porbably wrong section, plz help Options

[TinkerBabe56]

Alright, i do not know if this topic goes in this section and i do feel a little embarrised about asking for advice but I cannot ask anyone in myfamily, its very hush hush.

So my Fiance and I have been togather 3 years and we've even talked about it, but i was hoping to get some womans advice on this. Everything is great in the sex department, no complaints except for the fact that he loves it when a woman masturbates, he likes it when woman can please her self. But I do not like to marturbate, i think its gross. I know it sound weird and I was raised with it stuck in my head that its bad, but i can do some really weird stuff with my man but he doesnt understand it when I tell him it freaks me out and I get all embarissed and I just want to cry becuase Im frustrated. Any advice? I dont know how to explain it to him, he just tells me to get over it. He's very open and free and is totally not embarrised about stuff. He would even walk around people naked, where I hate being naked. See what I mean. Please Help?

[Silly--x]

well i think that you shouldn't just feel like you want to cry.. guys dont like it.. me and my boyfriend has been so good we talked about having kids and everything lately iv been really depress and just cry alot now he needs a break but not a breakup.. im worry to death that he is gonna dump him.. but anywaysz i think you should just make a deal with him like say sometimes he agree on things you do and do it with you and sometimes you agree on things he likes and do it with him this way it sounds fair

[MissFits]

I was nervous the first time I did it for my fiance, but it's something that you get comfortable with the more you do it.
I understand what you are saying, and I used to feel the same way when I was younger, but as I have gotten older I realize that sexual urges are completely natural and there is nothing wrong with masturbating.
Just, do it, don't think about him watching you. Close your eyes or cover your face and do it. The more he gets into it the more you will get into it, or at least that's how it was for me.

Good luck!

[Sandraaa]

I completely understand you. I don't know how I'd feel if/when my boyfriend asks me to masturbate for him. You should know, there are things you need to do to satisfy your partner. If he really likes this then why not?

[S-Majere]

There is nothing wrong with masturbation; it's only very recently that it's become less of a taboo subject.

However, remember that you have every right to say 'no' and that it makes you feel uncomfortable. It's your body, your rules. Your fiance should understand that.

[TinkerBabe56]

thanks guys, i needed to hear some of ur veiws. You sure have been helpful.