k YOURE UGLY I HATE YOUR FACE SO GET OUT he will be sad but he will know the truth
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Jan 19 2008, 03:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,011 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 533,410 |
^ I don't think she wants to sounds like a b*tch
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Jan 19 2008, 03:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Banned Posts: 252 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 608,556 |
OKAYYYYY
so just say NO |
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Jan 19 2008, 03:08 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
LMAO!!!
bietch NOX.. nicee trydaa givee advicee boyy.. go workk withh yourr girll blazin B.NOX.. den comee bak n givva advice...   
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