GIRLS ONLY.. Do you say yes if you like a guy..? |
 Dec 17 2007, 08:40 AM
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If you really like a guy..but you two hardly know each other and he ask you out..would you turn down his offer if he ask you out..?
if so.. why would you turn it down.. or will you say yes if he ask you out../ |
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Dec 17 2007, 01:52 PM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(MissFits @ Dec 17 2007, 01:51 PM)  It seems like that is what you said. I guess I misunderstood. I apologize  I apologize wholeheartedly for allowing that misunderstanding. |
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Dec 17 2007, 04:33 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
i would turn him down but i would be open-minded. id say that id like to get to know him better and that i want to hang out with him a few times to get to know him better and then decide if i want to date him or not.
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Dec 17 2007, 04:35 PM
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Jake,
Buddy... We are but one mind. I'm not saying, "you shouldn't play the field." In fact, I'm saying just the opposite. All I said was, he shouldn't be forceful. Like you said, "be smooth." |
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Dec 17 2007, 04:55 PM
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i would say yes..
the first time me and my boyfriend met.. we've only known each other for an hr or two then i went up and pash him lmao.. a week later he asked me out now we'r best friends and we been together for 6 months |
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Dec 17 2007, 04:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I would get to know him on some casual dates before saying yes to being his girlfriend.
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Dec 17 2007, 06:54 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
i would turn it down.
we need to get to know each other before i can call him boyfriend. |
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Dec 17 2007, 08:15 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
asking someone out doesn't constitute the beginning of a relationship, it just means you're dating.
i've never been really attracted to someone without being friends with him first. "all right, when do you want to hang out?" |
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Dec 17 2007, 08:34 PM
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It took six months of persistance for me to say 'yes' to my current and only boyfriend.
Six months. The poor man.  But saying that, we started hanging around more in those six months. |
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Dec 17 2007, 09:00 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 600,172 |
QUOTE(S-Majere @ Dec 18 2007, 02:34 PM) It took six months of persistance for me to say 'yes' to my current and only boyfriend. Six months. how long have you been with him? |
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Dec 18 2007, 12:19 AM
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sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
QUOTE(S-Majere @ Dec 17 2007, 09:34 PM) It took six months of persistance for me to say 'yes' to my current and only boyfriend. Six months. The poor man. But saying that, we started hanging around more in those six months. that's got to take some dedication, haha. did you like him at all during those six months though? just wondering! 
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Dec 18 2007, 10:05 AM
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Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
This is our second Christmas together *beams*
And no, revoltaire, I liked him as a 'friend' at first (ah, the old adage) and it wasn't until I thought 'Oh, to Hell with it' and said yes that I really started to develop feelings for him. Now I couldn't be without him. 
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Dec 21 2007, 10:17 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,723 |
QUOTE(Joss-eh-lime @ Dec 17 2007, 03:54 PM) i would turn it down. we need to get to know each other before i can call him boyfriend. i'm a boy, I think this is reasonable. Why would you turn him down? Get to know him by going out on some dates. If you don't like him after a date or two, then tell him. |
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Dec 21 2007, 10:53 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Well, I don't really like a guy unless I know him. I guess that's just how I am. But obviously I'd say yes. Tehe.
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Dec 23 2007, 02:02 PM
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it depends how much you like him even if you dont really know him, well to me, if a guy i really like asked me out, i said yes, and like we would go on dates, and while we go out, we would learn about each other, but if it doesnt really work out then we would just become friends
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Dec 23 2007, 06:42 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
where sum place you gurlz like to go out on the NEW YEAR..?
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Dec 25 2007, 07:46 PM
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I would get to know him better
before I went out with him. |
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Dec 25 2007, 08:26 PM
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 YUNJAESU<3 Group: Official Member Posts: 1,291 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,275 |
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Dec 23 2007, 03:42 PM) where sum place you gurlz like to go out on the NEW YEAR..? At a club. :) Or at the house of our special someone. |
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May 25 2008, 07:35 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 652,429 |
I would say yeah. I did say yeah to my boyfriend of now four months.
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May 26 2008, 05:13 PM
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QUOTE(lizzabeth @ May 25 2008, 08:35 PM) I would say yeah. I did say yeah to my boyfriend of now four months. y da h3ll sum troll.. justt bumpp mee threaddd 4...  
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May 26 2008, 06:10 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
if i really liked him, i'd tell him, not just immediately say yes to being with him...
I'd go through the whole dating/getting to know eachother bit first! ah darn, sorry, i didnt realize it was a bumped thread! |
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May 26 2008, 06:21 PM
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 I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Dec 17 2007, 09:40 AM) If you really like a guy..but you two hardly know each other and he ask you out..would you turn down his offer if he ask you out..? if so.. why would you turn it down.. or will you say yes if he ask you out../ i would turn it down. i like it if im friends with the guy first |
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May 26 2008, 07:50 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
Yeah, why not? I'd give any guy a chance and usually when i get to know a guy as a friend first this always happens:
1. He's in the friend zone 2. He becomes so much of a good friend that i wouldn't want to put on friendship at risk by going out and then breaking up and never talking to each other after |
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May 26 2008, 09:11 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
QUOTE(IamRad @ May 26 2008, 07:10 PM) if i really liked him, i'd tell him, not just immediately say yes to being with him... I'd go through the whole dating/getting to know eachother bit first! ah darn, sorry, i didnt realize it was a bumped thread! uh... rittteee... QUOTE(JokeInsideJoke @ May 26 2008, 07:21 PM) i would turn it down. i like it if im friends with the guy first nottt eveenn hee sexxyy princee..?   QUOTE(Kay- @ May 26 2008, 08:50 PM) Yeah, why not? I'd give any guy a chance and usually when i get to know a guy as a friend first this always happens: 1. He's in the friend zone 2. He becomes so much of a good friend that i wouldn't want to put on friendship at risk by going out and then breaking up and never talking to each other after ... justt cuzz hee sooo gooddd friendd dun meann u canntt moveee uppp NUB..
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Aug 17 2008, 11:44 PM
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 i call it love<333 Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 448,479 |
if i like him but we hardly know each other, i'd ask him to wait. cus' if he really wanted to be with me, then he'd wait and get to know me more and hopefully the two of us would still feel the same.
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Aug 18 2008, 12:56 AM
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 [pandemonium] :3 Group: Human Posts: 225 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 671,107 |
QUOTE(IGetSex @ Dec 17 2007, 10:07 AM) Well what do you mean? I know I'm not a girl. Deal with it. Seriously. Are you talking about a guy who ask you to go steady, or just on a date? I hope you wouldn't turn a guy down asking you to go on a date if you didn't know him. That's how things work. Haha, and Josh, you need to start thinking like a girl. Chances are they won't be thinking that. They'll be too busy trying to answer his questions. And if they have a nice conversation, chances are she will be attracted to him, from his sense of confidence and handsome features. If girls thought that everyone was trying to get into their pants, do you think we would have as many married couples as we do? Or for that fact, people just dating. There's a certain swing to things, and when they aren't followed, things fuck up. The majority of the population will go on a date with a person they have never met before. That's what dates are for. To get to know eachother. It's a fact. Josh, you watch Sex and the City. That's a perfect example. I love Sex and the City and it is a perfect example. I think I would say yes, if it was only a date and I liked him. But if he asked me to be his girlfriend, i would think twice if I didn't know him. |
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