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 Oct 15 2007, 07:54 PM
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 Home is where your rump rests!  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969  |
You know those people that are totally head over heels for people they've never even spoken to? Maybe not literally, but like, srsly don't even have the balls to start a conversation.
Are you one of them? And if you're not, are you like me, who cannot fathom how that's even possible? I mean really, if you've never spoken to them, how do you like them? :/ |
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Oct 15 2007, 07:55 PM
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 :) Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,636 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,459 |
Hahaha yes, I know quite a few people like that. It kind of makes me laugh. Yup, I enjoy laughing at them.
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Oct 15 2007, 09:24 PM
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i guess it's the same concept as a person having a crush on a celebrity they've never met. it's easy to fall in love with a person whose personality was created in one's head.
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Oct 15 2007, 09:43 PM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
Yeah those people are weird. I don't see how it could work.
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Oct 15 2007, 09:45 PM
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I was in some type of situation like that. There was this guy, a friend of a friend, who was like that. He liked me, but NEVER spoke to me in person. It was weird..
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Oct 15 2007, 09:49 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
I felt bad for one of my guy friends who had a crush on this girl he never ever talked to. He liked her for over a year and my friends and I were always pushing him to talk to her. So finally he started to her in class and he got to know her and she turned out to be the opposite of what he thought.
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Oct 16 2007, 12:17 AM
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Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
^Honestly; good. for. him. In fact, I talked to a guy about a girl who he distantly crushed on, and I think he didn't want to talk to her in case she turned out away from his expectations.
QUOTE(synkro @ Oct 15 2007, 07:24 PM)  i guess it's the same concept as a person having a crush on a celebrity they've never met. it's easy to fall in love with a person whose personality was created in one's head. Mmmhm. But, for the record, Daniel Radcliffe and I really are in love with each other.Yeah, I was talking with my friend about this and she pointed out the celebrity thing - and while they're rly similar, I think part of the "ridiculousness" of the fact that they still like them despite the never talking thing is how very much I want to slap them across the face and be like GROW SOME BALLS ALREADY. Whereas with a celebrity, unless you want to risk a lawsuit, 'tis not as possible to strike a conversation. |
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Oct 16 2007, 04:18 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
^ yeah, the way that Cristiano Ronaldo and I are madly in love with each other.
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Oct 16 2007, 05:05 PM
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 Ms. Granger Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 735 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 165,238 |
Well, I can like, look at someone and envision what they would be like based on their looks -- what kind of interests they'd have, how they'd sound, what books they like, whatever. I guess you could keep on fantasizing for a while and fall in love with the character you've created but you'd be sorely disappointed when you finally talk to them.
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Oct 16 2007, 10:34 PM
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No I'm not like that. Those people bug the hell out of me. They never talk to the person but are "OH SO IN LOVEEE!" with that person...how are you in love with someone that you do not know/doesn't love you back. To me you cannot be completly 100% in love unless you're getting loved in return. In my opinion...
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Oct 16 2007, 10:39 PM
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if it's a celebrity, then it's alright. but if it's a real life crush, dang. especially if it's like "the last time i spoke to him was like in grade six when he asked me "do you know what time it is?", i'll always remember!". pathetic.
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Oct 16 2007, 11:20 PM
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i can hear your heart cryin Group: Banned Posts: 108 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 510,510 |
theres a lot of f**kin losers in this world.
I always tell my friends who act like bitches to seize the moment,but they always insist on jerking theirselves off. |
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Oct 17 2007, 12:46 AM
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Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
QUOTE(misoshiru @ Oct 16 2007, 02:18 PM) ^ yeah, the way that Cristiano Ronaldo and I are madly in love with each other. Exactly! I knew someone had to understand. xD
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Oct 17 2007, 01:17 AM
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i had a stalker crush on one guy when i was in 10th grade till senior year. he was a year older.
haha. i NEVER once had a real conversation with him. he was just nice to look at |
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Oct 17 2007, 01:56 AM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
No I don't think I've ever liked someone I didn't talk to. I mean I don't really know how it would be possible, but I can defiantly remember it back in middle school and girls having crushes on people. Its just a faze everyone goes through I think..
Usually if I liked someone back in those days, your friends found out, they told the guy, and well he would start talking to you or you would start passing a note with the guy until you both had the guts to talk to each other XD |
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Oct 17 2007, 02:18 AM
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:) Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,636 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,459 |
QUOTE(misoshiru @ Oct 16 2007, 05:18 PM) ^ yeah, the way that Cristiano Ronaldo and I are madly in love with each other. Mmm yes, or like James McAvoy and I. 
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Oct 17 2007, 05:49 AM
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 <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 1,369 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 539,187 |
Shamefully I AM in this position .. and I hate it..
It's like time has frozen and it's gonna be stuck like this forever. But I doubt that he's anything like I expect once I manage to start speaking to him.. always happens lol |
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Oct 17 2007, 10:34 PM
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 bliss. Group: Member Posts: 735 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,566 |
QUOTE(RogueVanity @ Oct 17 2007, 06:49 AM) Shamefully I AM in this position .. and I hate it.. It's like time has frozen and it's gonna be stuck like this forever. But I doubt that he's anything like I expect once I manage to start speaking to him.. always happens lol well. you are not alone :D yeah. its all better in your head.. leave it as a crush i guess |
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Oct 17 2007, 10:41 PM
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DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
QUOTE(ersatz @ Oct 16 2007, 05:05 PM) Well, I can like, look at someone and envision what they would be like based on their looks -- what kind of interests they'd have, how they'd sound, what books they like, whatever. I guess you could keep on fantasizing for a while and fall in love with the character you've created but you'd be sorely disappointed when you finally talk to them. Daydreaming. Sometimes people play out better in my head.
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