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 Oct 21 2007, 04:28 PM
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I lost it when I was 15. I look back on it know and think 'damn, I was just a little kid'. I don't regret it or anything, I just think it's a young age.
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Oct 21 2007, 06:00 PM
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 (Allison) Group: Human Posts: 420 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,668 |
^^I know what you mean. Except I still am a little kid. A little, sexually active kid. O_o
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Oct 21 2007, 06:27 PM
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i haven't had sex yet, but i don't think that it's really that big of a deal. when i meet the right person and i believe that i'm in love with them, i'll have sex. and i'm not too sure about marriage. who knows. and if i don't ever get married, well then i'm definitely not staying celibate my entire life.
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Oct 21 2007, 06:42 PM
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QUOTE(madgamer @ Oct 18 2007, 03:01 PM)  ^Same:]. I don't believe in sex before marriage unless I am hella in love with the guy. Even yet, I might not because losing my virginity means a lot. Girls that lose their virginity before before they are marry are obviously desperate in my point of view. I can wait thnx. ................... ........................... .................................. Desperate? Are you sure about that? |
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Oct 21 2007, 07:05 PM
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QUOTE(madgamer @ Oct 18 2007, 01:01 PM) ^Same:]. I don't believe in sex before marriage unless I am hella in love with the guy. Even yet, I might not because losing my virginity means a lot. Girls that lose their virginity before before they are marry are obviously desperate in my point of view. I can wait thnx. HAHA. Sexually active people aren't desperate. Maybe you just can't get any. |
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Oct 21 2007, 07:06 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
I really wanna wait for the right person, but omg temptation -___-
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Oct 21 2007, 08:05 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
Virgin. You know what when it happens it happens.
QUOTE(Elba @ Oct 21 2007, 05:05 PM) HAHA. Sexually active people aren't desperate. Maybe you just can't get any. 
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Oct 21 2007, 11:08 PM
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QUOTE(Elba @ Oct 21 2007, 07:05 PM) HAHA. Sexually active people aren't desperate. Maybe you just can't get any. Aww I wanted to see if she responded to her oh so wrong generalization before attacking.. |
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Oct 22 2007, 12:43 AM
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 vivacity Group: Official Member Posts: 3,183 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,247 |
I have not.
but honestly I do not see any big deal about it. No one has to argue with me, but i think it's just another part of life or whatever. Shouldn't make such a fuss about it. |
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Oct 22 2007, 01:19 PM
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QUOTE(SinfullySweet @ Oct 22 2007, 12:29 PM) ROFL. I've actually planned it. Prom night :) Or sooner. keke Haha! I was so determined not to lose mine on prom night - seemed very cliched!
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Oct 22 2007, 09:52 PM
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I haven't lost mine yet not till marriage.
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Oct 23 2007, 10:01 AM
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QUOTE(SinfullySweet @ Oct 23 2007, 01:05 AM) LET ME HAVE MY FAIRY TALE DAMMIT!  If that's what you want, you go for it.
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Oct 23 2007, 12:58 PM
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not yet...
I'm planning for the right moment. I told all my boyfriends this since they had done it already. |
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Oct 23 2007, 01:09 PM
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i lost mine when i was 15 and rly i don't regret it. i lost it to somebody that i loved and cared about. and i'll treasure that moment with him forever.
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Nov 3 2007, 11:22 PM
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Yes desperate. If you love that person so much, why cant you wait till you guys get marry?
I can't get any ? ROFL I am not a slut who would easily give off my body like you do. Thanks. |
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Nov 3 2007, 11:47 PM
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QUOTE(madgamer @ Nov 3 2007, 11:22 PM) Yes desperate. If you love that person so much, why cant you wait till you guys get marry? I can't get any ? ROFL I am not a slut who would easily give off my body like you do. Thanks. have fun living a marriage with horrible sex. 
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Nov 3 2007, 11:57 PM
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Dont worry about me. When I finally get marry I'll have sex every night hahah.
