Damn this guy can't kiss!, is that ever possible? Options

[AimeeLynn]

I kissed my boyfriend yesterday but it was nothing like what I hope it would be. He can't kiss...not insulting him or nothing but it questions me and him. Is it the chemistry between us? I don't get it.. I 'm not that even sure if I like him as much as he does. He really does like me and he is really shy with me and when we talk it seems I keep talking to end the awkward silences. He says he is shy because he likes me "a lot". But I hate not talking to him like a friend...it's always awkward for me...and not him.
I don't understand should I end it?
Should I try to "teach" him to kiss?
How can you teach someone to kiss?

[*jeanna*]

you're... 18? how old is he? he might just be some virgin.

i had a mormon boyfriend and he only kisses 1 girl his whole life. WOW did it suck. and he has a hugeee nose that would get in the way. needless to say i had to show him how to kiss and you might have to do that too.

[rnicron]

he might just be some virgin.

There's different types?

[icecreamisyummy]

ive been told im a great kisser, but when it comes to kissing guys with big lips, I SUCK! i feel like its my first time ever makign out. i dont knwo hwo to kiss a guy with bit lipss :-(. any tips??

[MissFits]

I would say tell him what your telling us.
And teach him how to kiss. It will be fun
If you want your relationship to work you have to be open with him.

[Uronacid]

Hahahah, I have had this problem. My second girlfriend was a terrible kisser.

Here's what you have to do:

Don't tell him he's a bad kisser. That will just make him feel terrible. He will become self conscious, and you will feel bad. Instead, tell him how you like to be kissed. Say things like, "I like it when you kiss me like this.", then immediately show him how you want to be kissed.

Also, don't feel bad for telling him to you like to be kissed. He's a newbie, and you need to give him a break. You weren't perfect when you learned how to kiss. The more you guys kiss the better you'll get at it. You'll get to know each others kissing methods, and things will become more natural.

I remember when me and Holly kissed for the first time. I really didn't know what to do (I hadn't really kissed anyone in about 2-3 years), and I don't think she really knew what she was doing either. It didn't take long though. After a few minutes, we got to know each others and naturally started kissing in a way that was complimentary. Maybe, were just naturals (as many people are).

Any way, best thing you can do is encourage him to kiss another way by physically showing him how.

[Sandraaa]

I am a good kisser (not flaunting or anything like that) and my last boyfriend was an OK kisser which didn't bother me. I don't know what to tell you.

[icecreamisyummy]

Hahahah, I have had this problem. My second girlfriend was a terrible kisser.

Here's what you have to do:
Don't tell him he's a bad kisser. That will just make him feel terrible. He will become self conscious, and you will feel bad. Instead, tell him how you like to be kissed. Say things like, I like it when you kiss me like "this". Immediately show him how you want to be kissed by kissing him.

yea what he said lol tahts usually what i do

[Uronacid]

Holly is the best kisser I know. ;]

[tokyo-rose]

I don't understand should I end it?

Don't end your relationship just because he can't kiss. That's a little extreme. It'll take a while for you to know how to kiss each other. And I basically ditto Josh's advice. Don't worry, it'll get better.

[EddieV]

you're... 18? how old is he? he might just be some virgin.

or he must have small lips.

[ersatz]

It's perfectly fine if you teach someone how to kiss. My boyfriend hadn't kissed anyone when we started dating and he was a little off, but I showed him the right way and now he's a super duper kisser.

[*aandfshopper*]

You're a f ucking pathetic b itch. That's what you are. F ucking slut.

[LoveToMySilas]

^ I don't like your attitude, mister!

Well anyway, there's always room for improvement. Of course you shouldn't say flat out...you suck at kissing but practice makes perfect, so my best bet is to follow Josh's advice. he seems like he knows what he's doing.

[AimeeLynn]

A anfshopper: this made me laugh because I'm not a slut.

Thanks josh, I think I get it... I am ( not flaunting it either) good kisser becuase he told me and my prevoius bf told me so.

[shoryuken]

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[S-Majere]

It didn't take long though. After a few minutes, we got to know each others and naturally started kissing in a way that was complimentary. Maybe, were just naturals (as many people are).

Very true

It's something that takes a little work, but does settle down into a noticable 'style'.

[EddieV]

Small lips... bad? Doesn't matter how big or small, you just gotta know how to work it.

Possibly, I heard people with DSL's kiss better than others.

[toxicity584]

I have heard the same exact thing.

[EddieV]

^ High five to us!

[toxicity584]

^Heck Yeah.

[yaamakoh]

ive been told im a great kisser, but when it comes to kissing guys with big lips, I SUCK! i feel like its my first time ever makign out. i dont knwo hwo to kiss a guy with bit lipss :-(. any tips??

i got big lips!
you gotta nibble on the lower or upper lip gently. there's more to explore, so go for it! don't be afraid to experiment!
but kissing girls with thin lips compared to bigger lips is a huge difference in my opinion. gotta change up the game plan

[icecreamisyummy]

i got big lips!
you gotta nibble on the lower or upper lip gently. there's more to explore, so go for it! don't be afraid to experiment!
but kissing girls with thin lips compared to bigger lips is a huge difference in my opinion. gotta change up the game plan

hahahahaha thanks

[yaamakoh]

your welcome

[Smilessss]

maybe its his first kiss? and maybe its your first kiss with him, if you dont stop kissing him then maybe your kisses with him will get better *n.n* alot of people are like that im sure, has happened to me *n.n*