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 Sep 27 2007, 05:07 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593  |
If there is, then why don't you close this topic already. And please don't tell me to shut up. If you don't like what i have to say, don't bother reading them.
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Sep 27 2007, 07:52 PM
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 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
I agree High school love isn't love...it's lust.
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Sep 27 2007, 10:35 PM
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QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Sep 27 2007, 03:03 PM)  Yes i have a gf. And I care because 75% of cB is high school kids. And 90% of the threads they make on relationship forum is so ignorant. OMG I THINK HE LOVES ME BECAUSE HE JUST WAVED TO ME. OMG OMG. WHAT SHOULD I DO? And Spencer, seriously, get the f**k off my nuts, you been on my ass ever since the Kristina incident. Seriously f**k off. Not everyone is on your nuts like you'd like them to be. It's just funny that you think you're the Dr. Drew of cB. Let people do what they want. I understand you have an opinion and that's why I didn't say "hey, don't express it". You did, however, post about how you loved fat people and though a lot of people didn't agree, it's still there, isn't it? Yes. Just like you can express your hate towards fat people, high school kids can confess whatever love they have. But again, it's just a difference of opinion. I don't know why you think I have something against you. It's called debating. Not agreeing with someone does not mean they are against you in every aspect, it's just differing opinions. |
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Sep 27 2007, 10:49 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Uh. Spencer, Suz says to stop discussing about this on this thread, you know. Take it to PM. like you always say to others. Damn spammer.
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Sep 27 2007, 10:49 PM
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QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Sep 27 2007, 05:07 PM) If there is, then why don't you close this topic already. And please don't tell me to shut up. If you don't like what i have to say, don't bother reading them. Keke hokay |
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Sep 27 2007, 10:50 PM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
I'm so sick of people saying high school love isn't love and you need to be older to know what love is. So, if you don't date during high school and college, how do you know what love is when you're thirty? You're five years old and you know you love your parents, how do you know what love is? Love is an emotion. It's innately within people to feel (though some people just lack it and a conscience). It's not a duty or a skill you have to wait till you're "old" enough to experience it. Some relationships aren't love but there are people who are in a committed relationship and love the other person. Yes, high school relationships don't usually last. But that doesn't mean the significant other or relationship didn't mean anything to the people. I've been with my boyfriend for three years. That's a huge commitment when most other couples can't last a few months. QUOTE I agree High school love isn't love...it's lust. My boyfriend and I were together for two years before we did anything serious. You're in high school too. How much more do you know about love and lust than I do or anyone else. You say high school couples don't know what love is. How can you turn around and say you know what it is and they're wrong? Get the f**k over it. You're not in the relationship. Let them do what they want. |
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Sep 27 2007, 10:57 PM
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QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Sep 27 2007, 10:49 PM) Uh. Spencer, Suz says to stop discussing about this on this thread, you know. Take it to PM. like you always say to others. Damn spammer. Hot damn, how could I have forgotten? But don't call me out if you don't want a response. Spamming? THAT'S always your rebuttal if I say something to you. Spam this, spam that. Yeah, I've been warned for it before, but aren't you a bit hypocritical in saying that? Don't reply to this if you don't feel you are. We can just end it here and you can move on loathing me. It's fair.
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Sep 29 2007, 04:29 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
QUOTE(six @ Sep 27 2007, 10:53 PM) let me tell you something that isn't obvious... you can't stop love mang! even superman couldn't stop it. ya'll cant deny it! i'm a phucin rider, you dont wanna phuc wit me~  what's that bryan? |
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Oct 1 2007, 09:17 PM
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IN modern days *now* high school love is not going anywhere
sure, you can date throughout highschool, but are you really gonna marry that person? And if you do, are you actually not going to get a divorce since you jumped into something without thinking about financial issues, not meeting new ppl that you might have a potenital crush on, and child costs? True fact, we live in a society where young ppl dont realize what they are getting into since they marry too early. Being married and "being together" are too very diffent things, one that most young ppl arent ready to handle the emotional and differnt lifestyle they face. And if you have known that person throughout your life, stay together fir more than 5 years of marriege,kudos then because your a rariety in our society. |
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Oct 1 2007, 10:18 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
Oh my gosh, how can anyone say that you can't love in highschool? This is just idiotic. Love is love, there is no age or type. It's just love. You can't prevent it nor force it.
