finals & love, frustrated Options

[mauriciocruelty]

so the last 2 exams are tomorrow,
so im chilled out..

but theres this chick that i went out with..& now well shes my ex & im still in love with her..she said she would go back out with me..if i changed my orientation


currently im; bisexual


she wants; fully straight.



ugh what do i do?
do i change for someone that i truly love
or let it go like everything else.

[brooklyneast05]

moved to relationships

uhhh can u even really change it?
i can't change my orientation, it seems like that wouldn't only apply to straight people. so i don't understand how someone could if they were genuinely bi or gay.

[Elba]

DAMMIT JC

[brooklyneast05]

DAMMIT JC

haha, i saw u in here so i had to beat u

[Elba]

Sorry I was busy writing a real reply instead of just writing moved to relationships and editing it later >:[ hahahaha

[brooklyneast05]

^sore loser imo

going back to the topic, i don't get this. how is being bi even relevant if u're going to be in a straight relationship with just her.

[mauriciocruelty]

i dont know,
i mean shes cool & shes amazing..
shes not like other girls.
so i told her you know..
i told her that itd be better if i had told her than
for her to find out..

i dont know what i should do =[

[BeetleFan]

Shouldn't you be with someone that loves you for who you are?

[mauriciocruelty]

YESS!
but
its difficult knowing that you already
started loving that person.

:[

[DoubleJ]

I think that you should be you and that it should not matter what she thinks. If she can't accept you for you, then there is no reason that you should be with her yeah? I mean what I am getting at is, that you be you and not what somebody else wants you to be.

[mauriciocruelty]

everybody is telling me the same..

so i should be myself?

thanks.

anymore opinions?

[me1issaaaa]

You may be crazy for her, but she's not truly accepting you for you. If you're really bisexual, and you KNOW it, then there's no way in hell you should change who you are. There is a such thing as sacrificing, and yes it's required to make any relationship work, but idk. I think that's asking a little too much.

Now if you were just bi-curious... I could understand where she's coming from. But that might be a completely different ball game.

[littleswallow]

Can you even change your orientation?

Anyways, maybe she's just a bit insecure that you'll leave her for someone of the same sex. I think you should talk to her... I mean, you chose her, that has got to be worth something..

[mauriciocruelty]

well i dont know at times..its like i dont like her anymore,
but i cant stop thinking about her

i told her face to face what i was [orientation] & i told her
because itd be better for her to find out from me, then for her
to here some stupid crap.

i told her that if i didnt like her i wouldnt even have told her,
& just ran off with someone else [boy/girl]
but i didnt.


ugh.

[DoubleJ]

So have you decided as to what you are going to do?

[mauriciocruelty]

i dont know yet,
i need a way to tell her
that i wont change

& reptilia
i post the same thing
in

relationships because i need opinions from people that are in a relationshop
boys locker to see what they think
&
girls locker to also see their opinion

sorry if it bothered you.

[DoubleJ]

It didn't bother me lol I just was saying because eventually some random a-hole will complain about it.

[LianaIsTheShit]

i think that you should tell her that you're bi and that's that, but you love her so why should it matter? i think if she's telling you that you need to do _______ for her to love you then she's a whore and she doesn't deserve you.

[tokyo-rose]

I already replied to one of your other threads, but I'll say it here too. You asked if you should always be yourself. The answer is yes, always remain true to yourself, whether in relationships or other areas of life. So what if she's a cool, unique girl if she can't trust you enough to not go after guys when you start dating her? She has to realize that if you say you only like her, then that's the truth.

[transcendentalis...]

i think that you should tell her that you're bi and that's that, but you love her so why should it matter? i think if she's telling you that you need to do _______ for her to love you then she's a whore and she doesn't deserve you.

how does that make her a whore?
people really need to stop throwing words like that around.

it just means she doesn't want to accept you\, and i don't think your orientation is something you can change. do you really think you could completely alter your mind so you wouldn't be attracted to guys anymore? even just altering the first 'layer' of your mind is pretty difficult.