boyfriend and falling asleep on the phone., unwritten rules? Options

[jackizzle]

I was going to put this in the Girl's Locker room, but I dicided it could pretain to both boys and girls. So I have a boy friend and his name is Brandon, and we like to talk alot on the phone at night. But my question is, is there some unwritten rule about falling asleep on the phone at night with your boyfriend or girlfriend? I mean if I fall asleep and he's awake, he just hangs up.. Or should he tell me he's hanging up? Or vice versa? Sometimes I wake up and find out either he hung up, or he or I hung up accidentally.

Does my question make sense? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. [=

[*CowerPointyObjects*]

That's why we have a relationships forum :)

[jackizzle]

My apologies. I thought I saw something like that, but I couldn't remember. Can someone move it please?

[DoubleJ]

This shit happened to me last night, and I just hung up on the bitch. I feel as though if you are that tired, you should have the common courtesy to be like, listen hun I am tired and I am going to take it down for the night. I am one to talk though, because I have fallen asleep on xbox live plenty of times.

[Insurmountable]

moved to relationships.

[deplorable]

uh.... why do you stay on the phone to the point that you feel the need to just fall asleep?

[moninja]

there is no rule. you guys just have to talk about it yourselves.

[MissHygienic]

I would think that if you feel tired, you'd just straight up say it. What is there to be ashamed about?

[jackizzle]

No i'm not talking about the part of falling asleep. I'm speaking of who is the first to hang up the phone and what not? I have no problem falling asleep on the phone with him. It's comforting.

[icecreamisyummy]

ive fallen asleep on cam with someone, we did it for like amonth.

[deplorable]

No i'm not talking about the part of falling asleep. I'm speaking of who is the first to hang up the phone and what not? I have no problem falling asleep on the phone with him. It's comforting.

well. if he doesnt mind you falling asleep, then obviously he will hang up first or there will be a hell of a phone bill the next month? i seriously dont understand though, are you in a long distance relationship. if not, you cant substitute actual time together with phone time. its not... err... close and personal?

sorry i cant be of more help. im falling aleep right now... zzzzzzz

[redpeony]

Don't worry, I for one know exactly what you mean. Sometimes we are individually so busy until the end of the day that we can't talk to each other until then. After a few hours we jump into our own beds and keep talking, wash up and keep talking, turn out the lights and keep talking... and then one of us just falls asleep. I think it's perfectly fine if he just hangs up if you're asleep.

[icecreamisyummy]

that used to happen with my ex, but i was the one to usually jsut hang up. but of ocurse i would always say good night i love ya and what not.

[karmakiller]

It's happened to me before. I've never fallen asleep on the phone with someone before, but I've people fall asleep on the phone with me... maybe I'm just a boring person, haha. Seriously, though, it's not a big deal. If I really want to talk to him and he's tired he'll stay on the phone with me and that makes me more happy than I am upset that he fell asleep on the phone. Make sense? At least tell him you're feeling sleepy than it isn't out of the blue you're pasted out and he's confused.

[queen]

sometimes we like falling asleep on the phone. hearing my bf breathing is relaxin.

[fameONE]

Give the narcoleptics a break. Damn.

[transcendentalis...]

hearing my bf breathing is relaxin.

agreed.

my dude and i fall asleep with each other on the phone probably every other time we're talking at some wild time in the morning. it doesn't bother me, and he just thinks it's funny/cute.

my general rule is if he doesn't wake up in the next 10-15 minutes, i just say goodnight... i don't mind listening to him sleep.

[S-Majere]

How can you fall asleep on the phone? I'm usually so wired to hear from my beau that I'm practically running up walls.

[Melie]

well, i think that's something that you should talk to your bf about. the only question i have is does your bf have a problem with you falling asleep on the phone? because if they do then it's up to you to step up and say that you're starting to get sleepy and would like to get off. a few hours away from each other helps: abstinence makes the heart grow fonder

[S-Majere]

Er, absence makes it fonder methinks.

[MissHygienic]

a few hours away from each other helps: abstinence makes the heart grow fonder

I've never laughed quite so hard. Virgins love company.

[Melie]

I've never laughed quite so hard. Virgins love company.

ehh...i was trying to promote safe sex but i guess it didn't work huh..lol

[transcendentalis...]

ehh...i was trying to promote safe sex but i guess it didn't work huh..lol

abstinence is usually associated with no sex.
no sex, safe sex, not the same thing! hahah..

oh golly gee

[LoveToMySilas]

I used to fall asleep all the time when I was up talking to my ex in the early morning, he usually just hung up and called back to wake me up but I've always wanted to be on the phone until he woke up to say good morning. I don't think theres an unwritten rule, I mean you could ask him to call you back tomorrow or call you if you fall asleep.

[Smilessss]

lol did taht with my ex... he got pissed... cuz he has been waiting for me to call him(long dist. relationship) and once i called him, i always get tired and always accidentally fell asleep on him... and he would get mad but doesnt show it and just hung up... and at times that causes to fight alot...