Give Your Tips!, On Relationships... |
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| *Programmer* |
 Sep 23 2007, 02:24 AM
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This topic was made for one purpose. To give random tips that you think are important on what to say in critical points of your relationship:
Here are some. I will add more later on. Guys With A Girl: No : Means No Maybe : Means No Do I Look Fat?: Do Anything In Your Power To Change The Subject. Girls With A Guy: No : Means Perhaps Maybe : Means Yes Do You Love Me?: Use The Word "Care" To Avoid using "Love" Using a sentence such as "You know how much i care for you baby"(usually followed by a kiss for full affect.) Please feel free to add more tips! 
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Sep 23 2007, 02:58 AM
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 ٩(●̮̮̃•̃)۶  Group: Official Member Posts: 1,403 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,173 |
How do you know about relationships eh, Rico?
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Sep 23 2007, 10:41 AM
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Guys to Girls: She doesn't wanna hear about how hot she looks. Instead, learn to say beautiful.
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Sep 23 2007, 11:13 AM
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Communication is key. Put time aside to snuggle up and discuss anything and everything.
Time alone doing your own things is great for a relationship. It means you don't sink into a spiral of co-dependancy and you both get to chat to the other about your hobbies. Go out to places. Meet each other in different settings; but save that warm coffee shop for rainy days. Trust each other. |
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Sep 23 2007, 04:28 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
don't ever say, "a better kisser than ---... i thought it might cheer you up!" a couple days after you dump her.
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Sep 23 2007, 04:49 PM
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 Lurker. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,161 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,851 |
Don't be obsessive, control freak. It shows that you're not trusting.
Make time for your relationship. Don't call in the middle of the night trying to catch him/her cheating. [haha] |
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Sep 23 2007, 08:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 299 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 457,013 |
QUOTE(brownsugar @ Sep 23 2007, 08:07 AM)  Uh..Guys don't ever compare her to your past girlfriends. 
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Sep 23 2007, 08:24 PM
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 long time no CB. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,889 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,502 |
To both guys & girls, stop trying to make her/him like you more (or just like you in general if you're not in a relationship yet). You can't force his/her feelings to do something. It'll just come.. eventually.
Be yourself! alsdkfjalskdglasdv And girls.. don't talk about your period in front of guys  I read somewhere that a guy wrote "I hate it when girls talk about their periods. I mean, it's so awkward. We don't need to know about it.."
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Sep 23 2007, 08:35 PM
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QUOTE(salcha4u @ Sep 23 2007, 12:58 AM) How do you know about relationships eh, Rico? LMAO. OWNED. |
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Sep 24 2007, 04:35 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
- Even if he seems perfect, hes usually not. Make sure to talk to someone who knows what hes ACTUALLY like around people he goes out with and if you can try to talk to one of his ex girlfriends.
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Sep 28 2007, 02:50 AM
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 55KAMG's<3 Group: Member Posts: 232 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 577,506 |
QUOTE(XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX @ Sep 24 2007, 04:35 PM) - Even if he seems perfect, hes usually not. Make sure to talk to someone who knows what hes ACTUALLY like around people he goes out with and if you can try to talk to one of his ex girlfriends. Hey thats some fucked up ass advice dude. Why would you have someone snoop through his past without a real reason for doing so? Thats whack |
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Sep 28 2007, 07:57 AM
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Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
^ I agree. Digging up the dirt on someone (if there is any at all to dig) isn't really what people in real relationships do. You have to trust each other and trust that if there's something to know, he or she will tell you. Don't ever go behind their back!
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Sep 28 2007, 08:23 AM
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Guys, don't ever forget dates or important events (like her birthday). At least call one hour before the date or party or whatever to tell her that you can't make it (with a legitimate reason). And tell her that you'll make it up to her. :]
And. don't ever talk about other girls in front of her. Make her feel that she's the only girl that you appreciate. |
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Sep 28 2007, 11:46 AM
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 cvchango Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 |
trust each other that means no digging dirt or obsessive questioning If two people can't do this, they shouldn't be together. |
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Oct 1 2007, 11:54 PM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
You shouldn't bother trying to change the other person to be the unrealistic boy/girl of your dreams. Just setting yourself up for a fall.
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Oct 1 2007, 11:59 PM
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 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
"I love you" is different from "I like you".
If the other says: "I love you." Never says "Thanks." in return. |
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Oct 2 2007, 10:25 PM
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 pyrobeastilnecrophilaic Group: Member Posts: 217 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 562,974 |
Dont run up to the oppsoite sex friend and hug/cling/ect. on them for five minutes while your significant other is standing there ignored...
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Oct 3 2007, 06:47 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,252 |
This is for the guys:
1. Be confident! Confidence tells women that you have had success in the past, it shows that you are someone worthy of attention and are not afraid to show your intent. 2. Look your best! Dressing up well will help your confidence. It will also draw more attention to you. 3. Smile! Friendly people tend to make others want to approach them. I got these tips from a book actually... Alex Nova "Attract Women Naturally" ebook. REMOVED DO NOT ADVERTISE! -brownsugar |
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Oct 3 2007, 10:21 PM
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Desperate, clingy folks are always a turn off.
My response to those "b-but I'm hella persistant and ambitious!" No darling. You're annoying. You don't see relationships that last very long if you're constantly being annoyed with the boy/girlfriend just for being who they are. Learn how to take a rejection/a hint down good and move on. Who knows, maybe they'll suddenly be on their knees for you instead of the other way around. |
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Oct 9 2007, 11:52 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 579,987 |
BANG them and just run. Nothing ever happens after.
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Oct 10 2007, 12:09 AM
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55KAMG's<3 Group: Member Posts: 232 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 577,506 |
QUOTE(stolen @ Oct 1 2007, 11:59 PM) "I love you" is different from "I like you". If the other says: "I love you." Never says "Thanks." in return. I respond like that |
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Oct 10 2007, 12:50 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i want tips. $$ tips.
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| *Michelle* |
Oct 10 2007, 03:59 PM
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Tell the truth about where you work.
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Oct 10 2007, 07:27 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
Show her how much you love her, don't tell her, show her.
If your normally flirty with other girls, DON'T be flirty with them in front of your girlfriend, she WILL get pissed. Give her compliments and atleased a few times a day say somthing to her that will make her smile. |
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Oct 10 2007, 07:28 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
QUOTE(Michelle @ Oct 10 2007, 01:59 PM) Tell the truth about where you work. LMAO. True that. |
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