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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 19 2008, 10:55 AM)  i bet u i got mo gamee den u FOO!! i can get gurlz without tryin 2 foo!! what are we in, grade school? and please, can you spell correctly? anyway, i would suggest that you guys grab some food, go out somewhere busy and just people-watch. you can start conversation and whenever it seems to die down, find some ridiculously obscure-looking person and point it out, talk about it... don't talk trash, but it can't be so bad to find something weird to talk about right? :/ good luckk |
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Jan 19 2008, 01:58 PM
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QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Jan 19 2008, 01:56 PM) what are we in, grade school? and please, can you spell correctly? anyway, i would suggest that you guys grab some food, go out somewhere busy and just people-watch. you can start conversation and whenever it seems to die down, find some ridiculously obscure-looking person and point it out, talk about it... don't talk trash, but it can't be so bad to find something weird to talk about right? :/ good luckk LMAO!!!! wat happen wen tha no obscure lookin person around../ |
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Jan 19 2008, 02:02 PM
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sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
i'll call you.
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Jan 19 2008, 02:10 PM
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OoO shiet..!!
  2 bad i'll be with u mom at that time.. so my cell ginnna b offf.. |
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Jan 19 2008, 02:15 PM
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you could try asking a lot of questions, but that would get annoying.
did you guys talk much before? and do you guys have much in common, because that might be a problem? |
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Jan 20 2008, 01:09 AM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
"awkward" silences happen all the time with even the best of friends. but, maybe if you take a closer look you'll see they aren't really "awkward" just normal silences.
Fill up those times to think about what you'll say next, to make it meaningful, rather than something that will go in one ear and out the other. |
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Jan 20 2008, 01:17 AM
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awkward silences happen. wait it out. try to find something new both of you have yet to do. like a new restaraunt, a new movie, a new sport. just something new. believe me that really helps. when the candle burns out, light a new one. gotta keep the flame going
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Jan 21 2008, 08:14 PM
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just give each other space i guess
the more you're withe each other the more awkwardness good luck 
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Jan 21 2008, 08:20 PM
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Just stare at him.
You'll eventually make out. And forget all about it. Well until next time. |
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Jan 21 2008, 08:38 PM
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tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Jan 19 2008, 10:17 PM) awkward silences happen. wait it out. try to find something new both of you have yet to do. like a new restaraunt, a new movie, a new sport. just something new. believe me that really helps. when the candle burns out, light a new one. gotta keep the flame going i really like that idea
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Jan 21 2008, 09:04 PM
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QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Jan 21 2008, 05:20 PM) Just stare at him. You'll eventually make out. And forget all about it. Well until next time. palabra. |
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Jan 25 2008, 06:27 PM
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I really think you two should break up if this is the case. It sucks short term, but will benefit you both in the long run.
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Jan 25 2008, 08:59 PM
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just tell him "this always happens, theres always an awekward silence". but say it as if your just joking around, or if your a bit tipsy
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Jan 26 2008, 03:06 AM
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tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
^are you for real?
say it as if you are tipsy. now that you've read that statement again does it sound smart to you? |
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Jan 26 2008, 03:08 AM
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no miss
sorry miss Edit: how bout if your really hyped up??? |
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Jan 26 2008, 03:11 AM
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 This bag is not a toy. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,090 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,108 |
I usually am the cause of awkward silences.
 In all seriousness, relationships work when you know what to do with those "awkward" silences. As long as you two are comfortable, that's the most important thing. |
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Jan 26 2008, 03:54 AM
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QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Jan 25 2008, 03:27 PM) I really think you two should break up if this is the case. It sucks short term, but will benefit you both in the long run. Um, thanks. Haha. ._. We're actually trying to make it work despite the age difference. He confronted me about the awkward silence thing and yeah, now we don't have much awkward silences anymore. :D |
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Jan 26 2008, 04:24 AM
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^Yay
 see i knew dealing with it up front would work.i didnt neccasarily say it like that though |
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