boyfriend watches porn Options

[mylittleMiracle]

i dont hope my ex did this.....

[starlette]

Man I cant even get my boyfriend to watch it with me lol. Hes such a prude. But like, me and my friends watch it because its funny cuz the chicks are all like "OH YESS!! SUCK MY FINGERS!!!" Like that even does anything. But won't watch. But I guess thats a good thing. Especially since I know of guys who watch it all the time. And neglect their girlfriends because they don't do it like the girls in the video. And thats why I hate porn and I spend a lot of time mocking it. because I have to remind myself that its not real. Thats not what normals peoples sex lives are like. The woman isnt some barbie doll with some extra wide orfices. Its just so hard sometimes. damn sexist society. and damn the women who make my life harder because they make men think I'm supposed to let him jizz in my hair. DAMN YALL!!!


so yeah. no he doesnt.

[SarahxJoy]

Interesting topic.


My boyfriend watches porn and he does so regularly, I know. But then again, so do I but not as much as him. It's kind of an inside joke between us, when we do watch porn and when we don't.


It doesn't bother me at all. I know he loves me and in my opinion, telling your boyfriend that he can't watch porn for self-pleasure, is kind of wrong. It's like them saying you can't wear a certain shirt 'cause it's low-cut (but cute!). You like it and you enjoy wearing it but they won't let you decide on your own?

I know that sometimes when guys have erections for a long while, it starts to hurt and sometimes they get horny for no reason at all, so it's not always their fault. Let 'em take care of it and that's that.

Since the majority of you probably think the people in the porn films are cheap, slutty, blah, blah, blah..why even compare yourself to them? ie: I'm sure that when you watch a movie with a hot actor in it, you find them attractive in some way, but you don't compare them to your significant other. Right?

And as for sex being a spiritual and meaningful thing between a married couple, yes that's true. But apparently the people in that little porn flick your boyfriend may be watching don't think so. But then again, it's not like he's going here and there, getting it on with this girl and that. I think that's where the real would be, if that were to be happening.

My bottom line, guys are guys and as long as it's not hurting your relationship, leave it be. And if you're insecure about your body, because you compare it to those bimbos, then I think you and your significant other should just completely eliminate any mention of porn in your relationship. Would that make you feel better?


Blar. That's my take on it.

[monkeyboi218]

porn bad.

[blah1234567]

lots of boys do that...if i was you though id prolly let him have his fun and stuff.

[KissMe2408]

Personally, I hate when guys watch porn.
It gets to me...I hate it.

If I found out the guy i was dating looks at porn i'd be upset too.
I don't like using the excuse, "well every guy looks at porn".
I don't want to be with an average guy, i'd like to have a guy
that'd have some standards and stuff, and be more pure then that.

again, that's just me

[emazing]

Well, hopefully not.
He does look at like asian girls in bikinis though, but I don't really mind, I just get a little jealous, that's all.

[mezeni]

its a habit that is hard for a guy to break(more like an addiction for some). unless you are willing to put out, or he has an extra strong will that overcomes his sexual drive he might keep doing it. anyways thats my view. have fun.

[mseryel2]

itd bother me a bit if i did have a boyfriend...

...which i dont so im not sure...

[Jane Doe.]

Pornography doesn't bother me one bit. I don't have...uhm, anyone, but it really wouldn't bother me unless it was an obsession or there was a constant comparison happening.
But really, I don't get bothered by it, so I doubt I would. Shrug.

[PrincessAda]

I`m single..but I don`t think none of my ex`s have..and plus I`m young. >.<

[DizzyDucky09]

My bf has tons of porn....i think his friends burns them for him
but he wont give me any he claims he likes, "variety"

[cloudysunshine]

My boyfriend doesn't have to watch porn ;)

Haha, but on a serious note- he has admited to watching it maybe once or twice. Guys are curious and so I can't hold that against him. However, he doesn't like it. I admit, I've watched one or maybe two before too. It's pretty disturbing, I don't fancy it all too much.

But yes, my boyfriend has watched it before but it's not a daily thing. Why watch it when you can get the real thing, right?

[LiSFORLiNDA]

i didnt know my ex watched porn until he was telling me at his work place [chuckycheese] that they got a DVD player & he was gonna put his porno in there but my brother put his CD in there. But i didnt believe him & he said go look in your brothers room & i said why & he was telling my that he let my brother borrow it and i saw it haha.

[Becca Pearl]

nope he doesn't need to ... hes got me

(he did when he was younger though...hes 21 now)

[LOWinSKANK]

I'm pretty sure my boyfriend does, not often, but he does. It's a guy thing I figure I might as well get used to. The thing about seeing other girls naked, it's a confidence thing. I don't care, he can look at as many girls as much as he wants.. he'll always come back to me.

[Pineapplepower]

I don't know if he watches it or not. I like to think not, but I'm not to shure. He doesn't do a lot of things with the guys and his best friend for a long time was me, so I'm not to shure.

[*suddenly she*]

porn bad.

profound.
if he's trying to stop, i'm okay with it. i trust him.

[wildncrazyath3rt]

no he doesnt need too .. lol .. i mean come on.. its nasty

[twixvix]

I discovered a while ago that my boyfriend regularly watched porn, but it wasnt regular porn it was like a webcam service where girls did what you told them on cam.

I was extremely hurt by this and split up with him, however he swore never to watch porn again since it hurt be so much and I took him back. A while later I found porn on his internet history again and the same scene repeated itself and he made all those promises again.

Last week i found porn on his psp...

[*Sandraaa*]

I am VERY certain that my 'boyfriend' watches porn. It doesn't bother me as long as he doesn't watch it in front of me or tries to practice those porn moves.



Telling him not to watch it would lead to him lying and hiding stuff from me. I don't want that.

[PINKLollyPOP]

porn = nastiness

[x3viet-behbii]

well; he watches it reguarly he t0ld meeh.

well i dun g0t n0 pr0blem jus as l0ng as he try n0t t0 bust n0 m0ves.

butath yep; he can l0ok as h0wever many gurls he wants; idk he's ALWAYS c0min' bakc' t0o mee s0 whutever.

[MissFits]

My fiance watches porn. It doesn't bother me. It used to, but we talked about it. I know I please him, but guys just like porn! They are wired differently than girls and need to jerk it every once in a while. I am comfortable in our relationship to know that he LOVES ME, he does not love these girls, he would NEVER leave me for one of these girls, and it's not the same when he is masturbating as it is when we have sex. He told me that he can't think about me while masturbating because it makes him feel like he is defecating me.

What I am trying to say is it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, and it's not weird unless he is obsessive with it. Some guys have a porn addiction, and that's where it's a problem.
If you think your man is addicted to porn, I would suggest you tell him to get some counseling.

[RAWRstephishere]

well, i dont have a boyfriend. and i dont have ex's.

Me neither.