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 Jun 10 2004, 04:12 AM
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 lovesick+  Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104  |
sex..is a beautiful thing..it's supposed to feel great and stuff..
but is it rite? even before marriage? i'm not gonna lie. it has crossed my mind.. but how am i going to continue being pure until i'm married? is it ok?...is it worth it? 
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Jun 12 2004, 06:23 PM
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 Look its... Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767 |
it will be worth it. if not dotn do it just for no good reason
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Jun 12 2004, 11:29 PM
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lovesick+ Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104 |
QUOTE(IIO__oII @ Jun 12 2004, 12:21 PM) u think that "making out" and "sex" is the same thing? hmm... ummz..not really..it's two totally different things..why you ask? |
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Jun 12 2004, 11:43 PM
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 =P Group: Member Posts: 207 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,290 |
just think about it. you're only a virgin once, so save it for someone special. My friend once said: we're all pieces of paper. when you have sex with someone, he keeps a little piece of you, and you keep a little piece of him...but if you continue this process repeatedly, by the time you get married, you will no longer have anything to give to your spouse because you have already given it all away.
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Jun 13 2004, 07:58 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
if u have enough trust, love for dat person u donn hafta be married to do it..juzz be careful
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Jun 18 2004, 05:33 AM
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lovesick+ Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104 |
good point..trust..i guess i'll never get married..i gon't trust any guys..hahahaha..=D
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Jun 18 2004, 08:14 AM
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 Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
I dunno i wanna hav sex before i'm married cus i just do i dunno but not once before marriage like at least 3 times
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Jun 18 2004, 04:06 PM
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 .....eat my booger Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,920 |
its worth it girl... when you think you fall in love at an early age..
and you lose it to that person.. later on when yall are over each other.. you'll regret it.. ... it really does depends who you doing it with.. ....a lover |
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Jun 18 2004, 04:16 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(DisneyPrincessKate @ Jun 12 2004, 6:23 PM) I'm waiting. Sex is a gift, so why would you want to throw that away? ditto that. hey if he makes u feel RIGHT in your world and you are currently in total love and bliss, go for it. |
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Jun 18 2004, 04:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,274 |
QUOTE(DisneyPrincessKate @ Jun 12 2004, 3:23 PM) I'm waiting. Sex is a gift, so why would you want to throw that away? Virginity is a gift, not sex. ... or maybe both =PPP But yeah, you're right. |
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Jun 18 2004, 11:46 PM
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 The Used Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,501 |
if youre engaged i guess its okay... but if you've been with the guy more than a year or 2 i guess its okay... just as long as you know you wont regret it later on no matter what happens...
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Jun 18 2004, 11:50 PM
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 Rock like a GIRL.. Group: Member Posts: 250 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,434 |
 i like this topic.. because i can sort of relate. i hate this huge reputation i have here where i live.. of being very experienced, if you know what i mean.... and ive never even kissed a guy... even though im not like some people who wait till after marriage, im 13 and id do it now, if it were one guy in perticular. but i still feel like this image i have of being some.. slut.. its not "pure" so like it is a pretty good thing (for SOME people) to wait after your married... because now everyone wants to do it with me and i feel really uncomfertable.... 
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Jun 18 2004, 11:54 PM
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Rock like a GIRL.. Group: Member Posts: 250 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,434 |
so dont get in bed till after your wed!
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Jun 19 2004, 12:05 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,349 |
well as long as u dont do it just to do it. and if you ever do it before u get married then oh well......at some point in time you wanted to and it was special to you. as long as you have protection and think ur mature enough too...
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Jun 19 2004, 08:26 AM
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lovesick+ Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104 |
QUOTE(Mini @ Jun 18 2004, 4:16 PM) ditto that. hey if he makes u feel RIGHT in your world and you are currently in total love and bliss, go for it. yea?? haha..good point..if he turns me on..then go for it rite? 
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Jun 19 2004, 11:15 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
do u really love that person? i mean dont just have sex and then have this huge guilt rght after it.... in other words dont let ur hormones take control.... a lot of ppl feel guilty after so its ur choice....
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Jun 19 2004, 11:32 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
i dont belive in the marrage crap/ have sex when the time is right. you'll know it
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Jun 19 2004, 02:05 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i think u should wait till ur married cuz u mite end up regreting it if u dont
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Jun 19 2004, 05:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,234 |
morally it isnt right before marriage. but its something you shouldnt do, noone who is a teen can be mentally prepared for it. and when you think youi love someone and you do it, it can really hurt, just my opinion
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Jun 19 2004, 05:10 PM
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QUOTE(southern4life @ Jun 10 2004, 10:32 AM) i used to be all "ill never have sex til im married" n all that.. but that was back when i was like 12.. im 15 now n still a virgin Same here. I mean, I dont see anything wrong with having sex before you're married as long as it's safe and with someone you really care about. If YOU think it's right you should go for it. |
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Jun 19 2004, 06:50 PM
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70% of all 18 year olds in america are sexually active. and many of them don't regret not waiting till they're married. i guess it's always nice to get a little experience down. but two crucial things are 1) do you love him? does he treat you with respect at all times? is he the type to not lessen your value after sex? 2) protect yourself. contraceptives are key.
so sex could be a gift saved for marriage. but for many people, marriage may be too early to think about. so if you meet someone who has an incredible impact on your life but for turns of events and time, you may not end up spending your life with him, when you still have him, go for it. 
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Jun 19 2004, 10:22 PM
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 .Summa Mam`ii, Group: Member Posts: 93 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,460 |
IDK bout sex. Im really afraid 2 get into a relationship wit a guy in h.s-all they think and breathe about is sex. Wut do ya do if they ask u nd ur not juss ready nd they dnt accept it??
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Jun 19 2004, 11:01 PM
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 In God We Trust Group: Member Posts: 213 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,262 |
I'm Straight Edge....
No Sex till marriage No Drugs No Alcohol I made a promise to God about those and I intend to hold it up. matt 
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Jun 20 2004, 04:51 AM
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lovesick+ Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104 |
QUOTE(lpmatt618 @ Jun 19 2004, 11:01 PM) I'm Straight Edge.... No Sex till marriage No Drugs No Alcohol I made a promise to God about those and I intend to hold it up. matt wow..i envy you..and your goals in life.. my dad may be a pastor..yet i'm still a person.. wat can i say?
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Jun 20 2004, 02:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,543 |
heh sex is cool lol but if ur too young then
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Jun 20 2004, 02:49 PM
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 hello. Group: Member Posts: 1,105 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,600 |
QUOTE ...and in my opinion, marrying somone you've never had sex with is kinda creepy. how is that creepy?!?!?! cuz i think i thinkn yu should have sex with sumwun after yu married them i mean atleast a month or so |
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