Is homosexuality determined at birth, or is it a choice? Options

[*Uronacid*]

I verbally warned him for the bitch comment not his opinion. I can warn someone for their opinions ...

I really don't care sandraa. You've never really stuck me as a person who was able to see through the fog in these types of situations. It doesn't bother me. Don't worry about the verbal warning.

[*Sandraaa*]

Excuse me, I meant 'can't'. >_<. I can't warn you for your opinions and I know that you weren't serious in some of your posts, obviously. But calling someone a bitch and whatever else you said made me warn you verbally. Nothing more.

Ok. Let's drop it ... back to the homosexual debate.

EDIT// @ Steven, oh OK. Phew.

[*Uronacid*]

Excuse me, I meant 'can't'. >_<. I can't warn you for your opinions and I know that you weren't serious in some of your posts, obviously. But calling someone a bitch and whatever else you said made me warn you verbally. Nothing more.

Ok. Let's drop it ... back to the homosexual debate.

EDIT// @ Steven, oh OK. Phew.

It's cool.

[*CowerPointyObjects*]

So, you reported me for my opinion in a debate. Wow, you're 18 years old. Are you still in the "I'm gonna' tell the teacher on you!" phase? When are you going to learn that I don't give a fuck. Hey, while you're out there telling on me for my "ignorant" opinion why don't you go fuck yourself with a tampon. Tell them I said you're a cunt too. Oh, and would you like some cheese with that whine? xD

No, dear, I did not report you for your opinions. I reported you for your other comments. Get with it. And do realized that that was quite likely the first time I reported anyone.

You aren't funny.

Also, I'm sorry it was so confusing for you. I was merely saying that if you're going to be a flamboyant gay then the chances of not being accepted are likely to be very high because barely anyone relate to your lifestyle.

I guess I feel like a large percentage of these flamboyant gays who aren't "accepted" want to blame it on genes or birth so they can place the fault of not being accepted on something other than themselves. I think that these "extreme" homosexuals should just accept the fact that many people aren't going to accept them because they are so blatantly different. I'll admit, the bloods and the crypts were extreme, but meh... I like extreme.

Confusing? No. Deluded? Most definitely. Perhaps you should consider that people would not go out of their way to find a reason to fit in, so much as that genuinely would be their reason for not fitting in. Much more logical.

I'll try to be less extreme for your sake, sense you don't seem to understand. I'm sure the people who weren't going out of their way to tear my post to shreds would have understood it.

I understand perfectly. You're just wrong.

I'm sorry, a flamboyant gay probably wouldn't get accepted by Jocks. Not all Jocks are the same. I agree, but in general you aren't accepted by groups you cannot relate to (this includes myself).

Way to stereotype. Not all jocks are the same...no shit, Sherlock. (Plus, why are you capitalizing "jocks"? it's not a proper noun.) Who really cares whether you can be accepted by groups you can't relate to? Chances are good that you wouldn't actually want to, seeing as you wouldn't relate to them either. Still, sometimes people are capable on connecting on a deeper level than just looks and interests.

I apologize for being such a narrow minded idiot. I'll tip toe around every bush I see from now on. Try not to put words in my mouth next time. You should probably stop shoving that stick up your ass. I've heard that if you shove it up to far, internal bleeding may occur. That may not be your period blood when your taking a shit. On the other hand and based upon the majority of your posts, you may just be on an eternal menstrual phase. Either way, you should definitely consult a doctor. ;]

Oh do stop talking if you can't say anything useful.

I am revolted... no I'm not. I'm just laughing at you for being so upset. Oh, before you tell me you aren't upset and that you don't care, I guess I assumed you were upset because you took the time to sit there and tell me how insanely revolted you were.

Why should you be revolted? I'm not the idiot here. And I hate it when people do that ridiculous thing where they tell you not to say that you aren't upset...because maybe I actually am not. Don't bother trying to pigeonhole me like that.

She is Menstruation. Find it in the dictionary, you'll see her face even though it's not in her profile. Watch out, she'll tear your bloody head off.

^Click the tiny purple arrow to see where she wrote it.

I was only playin... xD

You still aren't funny. But it is sad to see that no one here understands what I find humorous anymore. Oh yeah, that's why I left.

[*CowerPointyObjects*]

Cower if you're going to report a post for being misguided and using mean words, you should probably make sure that you take out all your cussing and insults as well, because that just makes you look foolish.

I see no reason to exclude profanity. Amd that most certainly is not why I reported him. The part where he was misguided wasn't entirely pertinent either, so much as true.

Do you not see the part where he said he'd stop "acting Chinese and tell [her] off"? Sorry, in what way is that acceptable? Especially since he then proceeded to call her a bitch.

