have you ever felt like you weren't good enough? |
 Nov 12 2007, 12:54 PM
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 shboom =]  Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693  |
just wondering about this. bc i get this feeling alot. sometimes i just don't feel like i'll ever be good enough. and i hate feeling like that. and i was just wondering if other ppl had this problem too.
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Nov 12 2007, 12:57 PM
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 <joke> inside </joke> Group: Official Member Posts: 2,283 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 470,590 |
good enough to whom?
parents/relatives - all the time friends - never a guy - sometimes, but i wish it was never other adults - depends |
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Nov 12 2007, 12:58 PM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
yea like i mean my mom cals me worthless all the time.
and so like no matter how hard i try to not feel like this i do. i mean i try not to but when a guy leaves me for someone else it brings back all the times where my mom has told me i'd never be good enough and it makes me feel like maybe she could have been right ya know? |
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Nov 12 2007, 11:19 PM
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 Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
awwww.
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Nov 13 2007, 02:15 AM
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 Break My Heart Again. Group: Official Designer Posts: 480 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,983 |
sorry to hear that!
i think almost everyone has felt like that at one point or another, and it most definitely hurts...but it's important to just keep going... prove them wrong  (and fyi, i don't know you, but don't think you sound worthless  )
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Nov 13 2007, 10:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,020 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,785 |
I know Im never good enough for anything.
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Nov 13 2007, 10:28 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
I kinda feel that way now.
not necessarily 'not good enough', more like i won't meet the expectations of a certain individual. |
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Nov 13 2007, 11:34 PM
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i never really felt like that way about a guy. it's more like, they arent good enough for me
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Nov 14 2007, 12:01 PM
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 Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
Haha, nope. My opinion of myself borders on the egotistical...
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Nov 14 2007, 01:14 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
Yea I've felt that way all the time. Seriously stop thinking about it and it starts to fade out of your mind.
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Nov 16 2007, 03:32 PM
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 An original Harry Potter fan Group: Official Member Posts: 1,469 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,023 |
Yes but you know what the guys at my school are idiots so I could care less if any of them liked me.
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Nov 16 2007, 07:29 PM
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 Its Kayla Baby! Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 533,067 |
Yes.
Everyday. Its just important to keep on going though, coz in the end you will find someone who makes you feel good enough. You will achieve something and be proud of yourself and might not even need to be told you are worth something. It just takes time. |
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Nov 16 2007, 07:31 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
No I don't. Everyone deserves a shot at anyone. Well almost everyone.
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Nov 16 2007, 07:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Everyone feels this way sometimes. I used to feel like I wasn't good enough for people more often, but in the past few weeks I haven't thought about it. If anything, don't ever let a guy make you feel like you're not good enough for him. If he does, he's the one who's not good enough for you.
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Nov 17 2007, 02:57 AM
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 :) Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,636 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,459 |
LOL Eddie, almost everyone?
Uh.. yeah, I have. It sucks. Not usually with my parents, but sometimes. |
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Nov 18 2007, 07:24 AM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
definitly not good enough for the old man. hes told me he loves me but only because he has too...
meh im feel like im not good enough a lot for my boyfriend. but he is trying to get me over it and prove that i am. hes such a sweetie. |
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Dec 1 2007, 06:24 PM
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 sugar and spice Group: Member Posts: 769 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,477 |
Maannn, I hate that feeling. ):
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Dec 2 2007, 11:57 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
Yeah definitely!
My parents they use to compare my cousins to me, or themselves when they were my age. It has stopped for now but, I just feel horrible when I'm put into a situation like that. My boyfriend, Not really but times when we're with friends and they talk or do things that I don't know, i feel really singled out and yeah :/ But I can deal, I have good qualities that I like and other people who are j about em. |
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Dec 6 2007, 05:01 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
yeah ):
i keep thinking im not good enough for my parents, i wish i can double to be my sister. but im good for my friends and my guy and other people around me (: |
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Dec 6 2007, 08:34 AM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Definately, when it comes to my parents. They always want higher grades
 Even if I get a 100.
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Dec 6 2007, 04:55 PM
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I think most of us have. When I was younger until now, I'm 17, I've been told I was a mistake. A mistake mainly at everything.
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Dec 6 2007, 05:46 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Hell no! I love being me! There is nobody better fit to play the role of me in my life!
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Dec 6 2007, 06:48 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Why not?
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Dec 7 2007, 08:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 307 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 598,634 |
I used to ,but now I just don't care. I try what's best for me and if it's not good enough for somewhere then they need to stop worrying about me and concentrate on themselves.
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Dec 7 2007, 11:06 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
yeah, i have my insecurities at times. i work extremely hard in whatever way i can in order to not disappoint my family, but mostly my parents. i'm never all that insecure about making friends, however. i feel pretty confident when it comes to communicating and meeting new people. before and even at the beginning of my relationship, i did have a LOT of insecurities, but not because of him. they're because of myself. even now, i feel a little insecure, but he makes things better. lol soo i don't feel that way really towards anyone except for my family. [: but that just gives me motivation to keep trying in order to be good enough.
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