What Should I Do, My Boyfriend && I Haven't Talked In Forever |
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 Nov 22 2007, 06:01 AM
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My Bpyfriend And I Haven't Talked In About 2 Weeks And We Rarely See Each Other. I No Longer Want To Be In A Relationship With Him But I Don't Know How To Tell Him. I Love Him More Than Anything But He Just Has To Get His Priorities Staight First. What Should I Do???
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Nov 22 2007, 06:48 AM
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dump him?
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Nov 22 2007, 10:18 AM
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Uh oh. Two topics of the same kind? *gasp*
Anyways, just break up with the guy. Because I think you already established the fact that you don't want this relationship anymore. But if you want to end up on a good note, communication is key when you break up with someone. Be clear and concise. If you don't, and end up jumbling words, you'll leave the guy confused because it can end as a good but weird breakup or a bad breakup. |
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Nov 22 2007, 11:14 AM
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I was in this same situation about eight months ago or so. I did everything I could to try and see him and hang out, but he just didn't seem interested. I ended up dumping him, and it was the right choice. If he isn't making an effort to see you or talk to you, he obviously isn't interested. So my advice is to dump him and move on. It sucks, but that's life.
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Nov 22 2007, 02:54 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
I agree with the other people. If it was a serious relationship, he'd take it seriously. To me it sounds like you two are just getting bored.
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Nov 23 2007, 01:16 AM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
I think you were asking how to break it to him. It seems as if you've made up your mind, so I don't see what is keeping you from telling him the truth. Honesty is the way to go here; otherwise, you're going to be unhappy all of the time. Don't let the relationship dominate you.
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Nov 23 2007, 01:30 AM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
It looks like its not working out. If you really want to save the relationship, talk to him about it. If not, just break up with him.
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Nov 23 2007, 01:31 AM
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First of all... Stop Typing Like This.
And secondly, you DO sound like you're becoming bored with each other. Go ahead and talk to him about it; Maybe it's time to move on. |
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Nov 23 2007, 02:22 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
You Should Stop Typing Like This First && Maybe He'll Start Talking To You.
how long have you guys been together? maybe he just doesn't want to be the one instigating the breaking up, so he's taking the cowardly way out and trying to get you to dump him. |
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