how do you define being "too nice"? Options

[Edwinbarkhordari...]

I'm so lost on the fact when people say someone is "too nice". Can anyone give me some clarification on a too nice guy and a normal guy?

[MissHygienic]

An overly nice guy is a guy who won't stop complimenting you and being all "cutesy." This behavior is not natural, regardless of what other people tell me. It's annoying; it gets on my nerves, and it is fake.

Non-boyfriend: "You looked really beautiful tonight; you were so perfect. If I had been there, I would not have been able to take my eyes off you. You are such a pretty gal! :))) lol"

Shut up.

[ReggieM]

what i call the case of wussyitis. guys who compliment overly and wont say anything "mean" of the sort. and let girls tell them what to do. Like "go get me some icecream" you:what flavor?

"does my hair look good"
you: oh yea it looks beautifull
what i would say "yea your mom did a GREAT job"
but you proably cant pull off slick lines like those.

girls hate it when you're tooooo nice which doesnt make sense at all but i dont care I just go with the flow.

[MissFits]

I am a straight up weirdo when it comes to relationships. I don't like most of the romantic shit that other girls swoon over. I am, however, a sucker for music written about me [/ramble]

If you ask if I am okay all the god damn time you are overly nice
If you don't ever make any decisions in the relationship you are overly nice
If you don't do anything but try to please me you are overly nice
If you constantly tell me how amazing I am you are overly nice.
If you always try to recreate romantic movie scenes, not only are you a weirdo, you are overly nice.

I like a guy that can tell me when I look fat in something or if I am being a bitch. Honesty is WAY better than telling me what you think I want to hear.

[S-Majere]

I think of overly "nice" guys being guys without any real opinions. They won't dare contradict you, challenge you or provide any real personality to an otherwise bland and boring facade.

[fameONE]

Being too agreeable can bite you in the ass. You're an individual with a mind of your own. Don't deviate from who you are to suit who you're chasing. Grow a pair.

[livwho]

I don't dig blatantly romantic stuff like flowers, chocolate, scented lube, sappy poems, etc. Win me with kind words and a good snuggle. C:

My list of things that are "too nice".

Multiple compliments - they drive me insane; please, for goodness sakes, just drop it.
Touching me - constantly, that is. I don't mind a hand hold or arm around the waist, but groping is unacceptable.
Guys who can't think for themselves - ex. ME: What movie do you want to see? THEM: I don't care, whichever you want. I asked YOU, therefore YOU should choose.

[fameONE]

I don't dig blatantly romantic stuff like flowers, chocolate, scented lube, sappy poems, etc. Win me with kind words and a good snuggle. C:

My list of things that are "too nice".

Multiple compliments - they drive me insane; please, for goodness sakes, just drop it.
Touching me - constantly, that is. I don't mind a hand hold or arm around the waist, but groping is unacceptable.
Guys who can't think for themselves - ex. ME: What movie do you want to see? THEM: I don't care, whichever you want. I asked YOU, therefore YOU should choose.

"Brandon, sweetie, what movie do you want to watch?"
"There's a few out, but I'm leaning toward I AM LEGEND."
"Um, can we pick another one? I don't want to see that."
"What do you want to watch, then?"
"I don't know, you choose."
"We're going to watch I AM LEGEND."

[livwho]

"Brandon, sweetie, what movie do you want to watch?"
"There's a few out, but I'm leaning toward I AM LEGEND."
"Um, can we pick another one? I don't want to see that."
"What do you want to watch, then?"
"I don't know, you choose."
"We're going to watch I AM LEGEND."

PSST! Compromise.

I have that movie already.

[fameONE]

PSST! Compromise.

I have that movie already.

I really would. But don't insist that I make a decision, as if you don't have the ability to make one yourself, and then object. I'm a pretty laid back guy, I'm ok with sitting on the hood of my car, watching the waves crash on the rocks, and getting to know you. As opposed to the awkward discomfort of trying to move a date in the right direction while staring at a screen.

[livwho]

I really would. But don't insist that I make a decision, as if you don't have the ability to make one yourself, and then object. I'm a pretty laid back guy, I'm ok with sitting on the hood of my car, watching the waves crash on the rocks, and getting to know you. As opposed to the awkward discomfort of trying to move a date in the right direction while staring at a screen.

I declare myself pwned.

I still don't like guys that won't think for themselves.

[ReggieM]

I think of overly "nice" guys being guys without any real opinions. They won't dare contradict you, challenge you or provide any real personality to an otherwise bland and boring facade.

basically what i was trying to say lol.


guys that are too agreeable.

[shoryuken]

GIRL nice.. GOOD!!
BOY nice.. 50/50

little kidz on hur.. dont listen da dem O.G advice tryda b badd boy n shiet.. dat shiet aint ginna git u anywhere!!

you gitta know when 2 agree n wen not 2!!

[fadingcolorsx]

Too nice means "never saying no." No lie. That's what my best friend tells me. ..I have the biggest heart ever. And, i never say no.. Even when I should.

[shoryuken]

i calll dem ppl who neva say no...

PUSSSI!!! not nice..

[dannyordinary]

Being too nice is when you let people take advantage of you, even if they are in a bad situation you can tell when someone is taking advantage of you.

[JokeInsideJoke]

my friend says the reason i cant get a date is beacuse im too nice to everyone and i treat the ones i like the same as everyone else. but im NOT a pushover