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Oh yea my mom had an abortion as well. I lost so much respect for her and didn't talk to her for a while.
Each one of my mom's kids has a different dad, so my sisters dad is like off in some other state and doesn't really have anything to do with her and my brother's dad..my mom lives with him currently and they have visitation rights but my dad is trying to get custody for him even though its not his kid ( he was led to believe it was his kid for a year and half though >_>) |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:55 PM
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If you're hoping to have one some years from now, then I guess that's not bad.
Just please don't turn into that 14-year-old girl on the Maury show that had sex in public with an elephant load of guys. |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:57 PM
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 Naomi loves you. Y'all may call me NaNa Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,925 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,774 |
QUOTE(The Markster @ Nov 22 2007, 05:55 PM)  If you're hoping to have one some years from now, then I guess that's not bad. Just please don't turn into that 14-year-old girl on the Maury show that had sex in public with an elephant load of guys. ^ Really, I agree |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:59 PM
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QUOTE(The Markster @ Nov 22 2007, 08:55 PM) If you're hoping to have one some years from now, then I guess that's not bad. Just please don't turn into that 14-year-old girl on the Maury show that had sex in public with an elephant load of guys. or the one who had sex for a cheeseburger and now needs to find out who's the baby's daddy |
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Nov 22 2007, 08:06 PM
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Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
^and has to have like 3 paternity tests to figure it out.
Oh how they must feel like the biggest sluts |
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Nov 22 2007, 08:11 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
^ I love those girlrs at least when they go on Maury. Its good TV. sometimes.
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Nov 22 2007, 08:20 PM
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Naomi loves you. Y'all may call me NaNa Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,925 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,774 |
QUOTE(freeflow @ Nov 22 2007, 06:11 PM) ^ I love those girlrs at least when they go on Maury. Its good TV. sometimes. Yeah it's really entertaining and funny especially when the girl is cussing the guy out. |
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Nov 22 2007, 08:22 PM
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My favorite shows are the ones where the girl is so sure he's the dad. She's all cussing him out, all up in his face, saying she is 500000% sure that he is the father.
And then it turns out he isn't  Bitch isn't talking then, hahaha.
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Nov 22 2007, 08:29 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
Haha seriously! Those are my favorite ones too. Or vice versa when the guy knows FOR SURE he's not the father an ends up being it.
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Nov 22 2007, 08:38 PM
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haha wow! i'm not talking about now! i mean when i'm like 20! gosh what is your guyses problem? i'm not a slut, i'm just talking about having a baby and suddenly it turns into 14 year olds on maury taking paternity tests and eating cheeseburgers?
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Nov 22 2007, 08:38 PM
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Naomi loves you. Y'all may call me NaNa Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,925 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,774 |
QUOTE(freeflow @ Nov 22 2007, 06:29 PM) Haha seriously! Those are my favorite ones too. Or vice versa when the guy knows FOR SURE he's not the father an ends up being it. Oh yeah, I really be cussing out the TV. |
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Nov 22 2007, 09:02 PM
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QUOTE(LianaIsTheShit @ Nov 22 2007, 05:38 PM) haha wow! i'm not talking about now! i mean when i'm like 20! gosh what is your guyses problem? i'm not a slut, i'm just talking about having a baby and suddenly it turns into 14 year olds on maury taking paternity tests and eating cheeseburgers? Did anyone call you a slut in the first place? I've been wondering that . You brought this up in the first place. Yes conversation trailed but hey, don't try to blame us. |
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Nov 22 2007, 09:27 PM
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QUOTE(Elba @ Nov 22 2007, 07:32 PM) From what you have said, you;re thinking you want a baby before you're financially stable? Good luck. Have fun feeding off of the government's money. That's my f**king money! Not the government's lol. And I don't want to support your f**king kids so if I were you, I'd wait until I finished beauty school or tech school or wherever you plan on going. I'm sick of the government taxing the shit out of my paycheck to fund a war I don't support, pay for public schools that aren't getting any better, social security that I don't use & everybody's damn kids who I don't even know!! I don't want to sound like a bitch, but i just HAD to get that out! lol. |
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Nov 22 2007, 09:45 PM
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if you have a baby right now, you better go ahead and say your goodbyes to your social life.
