a question for the guys, preferrably the ones that have gfs already |
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 Dec 31 2007, 11:06 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down  Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963  |
So if you had a gf. And you pretend you were going out with your guy freinds and there was this completely beautiful gorgeous girl(to you) there. You saw her. Would you be attracted to her?
I mean would you "like" them. You know you get those first feelings of something for them. Because of that attraction. |
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Dec 31 2007, 11:45 AM
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Of course you'd be attracted to her. But you wouldn't act on it.
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Dec 31 2007, 11:51 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
I'd just see her as a pretty girl. No more, no less.
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Dec 31 2007, 12:16 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
I have a perfect example for this:
My friend's and I went to this bar this weekend and there were three girls there who were flirting with us hardcore, but we are all taken. We all just made polite conversation among other things....I guess I would have to say, that if a hot girl came up to me, I would be respectful and polite to her as I never ever disrespect women. |
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Dec 31 2007, 12:21 PM
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 Fellatio. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,122 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,775 |
Yes, I would.
But I'd only stare or maybe flirt, if you could call it that. |
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Dec 31 2007, 12:34 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(S-Majere @ Dec 31 2007, 12:45 PM)  Of course you'd be attracted to her. But you wouldn't act on it. yea exactly. it's not like u can control who u are attracted to, but u can control what u do about it. |
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Dec 31 2007, 07:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(Laughsalot @ Dec 31 2007, 11:06 AM) So if you had a gf. And you pretend you were going out with your guy freinds and there was this completely beautiful gorgeous girl(to you) there. You saw her. Would you be attracted to her? of course.. tha's no rule sayin u can only date 1 person at a time.. |
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Dec 31 2007, 07:32 PM
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No, no rule as such. But some people might call morality mere guidelines.
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Dec 31 2007, 07:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
at such a young age.. dating only one person n stay committed is not good..
the more ppl u date, the lesser the force your heart will break once you actually break up with that person, cuz u have somebody else in mind. when i say dating.. i dont mean XXX |
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Dec 31 2007, 09:28 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Of course you're gonna look at other girls if they're attractive, I mean thats just nature. As long as you don't go out on your way trying to get with them, ya dig?
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Dec 31 2007, 09:32 PM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
yes men do,i know fathers who are married but comment on other women, but they dont sleep with them. at least i hope not.
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Dec 31 2007, 10:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 282 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,342 |
I would be attracted but i wouln't cheat on my girlfriend.
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Jan 1 2008, 12:19 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963 |
Attracted to them as if you "like" them is what i mean. You know you get those first feelings of something for them. Because of that attraction.
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Jan 1 2008, 12:24 AM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Dec 31 2007, 08:28 PM) of course.. tha's no rule sayin u can only date 1 person at a time.. dating someone and having a girlfriend are two different things. 
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Jan 2 2008, 01:21 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
QUOTE(Laughsalot @ Dec 31 2007, 11:06 AM) So if you had a gf. And you pretend you were going out with your guy freinds and there was this completely beautiful gorgeous girl(to you) there. You saw her. Would you be attracted to her? I mean would you "like" them. You know you get those first feelings of something for them. Because of that attraction. Physical attraction is always going to exist. But just because I find a woman to be attractive, doesn't mean I think she's beautiful. And even if I did think she was beautiful, it would be downright wrong for me to go make a move. |
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Jan 2 2008, 01:39 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(Laughsalot @ Dec 31 2007, 11:06 AM) So if you had a gf. And you pretend you were going out with your guy freinds and there was this completely beautiful gorgeous girl(to you) there. You saw her. Would you be attracted to her? I mean would you "like" them. You know you get those first feelings of something for them. Because of that attraction. What kind of question is that? You really can't like some one if you don't know them. That takes man hours to achieve. |
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Jan 2 2008, 04:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,750 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,581 |
Attraction is alright, acting out on it though, that's not good.
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Jan 2 2008, 05:48 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 273 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 547,099 |
Well iono at high school time everyone's really promiscuous anyway. I'd definitely get her number and hang out with her (not date) a couple times, just steer clear out of the friend zone so there's u know, a trampoline if you fall off your skyscraper of a girlfriend.
This is just high school of course. |
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Jan 2 2008, 11:38 AM
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sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
QUOTE(Call911Quick @ Jan 2 2008, 06:48 AM) Well iono at high school time everyone's really promiscuous anyway. I'd definitely get her number and hang out with her (not date) a couple times, just steer clear out of the friend zone so there's u know, a trampoline if you fall off your skyscraper of a girlfriend. This is just high school of course. that's almost a guarantee that you'll fall off your skyscraper of a girlfriend. 
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Jan 4 2008, 12:12 AM
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 ~a caged bird sings what you can't understand Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 550,749 |
QUOTE(sparrowdust @ Jan 2 2008, 11:38 AM) that's almost a guarantee that you'll fall off your skyscraper of a girlfriend. Agreed, then you'll get a reputation for playing around and no girl's gonna want to stick with you. And I repeat what others have said - look but don't touch. I look at other guys and think damn, that's hot, so why should I get pissy at him for doing the same thing? But no way in hell would I ever consider walking over and flirting and I expect him to do the same - otherwise he'll get a stiletto heel in his temple. |
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