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Nov 4 2007, 12:03 AM
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QUOTE(madgamer @ Nov 3 2007, 11:57 PM) Dont worry about me. When I finally get marry I'll have sex every night hahah. yeah, ok but that doesn't mean it's going to be good sex. a lot of marriages end because the sex sucks and the reason they cheat. |
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Nov 4 2007, 12:05 AM
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so your telling me and me and my husband will end up breaking up cause of bad sex and he cheats ? ookay. im not even married yet, so who know what will happen.
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Nov 4 2007, 12:12 AM
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I lost mine at fourteen, and sometimes, I regret it more than anything. We're not together anymore, and it kills me. I gave my virtue (the most precious gift God has ever given me, along with unconditional love) to the one guy I've ever really and truly loved... This was not a teenage fantasy, it was the real deal.
Don't take sex lightly; Maidenhood is not something to be lost on a spur of the moment choice. I'll say this for all of you virgins; Congratulations. (By the way, we're not desperate just because we've had sex.) |
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Nov 4 2007, 12:22 AM
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QUOTE(aestheticYOU @ Nov 4 2007, 12:12 AM) I lost mine at fourteen, and sometimes, I regret it more than anything. We're not together anymore, and it kills me. I gave my virtue (the most precious gift God has ever given me, along with unconditional love) to the one guy I've ever really and truly loved... This was not a teenage fantasy, it was the real deal. Don't take sex lightly; Maidenhood is not something to be lost on a spur of the moment choice. I'll say this for all of you virgins; Congratulations. (By the way, we're not desperate just because we've had sex.) i wonder do people think of hymen reconstructive surgery. i saw on tv this couple was doing it and couldnt have sex for 6 weeks. was pretty expensive too for a 1 second thing and plus she could have broken it again doing daily things or something. i guess mental? anyways, i think if you dont have your virginity it shouldn't matter to your partner at marriage. if you don't cheat with anyone in your past.. then why would their past sex partners matter now? |
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Nov 4 2007, 12:27 AM
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I agree Jeanna. Most women break their hymen before sex, hence the reason some bleed and some don't.
Hymen reconsruction seems a bit precipitous. It really shouldn't matter to your future husband/wife. I can understand the rejection they may feel because they weren't your first, but afterwards its probably not going to matter. 
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Nov 4 2007, 12:41 AM
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QUOTE(aestheticYOU @ Nov 4 2007, 12:27 AM) I agree Jeanna. Most women break their hymen before sex, hence the reason some bleed and some don't. Hymen reconsruction seems a bit precipitous. It really shouldn't matter to your future husband/wife. I can understand the rejection they may feel because they weren't your first, but afterwards its probably not going to matter. yeah i guess a lot is mental on virginity. i wonder how many people on CB have slept with, number wise. i use to be ashamed of my number but then i tell someone and they are like, "what? other girls i know have much MUCH more." i can't change it and it's not like i'm sleeping around now anyways. i've been celibate for 1 year and 2 months. what pisses me off about when i say that is other people say, "oh yeah me too." there is a difference between saying NO to sex and NOT getting any lol. |
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Nov 4 2007, 12:50 AM
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Haha! Yeah.
I'm gonna say "hurrah!" for everyone who says waiting until marriage is the best route, because it is! |
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Nov 4 2007, 12:57 AM
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I'm not ashamed, nor am I proud. It's nice to know it was with someone I cared about, instead of a random guy off the street. We'd known each other for awhile, but I will say that the relationship was a little forced; we both knew trying was a mistake, but it all turned out well.
I associate my virtue with love; I couldn't of made the choice I did if I didn't care. Adults scare teenagers with sex to prevent pre-marriage pregnancy. Little do they know that it just makes us curious to try; few people are really in love when they have their first sexual encounter. By the way, I think if you can't say the word 'sex' openly, you shouldn't be having it; just a thought. |
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