He's so cruel. I love him. I hate him. We're just friends. Heartbroken?, Ugh, these mixed emotions are really confusing.. Options

[Jennifer]

I don't know how to feel and simply typing this out may help..

There's this guy, well my ex. When we were together it was like nothing else mattered. As long as I had him I was really alive.

But my worst nightmare came when.. we just fizzled out. It's really hard to explain, we just started seeing each other less due to being so busy, and eventually.. everything was gone.
I was so depressed for ages..

We luckily stayed friends which made me happy, unlike some people who want nothing to do with their ex's. Anyway, about a month after spliting up he admitted to having strong feelings for my two best friends while we were together. That was the most crushing thing for me to hear at the time.. I thought I was his one and only, I guess I was wrong.

Somehow though I put it past me, and we stayed good friends. Even though deep inside I couldn't handle the betrayal.
And now I even feel like I could love him again. And I do. It seems he shows an interest in me again aswell, but he always mentions another girl.. and another

These emotions are really running out and in and I have no idea what to do.

The bottom line is - He's moving far away in only a few days, and it's killing me. This is just .. unexplainable and unnerving and just..

[LadyXTor]

If he keeps mentioning other girls, he might not be as interested in you as you think.

[Jennifer]

True.. I don't suspect he's interested much actually it seems more like lust.

Ugh I just don't know anymore

[LittleMissSunshi...]

i know how you feel, some guys have mixed up feelings cause there not sure for themselves what they want. but it is better off your without. you wouldn't feel all these mixed emotions, you'll feel better [;

[Crash2]

Try to stop thinking of him as a boyfriend and more of just a friend. If he keeps mentioning other girls then he must think that you're not the one for him.

[gr00vyswordsman]

he may be playing hard to get, wanting you to think he has other girls that are interested in him? I ono since i dont know the guy...tease him about it see what he says back

[towntown2]

The fact that he's still expressing interest in other girls means that he does not feel as strong about you as you do to him.
Why bother pining for someone who doesn't get it?

Let him go.
You need to move on and find somebody.
It won't be easy, but it's something you have to do for yourself.

[Beunique]

from the title of this is seemed like a stry from quizilla haha anyway.. i feel the same with this guy that i like very much but hes going to college while i stay here with two more years to get out of high school.. anyway yea dont worry ull do fine.. i hope ill get over it.. he leaves tomorrow

[*Sandraaa*]

Gaaah, I understand you. You just need to get over him and move on. He isn't worth any of this, trust me. He freaking played you.

[Jennifer]

I get what you're all saying, fully.
But it's sooo hard to just move on.

In time it will happen, but I don't know how I'll deal with it.
Oh well.. time heals all wounds.

[*Steven*]

Time indeed. You know, if he's moving away in a few days, there's not much you can do. Maybe he's looking for a little action before he departs? Are you up for that? If not, then I wouldn't worry about him, and I'd just try to start getting over him effective immediately.

[kenshinx001]

try this: go get a better friend. see what happens after that. if he start going after u, then it's ur luck. if he leaves u alone then just stay with ur better friend while looking for someone who can sweep ur feet away

[pinayprincess]

as hard as it might be.. u need to cancel him from ur life--- i mean unless a miracle happens and he wants to be commited with u again, but the way things seem to turn out the more u stay friends the more u are getting hurt by hearing all his buisness about other girls... u can keep ur friendship if u dont have any hard feelings, but it seems like u do...

[msladyliberty]

I'm in the same boat with everyone. He probably doesn't want any attachments. He's moving away...

Try get involved in something or a hobby to get your mind off him. It helps.

[Jennifer]

Thanks every for the help..

What you're all saying is clear and I get it
But it's so much easier said than done.

Ahwell..