My friend is in love with a 30 year old, Relationship |
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 Sep 27 2007, 08:55 PM
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My 14 year old friend, who is a girl is in love with a 30 year old man. They talk a lot. And seem to like each other. She says he is really nice a sweet, She has known him for a long time now, and she said he asked her out but she says he doesn't talk about sex with her or anything.. but i don't want him to hurt her or for something to go wrong and her to get in trouble. What should i do?
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Sep 27 2007, 08:56 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
punch her in the face
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Sep 27 2007, 08:57 PM
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tell her parents
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Sep 27 2007, 08:58 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
^ yea that first
then punch her in the face after that WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE |
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Sep 27 2007, 08:59 PM
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 Fellatio. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,122 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,775 |
Well I personally dont have a problem with pedophilia, but you should take into consideration what happens in these type of situations: girl trusts older guy, they have sex, she winds up dead. Unfortunately, that's the way it usually ends. If it bothers you alot, tell her about your concerns, and if it starts to get out of hand, notify an adult. But if their just good friends or friends with benefits or w/e, and nothing goes awry, then leave it that. As long as she doesnt get hurt.
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Sep 27 2007, 09:00 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
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QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Sep 27 2007, 08:59 PM)  Well I personally dont have a problem with pedophilia, but you should take into consideration what happens in these type of situations: girl trusts older guy, they have sex, she winds up dead. Unfortunately, that's the way it usually ends. and u don't have a problem with that edit: no just ur whole post is f**ked up the whole thing |
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Sep 27 2007, 09:02 PM
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 ٩(●̮̮̃•̃)۶ Group: Official Member Posts: 1,403 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,173 |
YUCK tell her to get a grip...then punch her in the face
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Sep 27 2007, 09:02 PM
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QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Sep 27 2007, 09:59 PM) Well I personally dont have a problem with pedophilia, but you should take into consideration what happens in these type of situations: girl trusts older guy, they have sex, she winds up dead. Unfortunately, that's the way it usually ends. If it bothers you alot, tell her about your concerns, and if it starts to get out of hand, notify an adult. But if their just good friends or friends with benefits or w/e, and nothing goes awry, then leave it that. As long as she doesnt get hurt. are u serious a 14 year old and a 30 year old should NOT be friends with benefits that is disgusting |
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Sep 27 2007, 09:04 PM
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look. the best thing to do is give her surprise butt secks.
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Sep 27 2007, 09:08 PM
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Holy shit.
Seriously, slap her back to reality. He will rape her. She might end up dead. You will feel guilty for the rest of your life. Do something about it. |
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Sep 27 2007, 09:08 PM
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QUOTE(revka @ Sep 27 2007, 10:02 PM) are u serious a 14 year old and a 30 year old should NOT be friends with benefits that is disgusting That's your opinion. And yes, mine is unethical, but i'm still entitled to my own opinion. |
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Sep 27 2007, 09:11 PM
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QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Sep 27 2007, 09:08 PM) That's your opinion. And yes, mine is unethical, but i'm still entitled to my own opinion. it's more than unethical, IT'S ILLEGAL |
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Sep 27 2007, 09:14 PM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Sep 27 2007, 09:11 PM) it's more than unethical, IT'S ILLEGAL Seriously. An 18 year old cant even be with a 15 year old. |
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Sep 27 2007, 09:15 PM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Sep 27 2007, 10:11 PM) it's more than unethical, IT'S ILLEGAL I'm well aware that it's illegal. |
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Sep 27 2007, 09:15 PM
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QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Sep 27 2007, 09:15 PM) I'm well aware that it's illegal. But it wasn't way back when. are we living way back when? no ha good job editing that was REALLY dumb to say |
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Sep 27 2007, 09:20 PM
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Exactly.
Why else would I have changed it? |
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Sep 27 2007, 09:24 PM
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Lol hes old enough to be her father. Meaning he would've had a her as a child when he was 16 years old.
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Sep 27 2007, 09:26 PM
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QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Sep 27 2007, 10:08 PM) That's your opinion. And yes, mine is unethical, but i'm still entitled to my own opinion. so, being a 15 year old, do u do 30 year old men? |
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Sep 27 2007, 09:27 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Dude girls these days are total sluts. Starting at age 13.
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Sep 27 2007, 09:33 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
seriously, smack her first, and then kick him in the balls for being pedo.
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Sep 27 2007, 09:53 PM
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okay, if they had known each other in PERSON, it MIGHT have made it SLIGHTLY more justifiable..
but since they met online? HELLS FUCKING NO. meeting people online your OWN AGE can get dangerous, and here we're talking about a 16 year difference? completely out of the question. |
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Sep 27 2007, 10:02 PM
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NO. just no. Meeting in person or online, it doesn't matter. That's just not safe. I don't care if she says he's a nice guy or that he cares about her and just wants her to be happy. That's bs. Anyone can say that. That's just a way to get approval from her friends and gain her trust. He can put on that nice guy act. And eventually, he'll take advantage of her trust. There's a chance that she's going to get hurt. You know, predators aren't dumb these days. They can be very deceiving and sneaky. A 14 year old should go out with a 14 year old, not their dad.
//edit Okay. Maybe I have been a little too harsh because I've been watching too much of E Hollywood story. But also, my friend has gotten raped twice by older men. Supposedly, she fell in love with a man that's 10 years older than her. And he took advantage of her. She was really scarred after it happened. Don't let your friend have the same ending. |
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Sep 27 2007, 10:05 PM
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QUOTE(revka @ Sep 27 2007, 10:26 PM) so, being a 15 year old, do u do 30 year old men? No, I do not. Not sure why you would make that sort of assumption. I would respond with an analogy, but it would be wasted on you. |
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Sep 27 2007, 10:09 PM
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QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Sep 27 2007, 10:05 PM) No, I do not. Not sure why you would make that sort of assumption. I would respond with an analogy, but it would be wasted on you. maybe cause u said u were ok with pedophilia |
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Sep 27 2007, 10:16 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Sep 28 2007, 11:09 AM) maybe cause u said u were ok with pedophilia word. and they met online? he claims to be 30. but maybe he's 40. you never know. 
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