My bad, but if you're that offended by what he's saying, yet you still mention that he's "spewing shit" multiple times, w/e imo.

I wasn't offended, I was pissed off by what an insipid jackass he is. Now, I take no issue with profanity. I Have no problem with even using it in order to describe people, but directly calling them names in a debate shouldn't be condoned. But really, I just don't think he should get away with the Chinese comment, because even if it was supposed to be a joke, it wasn't funny.


Can we maybe not assume that I'm the one who doesn't know what she's talking about here? Becuase that is most definitely unture.

[*Steven*]

I see no reason to exclude profanity. Amd that most certainly is not why I reported him. The part where he was misguided wasn't entirely pertinent either, so much as true.

Do you not see the part where he said he'd stop "acting Chinese and tell [her] off"? Sorry, in what way is that acceptable? Especially since he then proceeded to call her a bitch.
I wasn't offended, I was pissed off by what an insipid jackass he is. Now, I take no issue with profanity. I Have no problem with even using it in order to describe people, but directly calling them names in a debate shouldn't be condoned. But really, I just don't think he should get away with the Chinese comment, because even if it was supposed to be a joke, it wasn't funny.
Can we maybe not assume that I'm the one who doesn't know what she's talking about here? Becuase that is most definitely unture.

Or you could get upset over his comments. If you don't like what he says, ignore it. Plain and simple. Some people say things just to get a reaction out of people. When people react that way, it lets them know it's working.

[S-Majere]

Obviously a scary debate.

I'm of the unpolitically correct view that there is no such thing as being gay, just being misinformed and hormonally imbalanced.

Cue rant.

[*CowerPointyObjects*]

Or you could get upset over his comments. If you don't like what he says, ignore it. Plain and simple. Some people say things just to get a reaction out of people. When people react that way, it lets them know it's working.

That makes no sense. Why would I get upset over his comments? It's the internet. Fun to argue over, fun to act indignant without the emotional involvement tied into real indignation. But of course, I'm not going to ignore his comments, because then there would be no point in debating at all. I also think it's more important to let him know that he's a stupid f**k thank just to follow the warped philosophy of 'ignore him and he'll go away.'

Besides, what kind of mod are you, just letting his awful statements go- and I DON'T mean his opinions- when there's very specific debate forum guidelines listed at the top of every page?

Obviously a scary debate.

I'm of the unpolitically correct view that there is no such thing as being gay, just being misinformed and hormonally imbalanced.

Cue rant.

Global warming is a myth and the holocaust never happened, either.

[S-Majere]

Global warming is a myth!

[brooklyneast05]

That makes no sense. Why would I get upset over his comments? It's the internet.

then quit bitching and crying about josh
im with steven, just ignore it if u aren't actually offended by anything.

I wasn't offended, I was pissed off by what an insipid jackass he is

u piss me off
i better go report u

Obviously a scary debate.

I'm of the unpolitically correct view that there is no such thing as being gay, just being misinformed and hormonally imbalanced.

Cue rant.

i wouldn't go so far as to say there is no such thing, what do u mean by misinformed though?

[*Michelle*]

That makes no sense. Why would I get upset over his comments? It's the internet. Fun to argue over, fun to act indignant without the emotional involvement tied into real indignation. But of course, I'm not going to ignore his comments, because then there would be no point in debating at all. I also think it's more important to let him know that he's a stupid f**k thank just to follow the warped philosophy of 'ignore him and he'll go away.'

Besides, what kind of mod are you, just letting his awful statements go- and I DON'T mean his opinions- when there's very specific debate forum guidelines listed at the top of every page?

Steven has already verbally warned Josh.


Oh god, please no more Tama cards. -_-

[*Sandraaa*]

OK. Everyone could you quit with the witty comments and get back on topic? Thank you. I truly do not want to start issuing warnings. Totally uncalled for.

I'm of the unpolitically correct view that there is no such thing as being gay, just being misinformed and hormonally imbalanced.

Care to elaborate?

[*Steven*]

I'm a mod who says what they feel like saying. I'm not going to sugar coat everything and bite my tongue because I'm a mod. That's bullshit.

Yes global warming is happening, but there's another thread for that, in which I've voiced quite a bit of personal knowledge in.

Homosexuality I think is a combination of nature and nurture. Nature in the fact that everyone's different and has different preferences, but nurture in the fact that upbringing has some to do w/ homosexuality.

[*CowerPointyObjects*]

It's amazing how good you are at missing points.

You realize that if you were to say 'just ignore it' to everything that is posted, the boards would be full of spam and mindless bashing. That is what was meant by the mod comment. And for what it's worth, I mentioned global warming as a joke, not to start another debate.