Sure, they might not last very long but it doesn't mean that you didn't love that person at one point. |
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Oct 1 2007, 10:43 PM
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here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
QUOTE(Kay- @ Oct 1 2007, 11:18 PM) Oh my gosh, how can anyone say that you can't love in highschool? This is just idiotic. Love is love, there is no age or type. It's just love. You can't prevent it nor force it. Sure, they might not last very long but it doesn't mean that you didn't love that person at one point. I'm sorry...How old are you? Have you experienced it? Guys just want a short term relationships...Only rarely a long term. It's never love.. it's lust! Love is when you know a person and be there as friend and not just your "boyfriend or girlfriend". That's not love. It's High school! Love=Hook ups |
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Oct 1 2007, 11:04 PM
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pyrobeastilnecrophilaic Group: Member Posts: 217 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 562,974 |
QUOTE Sure, they might not last very long but it doesn't mean that you didn't love that person at one point. Thats not love then. Thats just having great affection for them. In fact, I would hope that anyone underneath high school years would never experience love since love hurts, especially when you realize that you would suffer just to be with that person. High school should not be full of committment, not having to deal with the pain that comes with fun |
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Oct 1 2007, 11:04 PM
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BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
QUOTE(stolen @ Oct 1 2007, 08:43 PM) I'm sorry...How old are you? Have you experienced it? Guys just want a short term relationships...Only rarely a long term. It's never love.. it's lust! Love is when you know a person and be there as friend and not just your "boyfriend or girlfriend". That's not love. It's High school! Love=Hook ups Notice how the word friend is in the word boyfriend. That means they're both your friend and your lover. And yes, i have experienced it and i still do. What does highschool have to do with anything? It's a place to learn, not a type of stage in dating. QUOTE Thats not love then. Thats just having great affection for them. In fact, I would hope that anyone underneath high school years would never experience love since love hurts, especially when you realize that you would suffer just to be with that person. High school should not be full of committment, not having to deal with the pain that comes with fun It's called life sucks. |
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Oct 1 2007, 11:11 PM
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 Completely agree 100% with resplendence.
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Oct 1 2007, 11:15 PM
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Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
QUOTE(stolen @ Oct 1 2007, 11:43 PM) I'm sorry...How old are you? Have you experienced it? Guys just want a short term relationships...Only rarely a long term. It's never love.. it's lust! Love is when you know a person and be there as friend and not just your "boyfriend or girlfriend". That's not love. It's High school! Love=Hook ups It's not like you have any more idea about love than she does. You're what... 16? And how much about lust and love do you know about? In your 16 years of wisdom, how can you differentiate between love and lust? Do you even know what lust is? Guys don't want long term? It's just hookups? Almost everyone who was on this forum have been with their beau for at least a year. I've been with mine for 3. People need to stop talking out of their ass and get off their little soapbox. High school students do not know more about love than another high school student. QUOTE IN modern days *now* high school love is not going anywhere sure, you can date throughout highschool, but are you really gonna marry that person? And if you do, are you actually not going to get a divorce since you jumped into something without thinking about financial issues, not meeting new ppl that you might have a potenital crush on, and child costs? True fact, we live in a society where young ppl dont realize what they are getting into since they marry too early. Being married and "being together" are too very diffent things, one that most young ppl arent ready to handle the emotional and differnt lifestyle they face. And if you have known that person throughout your life, stay together fir more than 5 years of marriege,kudos then because your a rariety in our society. WOW! Are you serious? That you date someone since high school, so there's a good couple of years of commitment there, and you call that jumping in without thinking about money costs? Sure, high school relationships don't last but if you can make it all the way to even think about marrying the person and actually doing it, something is going right there. I'm not saying that high school stuff last. But if you really haven't been in a long term high school relationship, don't say shit. And even if you have, just cause yours turned out badly doesn't mean everyone else is waiting for you to demean their relationship. |
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Oct 1 2007, 11:19 PM
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pyrobeastilnecrophilaic Group: Member Posts: 217 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 562,974 |
QUOTE WOW! Are you serious? That you date someone since high school, so there's a good couple of years of commitment there, and you call that jumping in without thinking about money costs? Sure, high school relationships don't last but if you can make it all the way to even think about marrying the person and actually doing it, something is going right there. I'm not saying that high school stuff last. But if you really haven't been in a long term high school relationship, don't say shit. And even if you have, just cause yours turned out badly doesn't mean everyone else is waiting for you to demean their relationship. I have. It was great actually =D you and I are thinking on two differnt levels, two completely diffent things |
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Oct 1 2007, 11:20 PM
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here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
QUOTE Guys don't want long term? It's just hookups? Almost everyone who was on this forum have been with their beau for at least a year. I've been with mine for 3. "Only rarely a long term" That's good for them. Plus all the guys I talk to at school admit that they don't want a real relationship. I don't care I'm 17 and a senior... I'm done with High School drama all that. I'm not arguing about it...I'm just saying that in some cases YES there is love in a SOME relationships. |
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Oct 2 2007, 01:48 AM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Thank you Aimee, lilsnoopy, Kay, resplendence. you guys understand.
