Hardest Part Of A Relationship Options

[pinacoolada]

Trust. Oh God.

[Insurmountable]

I think the hardest part of relationships is when you get over the lovey dovey part of the relationships and you start to hit the hard parts and the fighting to see if you guys are really good for each other so to speak. Pretty much testing the whole relationship over and over to see if its going to work throughout all of these fights..

[SeonLee]

Fidelity & trust & communication & suffocating & etc. But I think my top two would be trust and communication.

[transcendentalis...]

for me, at the moment (we're both 18, freshmen in university, dating a year, basically high school sweethearts), the toughest part is probably having different career choices or taking different paths in life.

he IS a big part of my life and i am a big part in his life. but we're not set on marrying any time soon and we're not going to commit to marrying 10 years from now when we have stable careers and ready to settle down.

so like, i guess the hardest part is that being so young, there HAS to be a time when we got to make a choice. it's kind of inevitable we'll fade away but the question is...do we stay in touch and be devoted to each other for that long.

i mean i don't expect him to give up his dream career for me. and he doesn't expect me to either.

so this is what is hard, if that makes any sense at all?

that makes plenty of sense. it makes me think about whether the purpose of teenage relationships would solely be for making memories and gaining experience.

i do respect and give best wishes to the relationships that have lasted even through all these crazy teenagery years. it's so difficult sometimes to understand how your "other half" changes over long periods of time, so ... kudos.

[Flaunted]

Trust definitely.
And like Sammi & holly said, post lovey dovey.
We're still at that stage right now but I dont see it ending anytime soon. But i know that in 2 years he plans on studying abroad in japan and.. it's scary knowing he'll be gone though it seems far from now.
so distance and communication will also be very hard.

[azndreamer]

Definitely the distance. Me and him are so close, have been ever since we've been friends. But we only recently got together. What is amazing is how good we are with each other. But now we are on winter break and he lives in another freaking country.. So i cant see him for a month. Miss him a lot..

[nosylilme]

I think the hardest part of relationships is when you get over the lovey dovey part of the relationships and you start to hit the hard parts and the fighting to see if you guys are really good for each other so to speak. Pretty much testing the whole relationship over and over to see if its going to work throughout all of these fights..

For sure.