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So how do you say no?
sugalove1215
post Jan 16 2008, 10:29 PM
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So...friday night...
you go to the movies, meet a new guy, and then he later tells you "we should hang out sometime." you don't want to hook up with him, so how do you say no?
 
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post Jan 16 2008, 10:32 PM
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post Jan 16 2008, 10:32 PM
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Just tell him no. Simple as that.
 
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post Jan 16 2008, 11:01 PM
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say i'm not interested.
 
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post Jan 16 2008, 11:07 PM
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if you have trouble outright rejecting him, give him the rejection hotline!
 
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post Jan 16 2008, 11:14 PM
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Give him a fake number.
 
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post Jan 17 2008, 12:09 AM
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Just say "Oh yeah I'll call you sometime. I have lots of stuff coming up this week, but when I'm done I'll give you a call" and then ummm forget to call.
 
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post Jan 17 2008, 12:14 AM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jan 16 2008, 07:32 PM) *
no

Jc read my mind.
 
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post Jan 17 2008, 03:21 AM
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It depends on how he says it.
If he is really respectful and sweet about it I tell him as politely as I can that I have a boyfriend, even when I didn't.
If he is cocky and rude I insult him until he backs down. I can be really mean if I am pushed to that point.
 
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post Jan 17 2008, 03:23 AM
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Tell him that you like girls.
 
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post Jan 17 2008, 05:03 AM
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Whats up with this lying and bending the truth? Then females wonder why guys won't leave them alone.

Say no. Thats it. No formula to it. No n***a wants to waste his time chasing some hoe that really doesn't give two shits about him. Its simple.

"Yea, so lets chill sometime."
"No, n***a. I'm not feelin' you."
 
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post Jan 17 2008, 05:27 AM
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Kudos, Brandon. _smile.gif
 
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post Jan 17 2008, 08:21 AM
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Tch, Brandon. laugh.gif

Be polite, but firm.
 
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post Jan 17 2008, 06:59 PM
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Sometimes polite doesn't always work. Guys are stubborn by nature.

"You're a nice guy and all..." isn't a good start, because we already know where its going. And if you don't want to be friends, don't suggest that we should be friends.

 
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post Jan 17 2008, 07:45 PM
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I will give you an example:

Random Girl who I wasn't really feeling like that: Hey so I am really enjoying this, we should definitely do this again.

Me breaking out of character to be impolite: Listen ma, if you ain't making them cheeks clap, then you are wasting your time.

Random Girl: Oh.....

Me: Yeah....TAXI!
 
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post Jan 17 2008, 08:17 PM
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^Ouch.
So, perhaps a bit more politeness is needed when rejecting a girl?
But no is always the best way to go :]
 
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post Jan 17 2008, 10:53 PM
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Yes, no is definitely the way to go. Like Brandon said, if you continue to give a guy the hint that he can stay around, it will only do more bad then good.
 
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post Jan 18 2008, 12:18 AM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jan 16 2008, 09:32 PM) *
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Wise words
 
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post Jan 18 2008, 12:28 AM
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"No, thank-you."

Don't lie to him; it's not very becoming.
 
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post Jan 19 2008, 01:49 PM
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QUOTE(sugalove1215 @ Jan 16 2008, 10:29 PM) *
So...friday night...
you go to the movies, meet a new guy, and then he later tells you "we should hang out sometime." you don't want to hook up with him, so how do you say no?

... wur da part he say he wannaa hook up../

i dun c dat part../

maibi he just wanna hangg out.. big deal..

askk him wur.. if itz museum or mall den just say ye..

who cur..
 
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post Jan 19 2008, 02:05 PM
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you say "sorry, i'm busy" or something clever, that'll let him no your completely not interested
 
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post Jan 19 2008, 02:57 PM
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no

man love the truth

just say

MUTHA f**k YOURE UGLY I HATE YOUR FACE SO GET OUT

he will be sad but he will know the truth _smile.gif
 
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post Jan 19 2008, 03:05 PM
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^ I don't think she wants to sounds like a b*tch
 
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post Jan 19 2008, 03:07 PM
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OKAYYYYY

so just say NO
 
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post Jan 19 2008, 03:08 PM
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LMAO!!!

bietch NOX.. nicee trydaa givee advicee boyy..

go workk withh yourr girll blazin B.NOX.. den comee bak n givva advice... wink.gif tongue.gif biggrin.gif
 

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