guh. help.. please. |
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 Aug 21 2007, 07:18 PM
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mmk.
i cheated on my bf with this guy.... who also had a gf.... so like we were both cheating. ... i told my bf... then he broke up with me.. so like im going out with that other guy... but he still has that gf...  and... like now... im stuck. i broke up with him once cuz of it.. but the next day i came back to him. and i love him so much. i reali dont care if he has a gf or not. i just want to be with him forever. and he knows that. he said he wants to be with me too...... ... but idk. ... so... any advise? |
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Aug 21 2007, 07:20 PM
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If he says he wants to be with you too, then why is he still going out with her?
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Aug 21 2007, 07:23 PM
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cuz he still loves her... he says he loves me more than her... but he loves her so much he doesnt want to break up with her.... [[idk]]
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Aug 21 2007, 07:31 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
It sounds like this guy just wants to have his cake and eat it too. If he really loved you as much as he says he does, he'd have broken up with her. I dunno, he doesn't sound trustworthy....
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Aug 21 2007, 07:41 PM
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hmmm.... but there's another thing.... he lives like 1500 miles away from me.. so... yeah... he just wants sum1 to hold... cuz he cant have me...
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Aug 21 2007, 07:51 PM
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 In need of socks? Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 564,283 |
I think that if he really loved you as much as he claims to, then he could wait until he sees you to have "someone to hold." I've been in a long distance relationship. If you wait, then it will make the times you are together even more special.
I know I wouldn't like it if my boyfriend had another girlfriend. I would be jealous and worried he would choose her over me. Is he really worth it? |
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Aug 21 2007, 07:51 PM
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QUOTE(blacknailpolish @ Aug 21 2007, 05:31 PM)  I dunno, he doesn't sound trustworthy.... Agreed. He doesn't seem trustworthy. If he loves you so much, he would break up with his other girlfriend no matter what the reason he's still with her is. |
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Aug 21 2007, 07:55 PM
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well.. i guess. but i trust him. i know he loves me. but... i guess... if he loves me as much as he says he does... he would break up with her... so... yeah... ty. im done.
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Aug 21 2007, 09:08 PM
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HAHAHA
ew. break up with him. |
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Aug 21 2007, 11:08 PM
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hmm sounds intense.
as for a 1500mile distant relationship good luck with that and im not being sarcastic. if you can handle it mad props to you. the farther it is the worse unless you both have easy access to travel to each other a lot. as for the cheating situation. like others said; if he loves like you he says he does. he would've ended it with the other girl it's like common sense to go with the one you like // love more && he claims he loves you more than her. so he might as well just end it with her. and if he wants someone to hold; send him a teddy bear. haha and if he knows it bothers you [[figuring you broke up with him because of it]] he would've done something about it to make you happy if he loves you more than the other girl. im not saying he doesn't. but i agree with others also when they say he doesn't seem "trustworthy" |
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Aug 22 2007, 12:09 AM
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QUOTE(xKADIE @ Aug 21 2007, 07:41 PM) hmmm.... but there's another thing.... he lives like 1500 miles away from me.. so... yeah... he just wants sum1 to hold... cuz he cant have me... that is so garbage. beg forgiveness from the boyfriend you were with & get back with him or find yourself a better guy than both of them. god WAKE UP!! HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND! HOW DEGRADING IS THAT FOR YOU TO BE THE LOVER ON THE SIDE!!?? sheesh. it is SO much better to have someone that is NOT with someone else & you are their numero uno. |
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Aug 22 2007, 02:24 AM
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^ ditto.
please don't taint "love" with your own interpretation of the word. you two wouldn't be in that situation if you loved each other. |
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Aug 22 2007, 03:25 AM
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I spy with my little eye...
... a skank! --- But seriously, you should have more self-respect than that. |
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Aug 22 2007, 03:27 AM
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That's not love. That's bullshit.
Break up. |
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Aug 22 2007, 03:35 AM
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Hehe! You both cheated on each other and you love each other? You're silly.
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Aug 22 2007, 04:15 AM
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QUOTE(blacknailpolish @ Aug 22 2007, 10:31 AM) It sounds like this guy just wants to have his cake and eat it too. If he really loved you as much as he says he does, he'd have broken up with her. I dunno, he doesn't sound trustworthy.... I couldn't agree more. I understand you love him.. but this is reality - if he doesn't love you enough to be able to dump the other girl, then he's not worth it. You can't expect everything to turn out right, c'mon you're in the wrong too. You cheated. Not picking on you but face it. 
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Aug 22 2007, 02:51 PM
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wow.... that bf of urs is something. IF(not a chance lol) i ever get to his situation, i'll say the same thing too lol. why take a piece of cake if u can get the whole thing. hell, i'll even take another cake if i can get away with it
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Aug 22 2007, 07:20 PM
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if he meant what he said. then it be over between him and her already
if not then. just break up with him if he's doing that to her. then he'll might as well do it to you since you dont really care thats he's with her. Right? |
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Aug 22 2007, 07:24 PM
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Both of you are f ucking morons. I ought to chop his dick off and rip your vagina out and feed it to both of you and see how you like it now. F ucking dipships.
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Aug 23 2007, 04:47 AM
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QUOTE(seonho @ Aug 22 2007, 08:24 PM) Both of you are f ucking morons. I ought to chop his dick off and rip your vagina out and feed it to both of you and see how you like it now. F ucking dipships. seon ho=  that made me lol |
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Aug 23 2007, 09:10 AM
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QUOTE(seonho @ Aug 22 2007, 07:24 PM) Both of you are f ucking morons. I ought to chop his dick off and rip your vagina out and feed it to both of you and see how you like it now. F ucking dipships. You can do better than that. I have very little respect for people who cheat. He's cheating on his girlfriend w/ you, it won't go on forever. Eventually y'all will be caught, if he doesn't break up with her. If he does and he starts dating you, what if he feeds you the exact lines he fed his previous girlfriend just to keep you until he finds someone more interesting and decides to cheat on you? |
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Aug 23 2007, 03:14 PM
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Actions always speak louder than words.
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Aug 23 2007, 03:29 PM
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The long distance thing doesn't usually work. Break up and find someone else.
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Aug 23 2007, 05:51 PM
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If he really wanted to be with you he would break up with her.
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Aug 23 2007, 05:53 PM
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QUOTE(Steven @ Aug 23 2007, 10:10 AM) You can do better than that. I have very little respect for people who cheat. He's cheating on his girlfriend w/ you, it won't go on forever. Eventually y'all will be caught, if he doesn't break up with her. If he does and he starts dating you, what if he feeds you the exact lines he fed his previous girlfriend just to keep you until he finds someone more interesting and decides to cheat on you? You can shut the f uck up and deep throat my cock until you vomit, you dirty sanchez. |
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