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Premarital Sex, Yes or No?
Is Premarital sex okai?
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post May 29 2007, 04:50 PM
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I wont be having sex before I'm married but its not just because its bad. Ehh, ppl can do whatever the hell they want. If they want to do the dirty, let em! Its not the best choice in the world, but it is their choice
 
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^I'd rather feel orgasmic.
 
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post May 29 2007, 09:14 PM
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QUOTE(steve330 @ May 29 2007, 04:15 PM) *
^I'd rather feel orgasmic.

laugh.gif I love that word! And agree shifty.gif
 
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post May 29 2007, 09:40 PM
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for girls, i reccommend the book "And the Bride Wore White: Seven Secrets to Sexual Purity" by Dannah Gresh. Even if you aren't religious, or have already lost your virginity it is an awesome and encouraging book! it has definitely impacted my life.
 
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post May 29 2007, 09:58 PM
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^Is it a book on about how people should save their "purity" til marriage? And that if you have already done it you're a filthy sinner that needs to be cleansed by pledging to a life of nunnery?
 
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post May 30 2007, 02:12 AM
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QUOTE(xLDSx @ May 29 2007, 07:40 PM) *
for girls, i reccommend the book "And the Bride Wore White: Seven Secrets to Sexual Purity" by Dannah Gresh. Even if you aren't religious, or have already lost your virginity it is an awesome and encouraging book! it has definitely impacted my life.

...But I like being unpure. It's more fun on the dark side!
 
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post May 30 2007, 07:35 PM
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QUOTE(steve330 @ May 29 2007, 10:58 PM) *
^Is it a book on about how people should save their "purity" til marriage? And that if you have already done it you're a filthy sinner that needs to be cleansed by pledging to a life of nunnery?


no. actually, even the author lost her virginity in her teenage years.

its a book to girls about how much they are worth, how precious they and there bodies really are, and why you should save your virginity till you are married, and if you have already lost it, how it is NEVER too late to start over and you are still just as precious because you didnt lose your purity; rather purity is a lifestyle you work toward to achieve.

its really good, i promise. =]
 
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post May 30 2007, 07:38 PM
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People think virginity is to sacred in my opinion, not that it's nothing, you really should only share it with someone you love, but I mean come on, lets be realistic, it's just sex. Your body isn't some sacred temple lmao...just my 2cents.

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post May 31 2007, 06:59 AM
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I think its fine but its better to wait until your married.
 
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post May 31 2007, 01:29 PM
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i'm pretty sure somewhere on this topic i've said that premarital sex wasn't just my thing and that i was going to wait until i got married. ha ha at me. :) it wasn't because i was just giving it away it was because i really care about him and i wanted him to be my first and my last partner. although i wish i could have pulled through until i was married i have no regrets. :)
 
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post Jun 11 2007, 10:57 AM
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No for me. Not for religious reasons, but because I have trust issues. rolleyes.gif

QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ May 30 2007, 08:38 PM) *
Your body isn't some sacred temple lmao...just my 2cents.[/b]


MY BODY IS 5 SACRED TEMPLES.
 
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post Jun 13 2007, 05:21 PM
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There's some line I saw on facebook that went like abstinence vows break more often/easiliy than condoms. So.. realistically it's nice. But seriously, stuff happens.

QUOTE(ana8 @ Mar 12 2004, 09:30 AM) *
I understand that there are risks involved..So if I don't wanna have a child EVER then I shouldn't be having sex at all, xquizit??


And I think it means that you should be prepared for the possibility, emotionally and financially. And mentally too, I suppose. Ha, in fact that's probably most important. Because there are always other options but you have to be prepared to deal with the fact that you are pregnant in order to get to the next steps of what to do.
 
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post Jun 13 2007, 08:41 PM
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as everyone else has said, read the bible! wait for marrage.. not okay wink.gif
 
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post Jun 16 2007, 10:56 PM
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I think it's okay as long as you find the right person you love and you're absolutely ready. But then again im agnostic, so..
 
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post Jun 18 2007, 02:39 PM
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Ohhh maiii gawddddd having sex before you get married = you going to hell!!!one!!!!11!!!
 
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post Jun 19 2007, 04:59 PM
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if you KNOW your significant other is the right one.. GO FOR IT!!
 
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post Jun 19 2007, 10:11 PM
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I used to always say, "Wait til marriage" but I, from personal experience, don't follow that anymore. So I can't really say, it depends on the person. If you really want to wait, then wait. If not, then go for it with someone you truly care about and not just for some kicks and giggles.
 
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post Aug 15 2007, 05:57 PM
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QUOTE(eunie03 @ Mar 8 2004, 05:14 PM) *
I don't believe you should go through a ceremony just to have sex. If you really truly honestly without-a-doubt know that you're gonna marry that person when you're "old enough" anyway... I believe any time can be the right time for the first... time. (I need a broader vocabulary _dry.gif)

Edit: Okay, WHO answered "moo o.o" -.-;;


i tottallly agree.
 
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post Aug 19 2007, 09:33 AM
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Maybe, I think it really all depends on the situation & the relationship. I don't think that premarital sex is okay for someone who has just started to date. But if it's a long-term kinda relationship, where both of you have been loyal to each other and you guys are serious, then I don't see what's wrong with it. I mean, it's your decision, your body.. if he lasted however long you've been going out WITHOUT sex, then I'm sure he really does like/love you (and not just in it for the physical part).
 
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post Aug 19 2007, 04:48 PM
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43 people voted for moo?

I don't really care I think its a personal choice, and I don't think that God should influence your choice to the point where thats the only reason not to.
 
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post Aug 20 2007, 08:42 AM
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Im not having sex until Im married.

Mainly because Im afraid of getting pregnant.
 
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post Aug 20 2007, 08:51 AM
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I realy don't think its that big of a deal.
I dont really consider sex sacred; i think of it merely as an activity that ppl perform in.
 
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post Sep 1 2007, 08:20 AM
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I personally say no, because of the values and morals I was raised with and learned in school. I'm just the type of guy who doesn't want to start problems before I know I feel secure enough in a relationship to enjoy a sexual relationship. I've refused sexual offers myself.
 
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post Sep 25 2007, 12:46 PM
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Heck no.

Something so precious should not be given away lightly.
 
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post Sep 25 2007, 04:00 PM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Sep 25 2007, 12:46 PM) *
Heck no.

Something so precious should not be given away lightly.


How does someone being married change whether or not something is "given away lightly?"
Further, are you familiar at all with our divorce rate? Lightly, huh?
 
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