New Relationships, Keepin' if Fun & Funky. |
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 Dec 13 2007, 06:53 PM
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What's your approach to keeping a blossoming relationship from getting too heavy, too soon?
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Dec 13 2007, 07:06 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Tell him that I'd like to take things slow so we can build trust in our relationship.
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Dec 13 2007, 07:17 PM
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 Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
Doing lots of unique and different things together. Setting aside time to just snuggle up in front of the box with a load of junk food.
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Dec 13 2007, 07:22 PM
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 ALLISON Group: Official Designer Posts: 3,372 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 310,259 |
Keep dates short and sweet. Don't see each other too many times a week.
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Dec 13 2007, 08:28 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
For me and my beau we are going super slow. I guess I really wouldn't know what to say, other than the classic I want to get to know you first stage.
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Dec 13 2007, 08:31 PM
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Don't spend a lot of time together alone. It will cut down on temptations.
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Dec 13 2007, 08:32 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
^ That is a very good suggestion, but after a while, it does get to be a bit much with the whole group thing.
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Dec 14 2007, 12:32 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(Synesthesia @ Dec 13 2007, 07:06 PM)  Tell him that I'd like to take things slow so we can build trust in our relationship. Ha! You know how that usually ends up? With some other girl chillin' wit'cho boy, biddy. |
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Dec 14 2007, 12:48 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
QUOTE(reptilia @ Dec 13 2007, 10:32 PM) ^ That is a very good suggestion, but after a while, it does get to be a bit much with the whole group thing. Thank you. You could do things by yourselves, like going to the movies or the mall or something. That way you two are together alone but since their are so many people around you probably won't have sex. |
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Dec 14 2007, 04:28 PM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Dec 13 2007, 11:48 PM) Thank you. You could do things by yourselves, like going to the movies or the mall or something. That way you two are together alone but since their are so many people around you probably won't have sex. Good point. Sex is tempting when you're really attracted to someone. I've told this guy that I want to take things slowly, because I think he's a lot more anxious than I am. We both just got out of serious relationships. I need time to get to know this guy before I start trying to get serious. I don't want us to both be "rebounding." |
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Dec 14 2007, 07:42 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
If you see someone that you really connect with, go all out. But keep things leveled.
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