love vs like who wins? Options

[S-Majere]

yes, do move on. it's always hard (or at least for me it has been), but the only way you'll be stuck forever is if you don't even try.
one word... porn.

*gasthhhp*

But the mystery of TRL bubz must remain.

[transcendentalis...]

so okay ill stop doing what i do lol
i dunno
i allways walk her to class
hug her when i leave her and such
and if imma give up liking her i want to give
those things up 2
she would think that im trying to ignore her so what do i tell her
and should we still be friends even after what happened between us?
it would be to hard i suppose

some people can go on being friends right after stopping business like that. some can't.

i personally think it's better to avoid her until you just lose feelings for her all together. if that's what you choose to do, don't just stop. tell her what's going on, and don't let her talk you out of it. don't let her make you feel guilty, just say what you mean and get out of there.

good luck. hopefully it'll be a growing experience, right?
and no writing on boobs anymore.

[MissHygienic]

When you feel like you can't do it anymore, try this baby out: Boob Stress Chest. It's the perfect replacement for writing on boobs.

[transcendentalis...]

how would you know? have you tried?

[MissHygienic]

All of the time, I squeeze my own when I'm stressed out. I'd imagine the fake boobs would totally work as a replacement for a guy.

[SolisDeSoul]

Gosh. . .I know I'm late on this topic, but it's like. . .Dude, if she asks you "what's the deal", then tell her that she has a boyfriend, and you're not trying to come between that. I mean she said she's gonna "love" him until AFTER she dies. That's deep.

So where do you think you fall in?

She probably only reaches out to you for a subsitute. You're her physical and he's her emotional. So basically she's using you. Leave her alone, move on. You'll live, and she'll find someone else to use.

[snoopdog]

=[
okay

[jayybee]

dude
im know im a lil late on the topic too
but f**kk what evrybody else say!
you gotta go for yours!
if you feel this deeply about this girl
[she knows it by the wayy]
then dont give up
you;d be surprised by how many people
regret going for the one they love
& losing them
&& the next time she say she "love" her dude,
just be like " well why are you here with me"
&& she aint gon have shit to sayy.
trust me on this mann
love is worth fighting for ya digg?

[MissFits]

She doesn't love him.
She is a dumb little girl that will do the same thing to you she is doing to him.
If you like girls that will f**k with your head, go for it.

I am sorry that you like her so much, but you seem like a nice guy and you don't deserve something like that.

[MissHygienic]

dude
im know im a lil late on the topic too
but f**kk what evrybody else say!
you gotta go for yours!
if you feel this deeply about this girl
[she knows it by the wayy]
then dont give up
you;d be surprised by how many people
regret going for the one they love
& losing them
&& the next time she say she "love" her dude,
just be like " well why are you here with me"
&& she aint gon have shit to sayy.
trust me on this mann
love is worth fighting for ya digg?

It's confused boys like you who think that being aggressive in pursuit of a relationship is going to do you any good. It's annoying, and it's going to make the girl hate him.

[transcendentalis...]

werd, sista.
besides, nowhere in the thread does he mention that he loves her.

(it's just illusioned, btw... disillusioned would be without illusion, i think)

[MissHygienic]

I changed the entire word. So there. I also learned that "jayybee" is a girl. I'm a failure. :(

[transcendentalis...]

aw, you're not a failure. it's not your fault that she emits e-testosterone.. i thought she was a guy too ya digg? ?&& !#

[jayybee]

first of all:
whoever just said that about myy comment
suck it!
second:
im a chickk!
&& just becasue you dont like agressiveness
doesnt mean the next chick doesnt
the majority of women in the world
want their man to take charge of the situation.
basically the girl is sayin:
"i know im here right now,
&& you see me in this situation
why are you just standing there?"
look dude:
all you need to do is ask her straight up how she feels
let her know this is the end if she
aint sure at that moment.
off top!

[jayybee]

&& really!

dont listen to what any of us
that includes me
have to sayy
onlyy you can decide what you
gon do in the end.
everyting experience is an experience.
even the bad one's.
just do what you feel is right.

thanks to all you assholes on here,
i was just inspired to tell myy friend how i feel.
tonite!!

[transcendentalis...]

this is really ironic, seeing that come from the topic starter of this fiasco.

oh golly gosh!

edit;
there's a big difference between being persistent when you have a chance and being persistent when you don't have a chance.

[jayybee]

&& one more thingg!!

any dudes in this forum needs to leave now.
you triflin' n***a's cant wipe ya asses,
let alone give good advice!that includes you revoltaire!

[jayybee]

&& the boy never said he didnt have a chance.
just because she got a dude,
dont mean all hope is lost.
a lot of great love stories end
with the other guy steppin in

"tristan & isolde" for example.
pick up a book dumbshits!

[transcendentalis...]

i'm glad you believe that operas are just like real life (i'm quite fond of wagner by the way, he's one of my favorites.. obnoxious german music ftw! no sarcasm), but truth is...

well, i'm sure you'll find out some day.

anyhoo, if you've been reading through the thread... this chick is kind of a ho.

edit;
and i've been holding my physics and apush book for the past couple hours, sadly.

[MissHygienic]

You cannot be seriously basing real life off fiction. And just because you like aggressive men doesn't mean that every other woman likes it, either. It's not the guy that's the problem, I was just responding to your post. It's the girl who's the problem who can't make up her mind whether he is aggressive or not.

[jayybee]

but thats what you guys aren't getting.
what women can just make up her mind like that!?
on any subject!
she can't because she's a woman!
she's not bein a whore & she's not "weighing her options."
in no wayy is she playn him.
now if he proclaims his love to her
&& she rejects him,
of course he's gonna take it like he was played,
but the reality is she picked being safe over being sorry.
she knows that the boyyfriend will
always be there. && that the possibility of a friend to love
relationship was slim to none.
her feelings were genuine from the get go.
if they were'nt she wouldnt have even
bothered for so longg.


&& by the wayy.
tristan & isolde is true story.

[MissFits]

Can't make up her mind because she's a woman?

I am a woman and I know what I want.

I think she can't make up her mind because she is a dumb little girl. Real women don't do that.

[transcendentalis...]

well said, missfits.

girl has a boyfriend. long distance, but that doesn't mean he int a boyfriend.

girl flirts with other dude. girl holds hands with other dude, girl lets dude write on her boob (i still don't get that), girl kisses other dude.

girl still has a boyfriend who is not other dude.

does that not make sense to you?
that would be called "cheating" in modern-day america.

aand... pick up a book, lady. t&i is most definitely not a true story. look it up.
/GG

[jayybee]

first of all
your probably not even a real woman
so cut that shit out right now.
&& you can't tell me you've never been stuck in
a situation where you just can't make up
your mind.
anyy situation
your a girl, it's encoded in your DNA
deal with it!
&& to put down another girl
for stayin on top her game
is just haterism.

step yo` game up!!
forrreaalllsss.


&& im not sayin she running game
but she must be doin' something right
cuz she got two dudes on her jock!
[not to discourage the starter of this topic at all,
you do what you feel honey.=)]

[jayybee]

and revoltaire

its not cheating.
think of it this way.
"any man has the chance to sweep any woman off their feet"
-hitch

i live by that code.
&& long distance myy ass!!!
that aint no relationship.
thats a myspace booty call
hello!?
you need to step yo game up too booboo.
ya'll all need a reality check.
the world could give two shits about how
you feel about his situation.
he shouldnt have even asked none of us.
he shoudlve just followed his heart.

thats what i advise him to do.