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 Beer, helping ugly people have sex since 1862!  Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,574  |
jus had my last phone convo with my gf.. ex gf 20min ago.
how do i get over her? |
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Jan 19 2008, 05:45 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
I'm sorry. Breaking up is a lame situation.
Um, whenever I had a relationship that ended I would always take more hours at work, work harder at school, practice drums, listen to music, and hang out with my friends. I always tried to fill my time so I didn't have any time to sit and wait for him to call or think about calling him. Eventually you will get over it and you will realize that you and this person breaking up was a good thing. |
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Jan 19 2008, 05:57 AM
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Beer, helping ugly people have sex since 1862! Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,574 |
sigh. i just feel so stupid. i feel like i meant nothing to her. im a dumbass...
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Jan 19 2008, 06:07 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
Well, what happened?
Everyone always feels stupid when they break up. I can't find the words for it in my head but it's like you put so much time and effort into someone, you trust them, and it turns out you were wrong. Relationships are sometimes cruel jokes. It feels like you will never be happy again, but you will be. Relationships are like addictions. If you spend all your time with someone and you always do things with someone when you suddenly stop doing those things you will go through withdrawals, but you will eventually get better. You just have to occupy your mind until that healing process stars. |
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Jan 19 2008, 06:16 AM
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Beer, helping ugly people have sex since 1862! Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,574 |
we were good together for like 6months.
we skipped school, mom and cops got involved. she moved back to china, it became long d. and things started getting f**ked. we made promises, but that didnt mean shit to her. wow. now im jus pissed at her -_-. Chris Daughtry - Over you best song ever. |
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Jan 19 2008, 09:49 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
you chek outt gayy pron..
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Jan 19 2008, 12:17 PM
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 YUNJAESU<3 Group: Official Member Posts: 1,291 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,275 |
 Well, even though said already, just occupy your mind for now. Keep yourself busy so that you won't think about her. Find a new girl to hang out with. :) |
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Jan 19 2008, 12:20 PM
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 isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
distraction is key. freetime leads to thinking which leads to reminiscing which leads to pain. as superfish has stated, hang out with friends, listen to music, play an instrument, etc.
but while I was typing this the only thing on my mind was: YES YOU IS ON THE MARKET NOW. |
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Jan 19 2008, 12:35 PM
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Hey, I kind of know how you feel, and honestly working harder and doing other shit didn't help me at all. I just couldn't concentrate because I was not over her.
Basically the same shit happened, we were great for a year, I knew she really cared about me. And then I moved, it became long distance, and eventually she started becoming a bitch and cheated on me. There was nothing I could do to get over her, I had a fling with another girl in the same month, it only felt good for a while but my mind was always on her. Bottom line is, long distance is harsh, and to get over your girl you're simply gonna have to wait. It took me a month or two to get over mine. But now I know to never trust a girl as much again, ever. |
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Jan 19 2008, 12:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,028 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 579,129 |
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 19 2008, 09:49 AM)  you chek outt gayy pron.. Lol. |
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Jan 19 2008, 01:26 PM
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Beer, helping ugly people have sex since 1862! Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,574 |
QUOTE(i_liek_sushi @ Jan 19 2008, 12:35 PM) Hey, I kind of know how you feel, and honestly working harder and doing other shit didn't help me at all. I just couldn't concentrate because I was not over her. Basically the same shit happened, we were great for a year, I knew she really cared about me. And then I moved, it became long distance, and eventually she started becoming a bitch and cheated on me. There was nothing I could do to get over her, I had a fling with another girl in the same month, it only felt good for a while but my mind was always on her. Bottom line is, long distance is harsh, and to get over your girl you're simply gonna have to wait. It took me a month or two to get over mine. But now I know to never trust a girl as much again, ever. thats basically what happened. she grew colder and colder, i was too f**kin stupid to not see it coming. i dont think ill ever trust a girl as much again either. and no, no gay porn thats what u do, fagget. |
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Jan 19 2008, 01:27 PM
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I'm sorry. =/
But hey... now you can find somebody better. This'll only make you stronger. As other people said... distract yourself with school, work, friends, etc. |
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Jan 19 2008, 02:02 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
i just skipped school (and exams) like a madwoman when i lost him for a while... i worked out like crazy every day until i just fell asleep. working out got my mind off him more than skipping school. i had a really cool friend who skipped with me (yeah, even during exams) and we just vandalized up the area... if you know anyone who'd spend time with you distracting you, even if you're not great friends, go hang out with him/her. do something wild. you don't need her for anything, right? people make mistakes, so you're not the only one in the world 
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Jan 19 2008, 02:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
^jeez.. u keepp ittt REALLL huh..
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Jan 19 2008, 02:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,011 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 533,410 |
^ I hope you get banned, i can't stand you.
but anyways, i hope you feel better (to the topic starter). It always sucks breaking up, specially if you put more into the relationship. Try hanging out with friends and stuff so you can get over it. |
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Jan 19 2008, 02:19 PM
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For me usually getting another BF really quick helps me or just getting a boy toy... He he..
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Jan 19 2008, 02:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(OhSoDanny @ Jan 19 2008, 02:18 PM) ^I hope you get banned, i can't stand you. but anyways, i hope you feel better (to the topic starter). It always sucks breaking up, specially if you put more into the relationship. Try hanging out with friends and stuff so you can get over it. uhh ye.. he askk fo advicee soo i givv daa dudee advicee.. bietchh plz.. git bann fo wat../ 2 sexyy../ when u breakk up.. it aintt hardd da git back up.. alot u just nub and dun wanna b alone r sum shiet.. dat why tha buncha fugly couple out tha.. cuz they just go out n find somebody.. n u got high standard ppll who ratha stay singlee untill dey findd somebodyy just @zz hot as dem.. so prideeazia.. you cann go out n findd sum fuglyy gurll if u cantt standd be alonee or u justt git up n shakee shakee dat offf.. |
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Jan 19 2008, 02:24 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,011 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 533,410 |
^ ur typing sucks, and your always telling people to go watch gay porn...ughh
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Jan 19 2008, 02:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(OhSoDanny @ Jan 19 2008, 02:24 PM) ^ ur typing sucks, and your always telling people to go watch gay porn...ughh !!hey dat shiet workk 4 me.. so im justt trydaa help.. |
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Jan 19 2008, 02:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,011 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 533,410 |
^ It's not really helping, it's just making you look like an idiot..but you knew that, your just trying to live up to your title right?
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Jan 19 2008, 02:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
stopp spaminn foo..
title.. @zz beinn sexyy.../ dun gitta try.. |
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Jan 19 2008, 02:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,011 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 533,410 |
^ whatever..someone get this kid spelling lessons or something, he sounds stupid.
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Jan 19 2008, 02:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
nguoicasison 1
ohsodanny 0 GG thankk youu fo playin..!!
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Jan 19 2008, 03:23 PM
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QUOTE(PrideOfAzia @ Jan 19 2008, 02:26 PM) thats basically what happened. she grew colder and colder, i was too f**kin stupid to not see it coming. i dont think ill ever trust a girl as much again either. and no, no gay porn thats what u do, fagget. yeah well, don't worry too much about it. It was probably bound to happen, I've seen so many good relationships shatter when they become long distance. And honestly long distance isn't really worth it, it took me a while to understand that. Next time, don't get too deeply attached to another girl, even the ones who you think would never hurt you end up hurting you the most. |
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Jan 19 2008, 03:50 PM
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Beer, helping ugly people have sex since 1862! Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,574 |
^ thats so true.. girls u thought wud never hurt u will always hurt u the most. ah well `` thanks guys. (girls too)
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