Did I call too early? Options

[dpl313]

I was at work yesterday and this girl came in. Let's call her Maria. She looked like this girl I used to talk to for most of this year. Marie looked almost like a spot on match of the girl I used to talk to her. I had my friend cover for me while I went to go to talk to Marie for a little bit. Before she left I ended up getting her number, and I guess we're supposed to hangout sooner or later. But I told her I was going to call her in 1-2 days. She looked surprised when I said that. She didn't look mad or anything like that, but she looked like that's not what she expected me to say. I said that because I've tried waiting 2-3 to call before, and it doesn't work. So I thought I'd try to be more pro active. Not out of desperation though. So I called that night and got her voicemail, left a msg, etc. I told my friend about this and he told me I shouldn't have called, etc. For the ladies, was calling as soon as I did a bad thing?

[misoshiru]

no, i don't think so. i think it shows the girl that you're genuinely interested in her.

[transcendentalis...]

what the hell? you don't tell her when you're going to call.
wait a day, and then call.

and no, it's not a bad thing.

[annalucky]

^ahaha, I think that's from a movie..or I heard it somewhere.

Like said above, I think it does show that you're genuinely interested in her. Maybe that's why she's surprised.

[*Steven*]

[EmoEyelinerx]

I cant believe you told her when you were going to call her, thats pretty lame *laughs*. I mean she probably wanted you to call her the next day or something not 1-2 days later, no girl wants to hear when your going to call her, thats like saying we're having a surprize party for you at 12:00..

[brooklyneast05]

no girl wants to hear when your going to call her, thats like saying we're having a surprize party for you at 12:00..

why would anyone ever be surprised to get a phone call from someone they gave their number to

women are so damn picky all the time

don't worry son, i doubt she really cares that u told her when u were going to call, if it's too "lame" that someone shows interest in talking to her again soon, then she needs to get over herself

[EmoEyelinerx]

why would anyone ever be surprised to get a phone call from someone they gave their number to

women are so damn picky all the time

I never said she would be supprised.

[brooklyneast05]

I never said she would be supprised.

u compared to it to a surprise party, that's why i said that

[lidoxtitty]

shoulda f**ked with her, you told her 1-2 days you should have called
1 week later. BTW don't make it a SET SURE THING
you lose that way !

[transcendentalis...]

^ahaha, I think that's from a movie..or I heard it somewhere.

Like said above, I think it does show that you're genuinely interested in her. Maybe that's why she's surprised.

haha, really? i don't watch a lot of movies..

[ReggieM]

i agree that it was rather foolish to tell her when you're going to call, the best thing is to try to make her think about you or wait a while and call but make it short.

[PINKLollyPOP]

let that situation go.
go from here...
see how things go.

[ParanoidAndroid]

let that situation go.
go from here...
see how things go.

ok obiwan. I'm trusting you! If the force isn't with me bitch I'll kill you f**king brother..



seriously though lol at j00! But yeah I don't understand this calling rule. If i gave my # to someone I would expect a phone call sometime sooner or later.

[xblast196]

hopefully i'm not the only one who noticed her name changes from maria to marie.

[justdecent]

LOL

you usually wait 2-3 days but don't announce when you're thinking about calling her.. i'm sure she expected for you to call her anyways!

[TaintedSakura]

No... & dont tell her when you are going to call. Call! Damn this subject pisses me off for personal reasons

[captivatedheart]

i agree with everyone. i think it's cute when it's outta the blue. hey, at least you had the guts to call her. some guys don't have balls like you do.