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Nov 22 2007, 09:52 PM
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Babies are cute, yeah. But so are puppies. And then they poop everywhere and throw up all over the f**king place... and you want a baby that screams and screams and pitches a fit and throws up even more and poops out Wisconsin? AND not even a husband to at least have a little legal responsibility to take care of the kid? Damn.
Try babysitting. But instead of just one night, spend a whole week in the house with just you and the baby, and see how much you love children after that. Oh, yeah. And then babies grow up. |
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Nov 22 2007, 10:01 PM
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QUOTE(me1issaaaa @ Nov 22 2007, 07:52 PM) Babies are cute, yeah. But so are puppies. And then they poop everywhere and throw up all over the f**king place... and you want a baby that screams and screams and pitches a fit and throws up even more and poops out Wisconsin? AND not even a husband to at least have a little legal responsibility to take care of the kid? Damn. Try babysitting. But instead of just one night, spend a whole week in the house with just you and the baby, and see how much you love children after that. Oh, yeah. And then babies grow up. I couldn't have said it any better. Babies are so expensive. 20 is a good age too. I think you need to explore the world on your own for awhile though. Finish college, hang out with friends, and get drunk  . Grow up a little and mature a lot. Then have kids.
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Nov 22 2007, 10:04 PM
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Well, most of us do want children before the age of 30, as do I! We just have to keep in mind that raising a child isn't a walk in the park...especially when we're still children ourselves. I mean, I can't wait to have my first child, but I'm going to until I'm 25ish?
 Love...pregnancy, these things shouldn't be rushed.
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Nov 22 2007, 10:11 PM
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okay i see where you all are coming from. i should finish beauty school first, explore the world. i like the sound of that.
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Nov 22 2007, 10:19 PM
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That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Yes. Finish what YOU want to do so that you don't make it harder for yourself and your baby.
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Nov 22 2007, 11:51 PM
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QUOTE(LianaIsTheShit @ Nov 22 2007, 09:15 PM) i know i'm only 16 and it wouldn't be any time soon but like in the next few years, i totally want a baby! is that weird? of course i'll make sure it's with someone i love but i don't want to wait forever like until I'm making a million dollars, mean then i'd have to wait until i was like 30 and i want a baby soon. plus who actually waits until they are ready? doesn't it just happen? what do you think? I am getting married and I don't even want a baby yet. You need to wait until you can care for the baby properly. Why plan on having a baby when you know you are not ready? All that leads to is a f**ked up kid and an unhappy life for you. Not only that, but it would be harder for you to find someone to be with if the man you had the baby with left. I can find at least 10 underage moms that will tell you you are TOO YOUNG to have a baby. You can't even capitalize your sentences but you want a humans life in your hands? I don't care how mentally mature you are until you have a steady income and a safe and loving environment having a baby is irresponsible. My cousin just had a beautiful baby girl after finishing cosmetology school and even though she has her shit together parenting is HARD. |
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Nov 23 2007, 01:04 AM
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Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
QUOTE(LianaIsTheShit @ Nov 22 2007, 08:38 PM) haha wow! i'm not talking about now! i mean when i'm like 20! gosh what is your guyses problem? i'm not a slut, i'm just talking about having a baby and suddenly it turns into 14 year olds on maury taking paternity tests and eating cheeseburgers?  I thought everyone should read that xD |
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Nov 23 2007, 01:26 AM
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Have a baby, but don't start thinking about it now or you will get pregnant. Instead, find someone you know with a baby that will let you babysit for awhile, then see how you feel. Sure, they're cute, but what about the costs? Making ends meet even with a beautician degree is still going to be hell. I suggest you get married to a guy with a stable job (that you also love since OBVIOUSLY marriage is "just a ring"), set your life on track, and THEN start thinking about the kids. My sister has been married nearly four years now to a guy she's been with for ten, and they don't have kids yet because they know that bringing a child into this world when they're not financially ready, nor adequately prepared would be the end of them. This is just a stupid teenage fantasy. You'll feel differently when you're twenty years old, and your friends are out partying and having a good time while you sit at home with the baby because the sitter was at her school dance. |
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Nov 23 2007, 12:50 PM
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Next!
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Nov 23 2007, 12:58 PM
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I think you need to grow up.
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Nov 23 2007, 03:28 PM
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It's hard to take CreateBlog seriously with topics like these.
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