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uhhh. awkward silences.
lovescream
post Jan 15 2008, 10:45 PM
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D: It's been a month since my bf and I have been together, but a couple of months since we became friends. We never were that close of friends, but we did talk sometimes and hung out, etc.

But now, like, I realized there are a lot of awkward silences when we're together. Because we've been together a lot more now. But the silences are killing me. When we're together, yes, I feel comfortable with him, but even then our conversations are dead. I mean once we spark it up, it's great, but then later it dies and it we end up filling the awkward silence with sooooo's and anyyyyway's, and that goes nowhere, really.

Gah. Really, and our conversations on AIM die extremely quick.
I know we have a lot in common, and yeah, but for some reason, it just does. Lol.

Gahh. Help? D: I mean I know he plays a part in this, so I don't wanna be the one blabbering on and on and annoy him. Soo, errr. Grr. Haha.
 

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twilightsamurai   uhhh. awkward silences.   Jan 15 2008, 10:45 PM
Synesthesia   Try discussing something that you don't have i...   Jan 15 2008, 10:47 PM
yrrnotelekktric   QUOTE(Synesthesia @ Jan 15 2008, 07:47 PM...   Jan 16 2008, 01:59 AM
doiink   start quizzing him on the cliche stuff: food, colo...   Jan 15 2008, 11:02 PM
Excel   ^^Agreed, most GREAT relationships are based on a ...   Jan 15 2008, 11:11 PM
twilightsamurai   ^ Yeah, that's actually probably what I'm ...   Jan 15 2008, 11:16 PM
tininja   Ahh, Toby, I know how that feels. We're not to...   Jan 15 2008, 11:34 PM
Elba   If you guys have awkward silences when you're ...   Jan 15 2008, 11:57 PM
doiink   ^ I don't think they're quite at that sort...   Jan 16 2008, 12:48 AM
resplendence   Did you know, on average, an awkward silence occur...   Jan 16 2008, 01:28 AM
tungmyBANANA   You're finally dating that guy who's like ...   Jan 16 2008, 01:30 AM
The Markster   QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Jan 15 2008, 10:30 P...   Jan 16 2008, 02:30 AM
Castaway   be more random, make out during those silences   Jan 16 2008, 02:19 AM
nguoicasison   when tha silence.. mean u guyz ovaa da crush/love....   Jan 16 2008, 02:54 AM
doiink   THERE ARE THESE THINGS CALLED THE LETTERS "E,...   Jan 16 2008, 03:02 AM
yrrnotelekktric   QUOTE(doiink @ Jan 16 2008, 12:02 AM) THE...   Jan 16 2008, 03:43 AM
twilightsamurai   ^ HI TINA, HI MARK, HI TUNG. :D Lmfao, actuall...   Jan 16 2008, 03:07 AM
The Markster   QUOTE(twilightsamurai @ Jan 16 2008, 12:0...   Jan 16 2008, 03:12 AM
tungmyBANANA   Mark, Betty, Toby 3 some action? Tung director o...   Jan 16 2008, 03:14 AM
nguoicasison   endd of STFFUUU!!! nicckaaaa plzz..   Jan 16 2008, 03:46 AM
BrandonSaunders   QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 16 2008, 02:46 A...   Jan 18 2008, 12:15 AM
tininja   HI TOBY! Yay for him being random!   Jan 16 2008, 11:29 PM
nguoicasison   i bet u i got mo gamee den u FOO!! i can ...   Jan 19 2008, 09:55 AM
sparrowdust   QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 19 2008, 10:55 A...   Jan 19 2008, 01:56 PM
nguoicasison   QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Jan 19 2008, 01:56 PM...   Jan 19 2008, 01:58 PM
doiink   and by get gurlz you mean get gurlz to hurlz.   Jan 19 2008, 12:18 PM
nguoicasison   LMAO!! wtf withh all da gurlzz on here phu...   Jan 19 2008, 01:40 PM
sparrowdust   i'll call you.   Jan 19 2008, 02:02 PM
nguoicasison   OoO shiet..!! 2 bad i'll be with u...   Jan 19 2008, 02:10 PM
OhSoDanny   you could try asking a lot of questions, but that ...   Jan 19 2008, 02:15 PM
Joss-eh-lime   "awkward" silences happen all the time w...   Jan 20 2008, 01:09 AM
DeadlyKitten   awkward silences happen. wait it out. try to find ...   Jan 20 2008, 01:17 AM
Joss-eh-lime   QUOTE(DeadlyKitten @ Jan 19 2008, 10:17 P...   Jan 21 2008, 08:38 PM
JaseB   just give each other space i guess the more you...   Jan 21 2008, 08:14 PM
Bishinobi   Just stare at him. You'll eventually make out....   Jan 21 2008, 08:20 PM
doiink   QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Jan 21 2008, 05:20 PM) ...   Jan 21 2008, 09:04 PM
tungmyBANANA   I really think you two should break up if this is ...   Jan 25 2008, 06:27 PM
twilightsamurai   QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Jan 25 2008, 03:27 P...   Jan 26 2008, 03:54 AM
JCLore   just tell him "this always happens, theres al...   Jan 25 2008, 08:59 PM
Joss-eh-lime   ^are you for real? say it as if you are tipsy. n...   Jan 26 2008, 03:06 AM
JCLore   no miss sorry miss Edit: how bout if your really ...   Jan 26 2008, 03:08 AM
libertie   I usually am the cause of awkward silences. In a...   Jan 26 2008, 03:11 AM
JCLore   ^Yay see i knew dealing with it up front would w...   Jan 26 2008, 04:24 AM


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