[*Steven*]

Well you see, I try to be as lenient as possible, as I'm not typically uptight etc. Sure I have my moments, but whatever. I'm of the opinion that that which is governed least is governed best. If I think it's out of hand etc, I'll say something about it, but if you're getting bothered or "worried about the boards" over one person, maybe you should either apply for modship next time around, or realize that there will always be this kinda stuff in the world and get over it. The sooner you get over it, the happier you'll be

Also, I'm not so sure I missed the point as much as you missed my counter point.

[*CowerPointyObjects*]

Oh, now I get it. You're new enough that you don't realize that I was people staff for a really long time, then head staff. While I was definitely the lenient sort either, I was also aware that "ignore it" was not the answer. Are you also so new that you can't remember when there was rampant spammage, because no one felt like bothering to say anything worthwhile?

Now for god's sake, why can I not carry on a decent argument anymore with all this "get over it shit"? I have nothing to get over. This used to be fun.

[brooklyneast05]

Oh, now I get it. You're new enough that you don't realize that I was people staff for a really long time, then head staff. .

wow u were on people staff and head staff?!?!?!?!?!?!
UR SO COOL!!!!!!!!!!!1111111111111111111111111

[*Steven*]

Get over it. Things change. Used to be's mean nothing now. Yes I'm new enough to not know you were staff. I do know, however, about the history of cB. Michelle has told me plenty, and she's been around since April 04.

You can carry on a decent conversation, but condescension is not the way to go about it :)

[*Sandraaa*]

What the f is going on here? Can we all please stop deviating and get back on topic? You're all ruining the vibe. Personal arguments should be taken care of through PMs.

[*Steven*]

No.
This all started because of this topic, so I'll continue to reply so long as the argument pertains to the report from this topic.

[*Sandraaa*]

Steven, you're OFF topic. So, yes, you should stop. For the love of God, we're talking about homosexuals and not about who was head staff and who should get over it. This is ridiculous.

[*Uronacid*]

It's amazing how good you are at missing points.

You realize that if you were to say 'just ignore it' to everything that is posted, the boards would be full of spam and mindless bashing. That is what was meant by the mod comment. And for what it's worth, I mentioned global warming as a joke, not to start another debate.

Listen scorpion woman, staff isn't on a witch hunt any more. They aren't burning members at the stake for every semi-profane thing that's being said on a forum. Do you think that your insults towards my intelligence (ironic, no) are any less offensive than me saying the word "fuck" or the phrase "go fuck yourself"?

Get real, you calling me ignorant or "a stupid fuck" is just as bad as me saying, "go f**k yourself", among other things. You're trying just as hard to offend me with your comments as I am trying to offend you with my own. You're just as bad as me, but I'm better at insulting you. Look, I have a lot of practice. The other thing that helps is the fact that I really don't give a fuck about you and the tings that you say. For the most part, I only reply to you so I can see you piss and moan. You never fail to do so.

I will admit, there are times that I try to throw in a few comments towards my side of the debate. Truth be told, I think you believe I'm so ignorant that even if I posted something to completely blew your side of the argument out of the water you would still find a way to disprove what I was saying in your own minds eye. So, I don't even bother with you. Instead I just try to make you upset, and it makes me feel very happy.

Oh, now I get it. You're new enough that you don't realize that I was people staff for a really long time, then head staff. While I was definitely the lenient sort either, I was also aware that "ignore it" was not the answer. Are you also so new that you can't remember when there was rampant spammage, because no one felt like bothering to say anything worthwhile?

Now for god's sake, why can I not carry on a decent argument anymore with all this "get over it shit"? I have nothing to get over. This used to be fun.

No, you don't get it. You can't get so serious that you're calling people "stupid", "idiot", and "ignorant" as if it's a fact. Debates don't work like that. If people treat me like that, I treat them the same way back except about 10 times worse.

Josh, I am revolted that you are still spewing your shit in this topic after all these months.

I'm revolted that you are still spewing your shit on this website after all these years.

all these years

YEARS

[*Sandraaa*]

Josh, you spelt intelligence wrong. Your version is ugly. :D

OK. I have a question, it's about homosexuals. What about people who testify saying that they knew they were gay since they were probably 3 years old? (I didn't care to read the other pages. Sorry if it's been explained).

[*Steven*]

Josh, you spelt intelligence wrong. Your version is ugly. :D

OK. I have a question, it's about homosexuals. What about people who testify saying that they knew they were gay since they were probably 3 years old? (I didn't care to read the other pages. Sorry if it's been explained).

I could testify the same thing. Doesn't make it true. I hope it doesn't make it true. If so, uh oh. I'm a bad homosexual.

[brooklyneast05]

i don't see how someone knows they are gay at 3 years old

i don't remember thinking how straight i was at 3 years old, who knows their sexual orientation at 3?