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Jan 29 2008, 01:48 AM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Damn highschool kids.
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Jan 29 2008, 12:34 PM
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High school "Love"
Wow, catch a movie or two, hang around in school and maybe dance a couple of times at a school dance, and your in love. Pft. What you say is true Tung, QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Sep 26 2007, 07:27 PM) And high school. face it. your high school relationships are probably going nowhere. "high school love." that's a contradiction in itself. rarely does one find "love" in high school, and when students claim to "love," it's usually merely an illusion created by their idealistic brighteyed and bushytailedness, as well as a need to feel wanted, or to attach themselves to something concrete. Or perhaps they're bored and feel the need to get caught up in the whole dating fad. After all, it does get them the attention they crave. They're just abusing the word to fit their own false, superficial situation. |
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Jan 29 2008, 02:19 PM
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Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
^ Wow. 15. Lots of high school experience huh. |
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Jan 29 2008, 04:34 PM
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 cake or DEATH Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 631 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,586 |
in the high school i used to attend, 'love' was limited to:
"awww yeh i'd tap that." from what i've observed, some kids just don't take relationships seriously. they walk into it, thinking all their problems will go away, or believing that they have found their one true love for the tenth freakin time. i'm not putting down the high school kids who are in happy, commited relationships. in fact, long-term ones are rare these days. |
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Jan 30 2008, 12:07 AM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
I don't believe in high school love either, but why not be with the boy/girl you are attracted to? A lot of high schoolers get too caught up in their relationships, and thats when it goes wrong.
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Jan 30 2008, 01:24 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 682 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 580,818 |
im trying not to fall in love, having a gf is ok, but i try not to go beyond long hugs and a few of texts a week....other wise i might fall in love...and im not ready for such a commitment
 now that i've read that again....it sounds really cheesy  haha
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Jan 30 2008, 06:33 PM
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 Call me Britt :] Group: Member Posts: 144 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,944 |
QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Sep 26 2007, 06:27 PM) I am sick of the guy who obsesses over the girl: the songwriter, 3458345 telephone messages, love notes, picnics under the stars, the works. Girl breaks up with him and he mopes for the rest of his life. Love. no, loneliness, lack of confidence, insecurity. And high school. face it. your high school relationships are probably going nowhere. "high school love." that's a contradiction in itself. rarely does one find "love" in high school, and when students claim to "love," it's usually merely an illusion created by their idealistic brighteyed and bushytailedness, as well as a need to feel wanted, or to attach themselves to something concrete. Or perhaps they're bored and feel the need to get caught up in the whole dating fad. After all, it does get them the attention they crave. They're just abusing the word to fit their own false, superficial situation. So I ask you to think a little more when you confess "love." If there's one thing I hate, it's people who don't take things seriously about using the word love. And yes, i'm one of those people who takes everything seriously about using the word love. I was too lazy to read all the replies, but I just want to say that you're definately me hero of the day for posting that. I'm so sick of kids at my school who go out with someone for, like, a month and are like "OMGG, I love you!I don't know what I'd do without you!" I personally don't believe in getting into serious relationships like that in high school, because we all know they don't last very long. So thanks for posting that, 'cause it's true. 
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