girls are.. relentless. Options

[xblast196]

only vote after you read the story


k this is going to be freakishly long, so bear with me.


when me and her started going out, everything was fine! then she decided "she needed a break". she told me "i'm not going to see another guy." lie. she did. turns out, it was her ex. she tells me she still has feelings for her. i'm not one to get upset over this kind of stuff, but lying to me does rustle my feathers.

then, we started going out again. somewhere along the relationship
she told me "when we first started going out, i didnt like you. i was desperate." i was crushed. i didnt talk to her for 2 days.

we were still technically going out, i never ended it. then she went to a waterpark. at this waterpark, apparently she let another guy like be "all up in her grill". she let him kiss her, and grab her ass.

this was enough for me. i ended it right then and there.

she called me, balling her eyes out afterwards.

"please take me back... i'm really sorry and i deeply regret it."

somewhere in that conversation she told me "remember that guy at the waterpark? well, he's kinda my boyfriend" or something to that extent. she then carried on about wanting to have two boyfriends and how i'll be #1. i said no.

she dumped him.

we began to go back out (third time).

now at this time, it was that god aweful week for a female.

enough said.
it ended on day two.

she then called me, balling again.

"i'm really sorry! you cant take me seriously when i'm on my period! plesae take me back! you mean the world to me!" so on and so forth.

so, i said yes. (fourth time.)

(i'm quite gullible.)

things went well for... like a week.

she then called me (apparently she was drunk, but i dont believe it.)

"ugh i hate you! it's over!"

so, i took that as a break up.

again, same story.

"i was out of it! baby you know i wasnt serious!"

this time, i didnt take her back. i grew smart.
(it took a while)

last week she called me.
somehow or another she got upset with me and told me to "go f*** yourself." "i never loved you, get out of my life."

basic stuff like that.
i ended up crying. it takes a lot for me to cry. i didnt even cry when my 14 year old dog died.

she's a persistent little bugger.

now, she wants me back "more than ever"

"baby i love you! you mean the world to me! i cant get you out of my head!"

frankly i'm confused.

now with all that being said, i now have to tell you about her friends and other misc. stuff to take into consideration before voting.

*all of her friends dont want me to go out with her. they all think she's annoying and they dont like how she treats all of her ex's.

*she's 17, i'm 14. 'nuff said.

*she refuses to talk to me in school, only over the phone or through friends/notes.

*she told me to tell her one of my crushes. it just so happened to be one of her best friends. whenever i talk to her she's always like "oh well why dont you go talk to your crush instead of me?

alright. now that you've heard the story, please vote. this is a huge problem for me, and i dont know what to do! :\

thanks so much.

[Flaunted]

When i read this i feel like.. she only wants you to be around her cause she doesn't want to be alone/ single. if she goes to the extreme spectrum of loving you and hating you in a blink of an eye, its like she doesn't really mean it.
Also, that is soo stupid that she won't talk to you in public!
this girl sounds really lame.
Go for the best friend!!
If her friends don't even like her whats the prob :P

[LovableGullible]

if she doesnt want to talk to u at school and cheated on you
Shes not worth it

[omgomgKATHY]

ew gross. You should hook up with her friend!

[RAWRstephishere]

I didnt even read half of it, and I know you shouldnt go back out with her.

[xblast196]

you guys (er.. girls) make it sound so easy.

her friend is taken. and i dont have a single chance.

[jue]

Is this even a question? Don't get back with her. How many times do you want to go through all the cheating and stuff?

[xblast196]

it's not like i want to...


but she's like the best thing that's happened to me.

[LovableGullible]

There are other fish in the sea.

[jue]

Doesn't seem like a best thing from what you've described. She obviously doesn't appreciate you and it seems like she's just using you. IMO, it's not worth giving her another chance.

[transcendentalis...]

what the f**k?
every single damn thing she's said to you was pathetic. all the stuff she does is pathetic. she's not the best thing that's ever happened to you, unless you've just been living in hell for your life so far. either way, she's hell personified.

i don't get why girls like her even exist.

[nosylilme]

it's not like i want to...
but she's like the best thing that's happened to me.

there, you said it yourself. you don't want to. why put yourself through that crap? you deserve better. you're only fourteen, afterall. you've got plenty of time to meet other people.

[xblast196]

what the f**k?
every single damn thing she's said to you was pathetic. all the stuff she does is pathetic. she's not the best thing that's ever happened to you, unless you've just been living in hell for your life so far. either way, she's hell personified.

i don't get why girls like her even exist.

it's not everyday a fat kid with acne finds a girl who likes him.

i think i'm a nice guy and all. i really do. but the worse part of it all is that girls dont see that. all they see is the crap on the outside, not the good stuff on the inside.

ugh.

[jue]

She's not the only girl you're gonna come across in your life. I rather be single than toyed around with.

[xblast196]

i guess you've got a point.

[LovableGullible]

it's not everyday a fat kid with acne finds a girl who likes him.

i think i'm a nice guy and all. i really do. but the worse part of it all is that girls dont see that. all they see is the crap on the outside, not the good stuff on the inside.

ugh.

well they must not like you for the right reasons. the girl you dated was really shallow. girls who like boys just cause they look good tend to end up with the jerks. Yeah the pretty boys might be getting all the love right now but its like they go through girls you know quick and i dont think you want that right? I suppose you want a girl for a real relationship and thats what you need a girl that will like you for the right reasons and not the right and not play you like she did and toy around.

[Relentless]

Yup. Girls are .... relentless.. (x

When I was reading the whole story, IMO, I would never want to be with her at all if I were you. The 2nd or 3rd try, i would've gave up on her.

She has commitment issues and she needs to settle that. I don't think you should go out with her. Besides you're only 14, it's better to meet other people than just her, and she's 17 who can't deal a relationship.

[charlg93]

''then, we started going out again. somewhere along the relationship
she told me "when we first started going out, i didnt like you. i was desperate." i was crushed. i didnt talk to her for 2 days.''

after she said that you should of dumped her!!!! i know how you feel but mine was worse, i said yes and went back to this lad 6 times. and then in the end i got so sick of him i dumped him. u can do better. and so could i, and i realized that. but u have to realize that to. she's not worth it. x

[blacknailpolish]

it's not everyday a fat kid with acne finds a girl who likes him.

i think i'm a nice guy and all. i really do. but the worse part of it all is that girls dont see that. all they see is the crap on the outside, not the good stuff on the inside.

ugh.

It sounds like thats the only reason you keep going back to her. Because you think she likes you and you're just settling for her because you think you can't get anyone else. Trust me when I say there will come a time in life when all the right girls for you will like you for the right reasons. This girl is definetly just using you. Really, I wouldn't even give her the time of day if I were you.

[Amaranthus]

She sounds like a hoe; I don't like her.
Your wasting your time with her. She thinks it's a game to play around with people, especially nice people like you (I'm assuming you're a nice guy). She's annyoing and manipulative, and frankly, I wouldn't her to be with you no matter how many times shes apologized. There's someone out there for everyone; don't gamble it on just one person.

[transcendentalis...]

who the f**k voted yes?
you're just gonna get crushed over and over again.

[shalalasusan]

Hell no.

You're too forgiving. :)

[minioligo]

She's just playing around with you...and possibly only wants you around for security. I hope this doesn't sound too harsh, but grow some balls and tell her that enough is enough. You're gonna find someone out there that'll treat you with more respect and love than she probably ever will. :]

[xirisx]

i totally agree get rid of her shes bad you sound decent..

[xblast196]

you guys are right.
i need to tell her "enough is enough"

thanks. :)